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Joeboard/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:04 AM
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I wanna shut this down asap.. just ignore it? Make her do more? I trust her and know she cant stand the guy, but having him contact her daily.. whether she responds or not.. is kind of annoying to me.. I dont let her know that but still.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:49 PM
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Its clear what happened. She gave some dude her # at the club. Her friend probably encouraged it. Did they just flirt? Did they makeout? Did eric pin your girl up against the elevator and fuck her? Who knows.. but this would cause me to lose a serious amount of respect towards her. She is relying on you for a place to live, employment and a slew of other things, yet shes doing this. Not good bro.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:09 PM
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Okay so. I went 7 years with no sex. From 20 - 27. Not necessarily by choice, I was a heavy drug user at the time and really just in a fucked up place in my life. After awhile, it just became every day life. But I always felt something missing from my life.. After getting clean, i figured it was just me wanting to get high again, but it wasnt. I was a complete introvert at this point, not doing shit with my life. Slowly I got my confidence back, started approaching and finally started fucking di…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:59 PM
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Join us over at wallstreetbets and turn that profit into some sweet tendies.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:03 PM
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I understand this is how you treat plates.. but what about the ones you want to upgrade?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:37 PM
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What im saying is, I like her. I wouldnt be doing this if I didnt. I wouldnt just send a chick cute shit just to prolong fucking her. So as much as I am in her frame, im kinda doing it willingly. But at the same time, it doesnt feel right to me. It feels like im setting myself up for failure later, if that makes any sense.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:11 PM
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Hmm. I tend to choose my battles. Ill stand my ground if its something I truly believe in? Im obviously happy with her, so it doesnt bother me to bend and do these things. However, I dont want her to get the mindset of all I have to do is act this way to get whatever I want out of him.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:44 PM
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Say anything ridiculous/stupid/funny, just nothing sexual.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 12:47 PM
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She claims she hasnt had sex in over a year, is a relationship girl and has never had sex with someone as fast as me.. I didnt believe it at first, but other things have happened which lead me to believe it. And was definitely feeling some way about just getting fucked. I knew for weeks shes wanted more and while I was open to it with her, I was very vague. The entire time, I believe have been playing my cards right and getting the results I wanted. Now the tables have turned.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:35 PM
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Serious question. Are you gay? I went 6 years without getting any action in my younger twenties. My sex drive was drastically low and I just learned to live without. I was nervous and just decided to avoid it, fearing I would just embarrass myself. Serious low self esteem. Slowly I rebuilt my confidence. Still have a long way to go, but I am okay where I am at. Learn to be yourself and do whatever feels right. Sex was definitely something I was missing out in my life and it took me years to real…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:28 PM
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I absolutely needed to hear this. But I think the problem is, I dont really know what I want..
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:33 PM
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We never talked about any of this. I never agreed on anything.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:32 AM
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She is just a really good looking girl and I think she got really offended that I did not want to hookup with her. I cant imagine she gets that alot.. Shes apologized, said she is mortified and not sure what to say. Typical excuse "it was the tequila". I think shes gonna be too embarrassed to want to see me again even tho I told her not to sweat it.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:25 PM
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Its not that I dont enjoy easy girls, most chicks ive been with were easy. She was drunk drunk. Like slurring her words and not making sense, it was a complete turn off not to mention I was worried about being accused later on. I think I dodged a bullet personally
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:06 PM
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Depends. Are you in a dead end job or career? I consistently flirt with our interns here because they are here for a few months, then gone.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:19 PM
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HR is there to protect the company.. not you.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:17 PM
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This shouldnt phase you. Your not dating. She should be wondering what kind of chicks your gonna be fucking that night, aswell. And if she isnt, your not doing it right.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:10 PM
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Lmao okay buddy. I spent 22 months in prison
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:15 PM
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Your right. The right answer is, run your mouth and when you need to back it up, run to the police. Alpha af bro.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:49 PM
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Lets be fuckin real here. Its college frat boys. Not thugs or gang members. You aint gettin shot, your not gettin stabbed. They smell your weakness and are exploiting it. 80% chance aint shit gonna happen.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:31 PM
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They are not going 5v1. They confronted him, said if he keeps running his mouth they will "beat him up". Same shit kids say in 4th grade. Im not a big dude, but my pride is large. Ive had my ass beat multiple times in my life and dont regret a single fight. What doesnt kill you makes you stronger. This is seriously the most bp thread ive seen here in quite sometime. Im amazed how many of you are telling him to go to the higher ups. Same principle goes for internet neckbeard trollers.. say what y…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:14 PM
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I guess. I wouldnt wanna be labeled a bitch in either scenario. Keep your opinions to yourself if you need the help of others to back you up.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:58 PM
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Bro.. you really think hes gonna get beat down for this?? This is petty hs drama.. its all intimidation tactics with an occasional blow to the face. Something every man should go through. His reputation will be done if he runs to the teachers. That kinda shit gets you on the same level as child rapists in the pen. Stand up for what you believe in, and if you run your mouth be ready to back it up.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:33 PM
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I will always, always, always respect a man more for confronting his issues head on rather than run and hide.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:47 PM
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I disagree. Most teachers and doctors are well educated soy boys. You think more red pillers are carpenters / plumbers, or english teachers and surgeons?
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:46 PM
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Stick with the nerdy girls
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:03 PM
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You ever smoke dmt out of an elk skull?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 04:27 PM
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Open a roth IRA at 18. Max out your contributions. Compounding interest is the shit.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 04:19 PM
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Okay. So why are they broadcasting it on tinder lol is their some kinda common fetish or theme that goes with the podcast??
/r/askTRP29/06/19 04:07 PM
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Makes their nips insanely sensitive and hard all the time.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:16 AM
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No, infact she is probably dying for some dick and doesnt realize her smv yet.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:12 PM
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Lmao the response above is why this subreddit is a joke.. No, i dont break frame and tell them they did something to hurt my feelings. Ill act unphased and pull back until she realizes shes done something I dont like.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:05 PM
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I dont understand.. you get her number and give her yours? The just sit and wait for her to message you??
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:24 PM
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Why should they? Even the whales are getting 100s of messages daily on dating apps.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:20 PM
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Yea, probably a weak move on my part but I was annoyed with her. Broke frame I suppose =/
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:08 PM
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ASD for a kiss? I mean she is only 21 (im 30) so im sure she might be a little nervous but the iois are there. Whats my move? Continue to try and hang with her after I get cucked like this and just pay attention to her actions or soft next and wait for her to hit me up?
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:07 PM
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Genuine sex workers are not walking the streets, or scouting hotel bars anymore. They are all online, getting clients. I was in vegas last year and was blown away by the amount of women there. Always figured it was mostly a guys city.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:49 PM
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I'm not a pushy guy at all, but that's a decent point.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:46 PM
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lol me? I applied a good amount of kino throughout the night, tons of iois. I usually go in for the kiss, but the fact that I work with her and she has a bf made me ask instead of just going for it. And I didn't know she was seeing anyone until after I had asked her to chill..
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:41 PM
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I'm just looking to have fun, no relationships.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:37 PM
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Im not thinking about this just for a fuck, id wanna do it for a fun weekend / something new / a vacation. I would be kinda let down if it was super akward and no sexual chemistry but at the very least I still think I could have a good time.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:03 PM
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Yea, basically. You need to be up early tomorrow for whatever, so it would probably be best if you didnt spend the night.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:24 PM
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Letting a plate spend the night is allowing them to think you are more interested then you really are. Only let potential ltrs sleep over. Especially if sleeping together means cuddling.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:10 PM
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I caught chlamydia earlier this year. Symptoms didnt show for 3 - 4 weeks.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 03:39 PM
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I'm not worried at all about losing her, im worried about investing any more time and not getting any kind of return. Idk if I should give her the not looking for a texting buddy talk or just ghost
/r/askTRP26/04/19 12:45 PM
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Fantastic move. This shows you know your worth and are uninterested in waiting around to seek her approval. Confident move.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:00 PM
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Ok you guys are okay right now. But how about when that guy starts coming around to take her out? Then one day you come home from work and hes there in your house sleeping with your ex that your living with.. could you handle that? Is that healthy for anyone there? How's that gonna affect your children? Seeing their mom and dad living together, but romantically with other people.. they will be able to relate ALOT easier with 50% of their school friends whom also have divorced parents.. Being div…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:05 PM
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This is so bad.. Its very obvious your holding out hope it will work out in the end. It wont. This has been in your own words a 10 month (probably longer) manifestation.. its an unhealthy relationship. She suggests seeing other people is game over dude. That is her way of mentally breaking it off. She gives you permission to fuck around only to allow herself to do the same and not feel any guilt. You cannot live together. Im afraid to ask who is the financial leader of the household, because I a…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:46 AM
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I thought you cant use a condom with silicone? I have astroglide but thats water based.. Im a little above average so I think going slow is the best route
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:36 PM
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I havnt asked her, but i kinda assume shes done some kinda anal play before just judging by her response.. shes definitely into some kinky stuff, which I like. Im not worried about a little smell or poop... i just dont want her taking a huge dump on my bed after I plunger her asshole.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 02:21 PM
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Ya I want us to both enjoy it. Ive read that before, but its probably a decent idea to read it over again.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:58 PM
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Hows the uhm mess usually? I plan on wearing a condom and having wipes nearby.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:56 PM
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Thicc bitches need some dick too. Nothing wrong with that if your attracted to her.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:43 AM
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You need a root canal or it will get worse. I crashed my motorcycle and knocked out 3 teeth. Two were fixed with root canals and a crown. the third I left bonded up. Eventually the crack made its way to the nerve and caused SEVERE pain. Had to go get a root canal on that asap. Root canals are priced differently, depending on the tooth (fronts are cheaper because only 1 nerve) But I think I was like $3k per tooth for a root canal and crown.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:40 AM
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Its happened to me a few times. The alcohol for sure doesnt help.. I got a few viagra and usually will keep a quarter pill on me just incase. Once you smash a few times and become comfortable with her, you shouldnt need them anymore.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:48 PM
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Normal for a super scarce mindset. A kid with all the toys in the world isnt crazy excited about his christmas present. The poor kid with nothing is fucking extatic getting a used xbox360 for christmas. In this case, you want to be the spoiled rich kid with options out the ass.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 01:29 PM
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Stepping out of your comfort zone is a good thing.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:16 AM
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Haha, yeah via TRP. But I am speaking for American males as a whole. Its really fucked up if you think about it and if our society doesn't drastically change soon, we will be on par with Japan really soon.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:42 PM
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I meant more of a societies expectations. 30 years ago, a single guy in his late 30s, early 40s was most likely looked at weirdly or probably a closet gay. Today its part of the norm. Finding a woman, marrying, having kids and a family was all part of the american dream
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:38 PM
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That was a US only study which stated males not having sex has gone up by 20%, while females not having sex have gone up by 8%. Plenty of reasons why. I think a lot has to do with economy / finances. More people are living home longer, a basic house cost 300k now, job wages have been stagnant for years. More people are focusing on trying to land a good job / career right out of school, instead of finding a wife like males here have done for decades. Social media / dating apps are also huge on th…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:35 PM
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Ill tell ya what to do. Get a fuckin life instead of trolling for attention like a pathetic bitch. If its that bad, make a fake tinder acct for some attention little boy.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 01:32 PM
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I watched my buddy play daddy for 4 years in his last LTR, I completely agree.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:57 PM
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Hah, I made a post about this the other day and everyone pretty much agreed and said fuck it, a decent looking single mom needs sex too. Im not looking for a relationship, just something casual. Ive never dated a mom before, new territory for me.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:56 PM
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Didnt read it all. Motorcycles are cool, but i can only assume you ride some shitty old cruiser or like a bmw or something. Even if you do, you can pull it off. Meet new people dude, you have a new slate with new people. Get a new haircut, new clothes, try not to look like an autistic retard.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:22 PM
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Lol chill the fuck out bro, you sound jealous af.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:19 PM
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This happens to me too and you know what, 9/10 times there are red flags prior that I chose to ignore.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:41 PM
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You in NYC or SF?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:42 PM
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Thats disrespectful af if you ask me. Old alpha only bought drinks to show off, not to seek potential "clients". She cant be stupid enough to believe that. With that said, you should of joked about it and moved on. Id of tried to fuck her that night with no intention of ever speaking to her again.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:49 PM
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Lol.. I get the whole texting for logistics thing. Messaging has been at a minimum but very flirty throughout. Shes told me her favorite drinks so I can "plan" somewhere to go. I havnt asked for a date yet, because ive been on call for work, working all weekend until next friday. Dont wanna plan for something 2 weeks in advance.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:13 PM
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Ive been messaging her like every other day or so.. and lately shes been double texting and initiating, so I know she wants my attention. As far as yesterday, I havnt acknowledged her presence at all, but she didnt acknowledged me either. It was really just a quick walk by.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:57 PM
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Dude get rid of them. I cant believe you still have them LOL. I used to just keep munching them down, then would hide my stash. Blackout and forget where I put them. Seriously tho, i got off the heavy drugs 6yrs ago and it was the best decision of my life. Your flirting with serious shit.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:37 PM
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Lol i know what I should of done.. Just didnt expect to run into her.. when i did, she like sprinted past. By the time I realized that was probably her, she was already at the register. You mean text her right afterwards? That seems akward af.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:35 PM
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Nooooo! Xanax makes you soo fucking retarted.. I was a heavy user of heroin and benzos. When i mixed xanax into my mix, I was taking a lot. Almost 10mgs a day. I literally lost months of my life in a straight blackout.. Benzos are a wild ass emotional rollercoaster. I literally almost killed someone with a frying pan in a xanax rage. Stay the fuck away.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:53 PM
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Raw feels better for everyone.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:53 PM
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I still cant believe that. "They" have to be lying about their last time smoking. Ive been smoking, daily, for 14yrs now. Have been on probation, in and out of rehabs for other things so testing was a normal thing for me. But honestly a surefire way would be for either you.. or someone supply them with clean pee. Or buy quickfix.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:32 PM
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There is no chance in hell your pissing dirty after 60 days. I have tons and tons and tons if exp beating drug tests. Id buy anothet test to rule out error. Remember, even a faint line is a pass. IF for some insand reason you fail again, you need to load up on water. 1 gal minimum starting about 24 - 30hrs before the test. Take vitamin b12 to make your pee yellow to avoid failing for dilution. Im a daily smoker and have used quickfix multiple times to pass.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:02 PM
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Legit reasons. As long as shes blowing you, i dont see much of a problem.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 11:58 AM
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Fuck bro its not a math equation...
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:42 AM
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Solid fuckin advice dude. I went suit shopping not too long ago, got dressed up to the nines by some cool ass gay dude having a field day. I look like a fucking boss in this suit and not a chance id of ever picked it out.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:18 AM
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Lmfao.. you think this is just with liberal women? Sidebar, awalt.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:04 PM
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Last girl i fucked raw from the rip gave me chlamydia so i proceed with some caution now.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:41 PM
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Because you dont really know who she is? Im not raw dogging a ons. Ill raw dog certain plates once I know what there upto when im not around.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:28 PM
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Im pretty sure they got a cure for hiv now too. And i think syphilis might be on that list too. Plan B for babies.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:45 AM
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Ive never met anyone who prefers condoms. Raw sex is the best, hands down. Still, good to be responsible. The first few times with someone, you should always wrap it. I caught something earlier this year, first time for me. A bit worrying, but honestly antibiotics will take care of MOST. Id never wear a fucking condom for a blowjob..
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:43 AM
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Shes licking your ass on the 2nd date? What a classy whore.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:36 AM
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Stop rationalizing it. Its 2019, you think she gives a fuck about her culture? One of the best lays ive ever had was this cute little quiet asian girl. Parents off the boat from hong kong. When she was around them, she was exactly what they wanted her to be. As soon as we were alone, she couldnt keep her hands off of me.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:11 AM
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Trp has nothing to do with politics. Just because people yell cuck and soyboy around here, doesnt mean they know shit about a true conservatives agenda. Find out what you believe in and own it, find a party or candidate who aligns with a majority of your beleifs. Be prepared to be let down, as all politicians will.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:56 AM
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If she wanted it, she will come see you for it. When this happens, its usually the first sign she is backing off / gonna bail. Withdraw all attention and work on other girls. If she comes back, cool.. if not, cool.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:49 AM
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She doesn't seem that interested tbh. When a girl wants to see you, she will always make time. If she just says shes busy and doesnt offer to reschedule, usually means shes not too interested in seeing you again. Move on. If she hits you back, you can try again. But continuing to hit her up and get rejected reeks of desperation.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:46 AM
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How long has it been? Something very similar just happened to me.. highschool oneitis hmu, havnt spoken in 10yrs. i meet her, we had sex that night for the first time. Fucked pretty much every other day for alittle over a month. Then she went completely insane, immediately distant, ghosted and later found out she gave me an STI. Tbh id probably do it again, but it was a complete shitshow from the very start. And your old emotions will come back. As much as I wanted to fuck and run, I quickly fou…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:31 PM
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You could.. but just seems like your holding a grudge and trying to get even. Aka breaking frame. It shouldn't bother you she is here one day, gone the next. Ideally we should have abundance and have other women to call and fuck. So no big deal she drops off the face of the earth. And once she realizes this, her attraction for you will only go up. But you need to remember, she isnt and will never be ltr material. This one is just a fuckhole.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:22 PM
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Pretty much this. Shes a hard branch swinger. Ive been with girls like this, they "fall" insanely fast for you, tell you youre the best theyve ever had. You fuck for a few weeks - a month and shes swinging to the next guy. You have a shot at your chance, but it will not last.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:51 PM
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I think deep down we all would love to just ignore and let them figure out to fuck off. But I get it, and ive done it. 1 - Dont ever let them feel like you were effected by them going ghost. Your life has been great, youve been doing great, everything has been working out wonderfully. 2 - Minimal contact for the first 48hrs or so. "Hey how u been?" "Good." "Cool." Thats it. She wants to see you upset and missing her. Do not let her see this under all circumstances. This gets her hamster spinning…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:35 PM
1

Confidence is key. Be confident, own it. Sex almost always gets better. The first time is always a little akward. Why tf are you nofap? You cannot let her know this was a blow to your ego. That will absolutely destroy your image. Your setting yourself up for failure with oneitis.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:26 PM
7

You are hung up.. your putting this girl on a pedestal, while shes been sucking an ogre's dick over yours for a year now. Ive done this, got back together with her only to catch feelings and get fucked over a few months later. Its oneitis. Its unhealthy. The smart move is to fucking forget about her. Go find some more fuckholes, and enjoy your life.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:49 PM
6

An alpha would never, ever, be hung up over an ex like this.. a yr later.. You forgot to use your anon acct.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:39 PM
4

Ive been there.. What you need to realize your whole game is wrong. Everything you did was probably wrong. Girls will lose respect for you when you become a beta bitch. Which is the exact reason she wanted to ride the CC instead of "working on your relationship" You should not be in contact with her. Its obvious you still have emotions for her and this will only lead to you being fucked over again. Work on yourself, work on your game, get out there and talk to other women.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:29 PM
9

Light choking / neck grabbing, fingers in her mouth, different positions, different rhythms
/r/askTRP10/03/19 01:54 AM
1

Why would I want to? I like the act of doing it, the taste and i like to pin her legs down with my arms while im going to town, so she cant move or squirm. I dont do it to get her off, i do it because im kinky and wanna do it. If you do it in a playful teasy way, girls will get insanely horny and be begging you to fuck them. Get me horny enough with the right girl, ill try just about anything.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:08 PM
2

I enjoy eating a girl out. I wont do it to everyone, but if shes been good to me and blows me when I want, ill go down on her before sex. Foreplay is fun and ive never met a girl who didnt enjoy some kind of foreplay. Some chicks are really insecure about their scent or taste. I had an old gf that would always tell me she hated being eaten. Reconnected with her years later and she absolutely loved it. Dont spend a half hour licking her snatch, but if you tease her, kiss and lick her properly she…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:24 PM
1

I can absolutely find better, with less drama. But something inside keeps sexually drawing me to her. Idk wheather its the taboo of her being married or the fact we grew up together as kids and split up right as puberty was kicking in. Why should I care wheather she is cheating on her husband? I already know she has and from our messaging alone we've already crossed lines. I have zero intentions on ever having a relationship with her and she knows that. Its strictly sex.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:01 PM
1

Never has sex before. By first crush, i mean like 11yrs old.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:32 PM
1

A good part of me wants to fuck her.. but I hate drama and know im flirting with a shit ton of it.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:43 PM
1

That was a few months back. I definitely wasnt going to do that.. and afterwards went distant. Recently started messaging again and im considering seeing her.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:32 PM
1

Id agree for the most part. Except im older than her and we were both eachothers first crush almost 20yrs ago. I disengaged a few months ago due to morals, recently started messaging again and im considering seeing her.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:31 PM
0

Im not gay. But personally id lose the earrings and grow the stubble again.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:15 PM
3

I caught something not too long ago. It wouldnt necessarily turn me off if the chick wanted to be safe. I would get the impression she wants to fuck raw tho. Make sure shes on the pill.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:08 AM
4

You would think being straightforward would be the best approach, but women love the mind games and behind the scenes fuckery (flirting, kino, escalation). If you catch a girl at the right time, maybe but consistently this is a losing approach.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:58 PM
1

Huh? No dude. Just say you had a good time and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:33 PM
1

If your culture and values mean that much to you.. im a white american, personally im pretty laid back, not religious or big into my families culture so im open to dating different women as long as im attracted to them.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:31 PM
-1

Awalt. It doesnt help that your a financially successful white dude living abroad in thailand. Id assume most local women would be throwing themselves at you.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:01 AM
9

Awalt. Lift. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:56 AM
1

Lmao what..
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:45 PM
2

Thats a lot. Ive gotten that in like 10 days lol
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:33 PM
3

Ex military, veterinarian.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:56 PM
5

Your english is pretty broken, but it sounds like you are depressed and unhappy with life. You need to make changes if you want different results. If your waiting for a nice girl to seek you out, your gonna be waiting forever. Make changes with your life. Seek a doctor or psych and see if you have an underlying illness. That will only give you more info on what changrs you may need to make.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:43 PM
1

I didnt read it all, but me personally, im not having sex with someone my buddy was fucking a couple of weeks ago. Especially if I knew he was BP. Thats just asking for problems. Unless ofcourse you dont value your friendship with him.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:38 PM
1

No. Plan a date nearby, escalate and then invite over. What kind of girl is just going over strange dudes houses off the rip?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:26 PM
2

Why are you going out with her? Drop her dude.. immediately. Its tough at first, but the quicker you do it the better life will be. She probably didnt get much action or attention throughout the night. You were there and she has comfort in you because she sees you as a puppy dog. You give her the attention shes craving and at most all has to do is kiss you. Its a win-win for her. I havnt figured out if women do this subconsciously or what, but be happy you denied it. Dont put yourself in that po…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:16 PM
18

Ive just recently dabbled in tinder and its pretty depressing tbh. Im only two weeks in and the only real responses im getting are thicker girls im not really attracted to. Def gotta get updated pics, im just not a dude to go around recording my life. I read somewhere that top 10% of girls get 90% matches. Top 10% dudes get just over 40% matches.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:09 PM
2

Bro its not odd or weird to feel like that after 2 weeks.. we've all been there. Remember she was nothing special and one of many many million. If you havnt already delete her off any and all social media or else these feelings will just linger.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:49 PM
1

Ive always been slim, but what really works for me is consistency. Eat 3 meals a day, every day, the same time. Load up on carbs and get a weight gainer. It is tough to drink a gainer and eat all your meals tho.. so you may need help burning some calories, ie the gym. I have a crazy metabolism but I managed to gain like 30lbs in the last 2 years not really trying.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:26 PM
1

Great answer
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:50 AM
1

Fuck my man im 5'9 155 and feel way too skinny.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:46 AM
2

You can't hide them at all by working out your chest? Girls love confidence. Have some kind of whitty response and own it.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:34 AM
1

Nah never jerked it for hours.. I can get off by myself in minutes. Not from sex, i end up fuckin till my dick is sore / numb. And it makes the chick feel like shit too, shes thinking its her or your not attracted to her.. You get used to your own motions and no pussy in the world will be as tight as your grip
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:16 AM
2

Never did meth, but was a horrible heroin addict. Congrats on being clean for a yr! Keep it up, I was around your age when I got clean. Now, after I got clean I really became antisocial. I didn't meet anyone, date anyone or have sex for YEARS. Id masturbate on average once a day. Sometimes twice, sometimes none. But never to the point where I thought it was too much. Well, finally broke my streak and started having sex again. Ive probably had sex 15 times in the last few months, havn't been able…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:06 AM
5

Pretty much the answer here.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:59 AM
4

Girls care so much about what people think of them. They don't want you to think they are a whore or a slut, so they use these defenses to make themselves feel better. Ill usually try twice, if I get denied the second time ill stop. She probably felt some tension from you when she denied you.. that's what that last part of the text means. If this was like a first date, I wouldnt worry. Wait a few days, message her to meet up again. ​ If youve been dating / talking to her for a bit and still this…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:53 AM
2

I wish I had the balls to hard next the last chick I was seeing. Saw the red flags but ignored. She ended up giving me an infection and somehow hamstered up a reason why I was a douche a ghosted me.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:43 AM
6

No.. currency trading is not it. Money makes money. If you don't have money, your not gonna make much without putting in work. Start an IRA. Open a high interest savings acct. DABBLE into trading (dabble.. I thought I knew what I was doing before I blew 5 figures) Everything is a risk and nothing is guaranteed.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:37 AM
29

I recently met an old friend for coffee. We fucked that night. Even if they didnt, she wanted to.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:13 PM
1

Its a shitshow given I never got my results. She first suggested it was prob a uti or something, but ive NEVER had one and guys dont get that like women do. Her reputation to me doesnt mean shit really and we dont have mutual friends. Were old friends who recently reconnected. She could of easily ghosted me and went out seperate ways, but she hit me back angry af because she was neg. It would take serious balls for her to do that. She had no way of knowing I never got results and doubted I ever …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:49 PM
6

I have a hard time getting off from sex. I feel like if I dont get off within 10 - 15 mins, I just end up rubbing my dick numb and have a hard time getting off, even if I jerk it. Most girls are good at 15 mins, I can usually get them off with my hands first.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:16 PM
1

Ive used those rhino sex pills at gas stations before, they 100% work.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:19 AM
3

Sounds like a scam. She'll get you to jerk it on cam, record it, then threaten to send it to all your girlfriend, family, friends if you dont pay up $1500.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:14 AM
1

At 15 I was sitting in juvie for felony theft. This is just a small setback, learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:07 AM
1

Holy fuck your retarded.. he stole your money bro, you got scammed. He never had the title, bank has it, it was being financed. You gave him money for the car, he stopped paying. Then agreed to give it up to repo..
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:04 AM
3

I know she is. She has incredibly low self esteem..
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:17 PM
3

Nah. I told her what I wanted and she ended up contacting me. Im not tryna play games and invest anymore into this, but its hard to turn down an opportunity with a girl im attracted to.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:16 PM
2

If shes like 5'7, shes gonna be taller in heels
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:59 PM
5

Im really like 5'9 but I say im 5'10. Never really been too insecure about my height. Ive never been with a girl taller than me tho, that would feel weird. I usually go after smaller girls anyway.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:37 PM
1

Major events have and are happening with her.. so I kind of feel bad but I also am not settling for the friendzone and want to be stern on this.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:06 PM
1

Thanks brother. Your comment helped me realize the situation from a different perspective.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 05:46 PM
0

Just said im off a 4yr dry spell.. ive tried.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:02 PM
1

I feel you bro, I just got off an almost 4yr dry spell myself.. sex is fun and enjoyable but it wont bring you complete happiness. Im still looking for that myself. On another note, lay off masturbation. If you are anything like me, youve been rubbing one out daily and it honestly has fucked me up.. never thought I would say that either.. I cant even cum from sex now, because ive become so used to my own grip.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:06 PM
1

On average I was a once a day fapper. But yeah, it definitely did fuck me up..
/r/askTRP28/01/19 10:49 AM
4

Ya i agree.. I went in trying to fuck and run, but I played into her shit and became invested. I absolutely knew this was going to happen too, perfect example of one of those knew I shouldnt, but did anyway things.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 03:18 PM
4

Went out for coffee, talked for a little, invited her back to my place to watch a movie. Made out, escalated.. got her test saying she wanted to wait until tomorrow.. backed off for a little, made out again and escalated and fucked. Had sex for the next 3 days in a row and then basically every other night.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 02:17 PM
16

Overinvested forsure. Women are weird as fuck, she was complaining that I have this wall up, my guard is up so high with her. And the second I drop it, she goes cold. I should of kept my distance.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:09 PM
34

I'm done with her, not gonna give a psycho like that my time. I need to work on my self and bang randos all summer long.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:48 PM
0

I dont think she paid for it.. its one of those free biography checks. Im positive she was or is into me. I know this is against trp narrative but im at the point where if we continue seeing eachother, im gonna feel invested. Im gonna try and meet with her tonight to shoot the shit and get on the same page. If she denies that, its a next. If we arnt on the same page, its a next. She has zero reasons to not trust me at this point. My a-game forsure isnt women, but thats why im here.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:42 PM
-1

She claims she has very protective family.. shes got 3 sisters, they are always gossiping with eachother. Its possible one of them did it, but im not sure tbh. She was in a nasty 4yr relationship not too long ago. Im sure that doesnt help the situation either.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:59 PM
1

Ugh. Ive know this girl for a long time, she moved away right before college, we didnt talk for almost 10yrs. Recently came back, we hooked up and just kinda started dating. I kind of knew this going in, but still went for it. She supposedly has bad anxiety and hasnt been on her meds since the move. I kinda can relate, Ive had anxiety issues in the past. But nothing this bad.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:28 PM
17

I quit my family business which I was destined to take over for a 9-5. Running your own show isnt all they make it out to be.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:55 PM
4

Im attempting no fap for deathgrip reasons. I was in a massive dry spell which lead me to masturbate / porn daily. Now im having sex again and its impossible for me to orgasm. You'd think this wouldnt be much of an issue, but the girl im with keeps doubting herself over it. Ive maybe masturbated 3 times in the last month, and still cant get off from sex.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:55 PM
14

Your worried about maintenance but your thinking of a bmw? Lmfao..
/r/askTRP21/01/19 05:33 PM
4

Being an alpha doesn't make your a conservative or a liberal, politics have nothing to do with natural instincts. I lean liberal on a lot of issues, does that mean im wearing a pink pussy hat marching for womens day? Absolutely not. Dont let politics control your life, believe what you believe in and dont get butthurt and break frame when you hear opposing opinions.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:29 PM
1

I can too. My issue has been deathgrip. So ive been unable to get off from sex. I went nofap almost 2 weeks ago, no lucky yet. But now im so mentally focused on not being able to cum the last time i had sex, I started losing wood out of nerves I guess. So I tried one of these, and had an insane rager from the slightest touch. Felt like I was 14 again lol
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:39 AM
10

Vasectomy is permanent my man. In life you have priorities, but they are always changing. At 22 you might feel this way, but at 35 your priorities might be different and a child might be something you consider. Im not telling you what to do, but before you sterilize yourself, think about it. Will a doctor even do this to someone that young? Id imagine most would require you to speak with a therapist or something before giving you the snip.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:33 PM
1

I read that too, however honestly I feel great today. No headache or hangover. But I already have some viagra en route, this was kinda a last minute thing. I dont plan on using these everytime, but use them every once in awhile, your girl will forsure appreciate it. Also my recovery time was literally like 10 minutes.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:40 PM
1

I underatand your concern, however that argument is valid for every single supplement on the shelves. I wouldnt just take some mystery drug without researching the manufacturer.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:41 PM
1

I didnt go in blind, did some research. Knew what I was getting into. No supplements are fda approved. Although to your point, they seem to be illegally adding viagra to the mix. But fuck, its not like I never sniffed or taken something ive got from the streets before. Take it for what you will, but it worked like a charm for me.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:18 PM
1

Well shes said she likes being dominated too, does that also mean she wants something else? Im just wondering if this is because shes on the rag and i know women menstruating crave that lovey dovey stuff.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:10 PM
1

Strength and gains. My goal was to put on 15lbs this winter but ive been stuck at about 9lb gains since early december (including all my holiday eating lol) I have a really fast metabolism. Im gonna back to carbs and weight gainers soon i think.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:48 PM
1

Okay well that makes sense. Im still tryna bulk, but ive hit a plateau
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:30 PM
1

I agree. If im sliding in a dm, i usually make it a priority to get their number asap. Small convo, flirting, get number and text for logistics.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:25 PM
5

Who tf cuts in January??
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:22 PM
1

I dont see anything wrong with it. Personally im the same way, i hate talking on the phone. I'd rather text and then talk to you when I see you in person. I think old school guys were like fuck texting thats pussy shit. Then it became acceptable to text along with calling. By now, im pretty sure most people (under 35) agree talking on the phone sucks.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:02 AM
3

I think the noob response came off fine and im 30.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 11:38 AM
3

General physical, blood work, std check.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 11:30 AM
1

If you think i made up the 30% rent rule, think again. Ill say it one more time, look into budgeting. Im outside nyc in nj, just as bad if not worse.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:39 PM
1

Holy shit i cant read that entire response my man. Yeah, i edited it after I realized I made a math mistake (like 1 min after i replied..) The 30% rule is pre-tax monthly income. Most landlords require you to make 3x what your proposed rent would be.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:16 PM
1

Going by the 30% rule, you should be able to afford a max of $880 a month in rent. Look at your expenses and see what you can cut to save $.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:40 PM
1

Im in the same situation.. along with a few other of my friends (our age.. im 29 too) Im making it a priority to be a frugal fuck for 2019 and get out by summer. I agree most girls probably dont care as much as youd think, but I care and I want out. Get a budget plan together, track your finances and see what you can swing. Edit: 800 a month is cheap as fuck. Everything ive been looking at is 1500+. Im not sure where you live or what you make, but 800 should be completely doable.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:59 PM
5

Idk why but i feel autistic for reading this.. Girlfriend wants to introduce you to her friends? Usually a sign she likes you and is comfortable enough to show you off to her friends. Maintain frame, dont let this chick try and make anything change. Ie, dont act and more or less dominant or flirty or whatever because she is there.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:29 PM
18

It happens man. Its happened to me and has happened to probably everyone on this sub. Only thing you can do from here is stand up tall, be a man and move forward. Delete her number, dont text / message her from here on out.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:26 PM
1

Ive had / have the same issue. Mostly just talking to people in general social situations. What has helped me a lot is simply talking to people more. Being comfortable with spontaneous conversations, knowing how to open, hold and end a convo. Try and spark a conversation with 10 random people a day. Anyone from a cashier at the store, to a bank teller, anyone. Male or female and just small talk. Flirting for me is generally being stupid funny / sarcastic with some kino / being physical.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:20 PM
2

Sounds like your unhappy af in your current situation. First and foremost.. fucking divorce!! Your a surgeon who makes 6 figures.. DIVORCE HER BEFORE SHE RAPES YOUR ASS IN ALIMONY IN 5 YEARS. Your unhappy, its only going to get worse unless you and your wife are legit on the same page and committed to trying to fix shit (which almost never works) God i can see it now, you carry on fucking with other women, 4 years later she finds out. Waits another year for the magic 10 and then divorces your as…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:13 PM
6

You guys are young yet.. but usually being exclusive should NEVER be assumed without talking about it. 99.9% of the time, the girl will bring up this conversation first.. The "what are we" convo.. If she decides to exclusively see you without talking aboug it, great, thats a good girl being loyal. If you do have the talk, it is not right to lie to her and say you will be exclusive, if your not. Make her earn the right to be your girl, dont just let her assume she is.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:03 PM
4

You cant ask her out. You cannot date your maid. Id be willing to bet your into mom / son porn. With that said, depending on how ballsy you are, have her catch you jerkin off and see how she reacts. Shes either gonna see a young stud with a hard cock or shes gonna get weirded out and probably try to avoid you.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:04 PM
8

Hah, this is awesome. Let us know what happens.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:13 PM
3

Because we still enjoy sex. The point i take from RP is to never let your guard down, never become vunerable and weak, never put all your eggs in one basket. Pretty much solid advice with anything in life, only makes sense for it to work with women too.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:09 PM
10

I cant see this going well. If your trying to get a threeway going, you need to make sure plate 1 is on board before you both scout for a friend.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:06 PM
1

Dont believe her. 10 partners at 23 isnt that low. Id say thats even above average to be completely honest. I also think its hard to believe she has a limited sex history and is still complaining about the sex she is getting. So either she has been around, and your not doing it for her or she is hiding something from you that really turns her on out of embarrassment.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:30 PM
0

Have you tried viagra? Cialis? Definitely give those a shot. Even something like aspirin or a bloodthinner can help. Also being in your own head doesnt help either, being completely relaxed will help.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:26 PM
1

Talk about kinks if your open to it. Maybe she is hiding something from you? Passionate sex can be hot, but it shouldn't be like that every single time.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:21 PM
1

Its on you to dominate her. Try new things, talk about kinks and fantasies. Fuck that focus on me shit, she gets hers if you fuck her properly. Its not like ive been with countless women, but ive never been with a girl who didnt like to be dominated in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:13 PM
2

What the fuck is this?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:09 PM
1

You already realize this isnt going to work op. You know what you need to do. Shes probably too busy suckin some new guys dick to be replying to you.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:22 PM
3

Why limit yourself to just asian women? And are you even going further to zero in on chinese, japanese, korean, etc..? I have heard a lot of asian girls like dating white dudes. Online dating apps is nothing but a numbers game.. and the odds are not in your facor. Women get TONS of new messages daily, yes, even the ugly 3s and 4s. I think you need to open your options up a bit. Ofcourse your gonna fail when #1 the numbers are against you and #2 your getting so specific with it, youd be lucky to …
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:19 PM
2

Get off the meth, its a fake persona. You may feel like it improves your social skills, sex life, cleaning skills, functioning but I promise you it is doing the opposite. I was bad with drugs for years, mostly heroin but it took me multiple attempts at recovery and probably over $100,000 to get off the drugs and get my life back together again. I'm 6 years off of heroin, and still working on myself.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:17 AM
5

No.. do not even hang out with her if she offers it. Trust me man, get away and get over her.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:24 PM
2

While ive never been to prison, ive been in juvenile detention, jail and probation for years. No pussy is worth TIME. And by time, you know what I mean. Do whatever it takes to fulfill your parole. Don't over think stupid shit and get locked up over some bullshit VOP. You aint a free man yet, even tho it may feel like it.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:21 PM
1

The term fake it, till you make it actually works well with confidence.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:17 PM
1

I ended things with her because I was sure she was or was going to cheat.. but thats true with most women unless you keep your game tight. Be very happy you got away from that one, dont be surprised if she starts popping out babies like my ex. Not sure what you mean by reach out? She was nuts, threatened to hurt herself, sent me pictures of her doing drugs, etc. That lasted a good month or two until she found her first baby dad.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:15 PM
2

I think its pretty obvious your confused. You say you never want marriage because of infidelity. But you want a relationship. But because of infidelity, you want a side chick for reassurance. Why bother dropping all your other plates for this chick then to begin with?? Esp if years ago you made the decision to opt out of monogamy? Listen, trp isnt a one way path if you dont make it one. Figure out what you truely want, and get it. If thats spinning plates, than spin plates. If you want to experi…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:11 PM
2

There are still women out there, whether it be hormonal imbalances or what that want sex all the time. Some women go as far as baiting for CNC sex or end up doing sex work. But as a generalization I would say males by nature have a higher sex drive. Idk if i would agree on 2:1, but higher.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:58 PM
2

Yeah my ex has an insane body aswell. Great sex too, as usual with the crazy ones. I did actually go raw on her, thankfully i never caught anything. I just couldn't keep up with the sex and drama. Caught two charges for fighting because of her in 3 months. She would just start the most insane shit ever and expect me to back her up / finish it.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:55 PM
13

Yes, the girl I lost my virginity to lol. She was batshit crazy, fed off of drama and drama alone, BPD, the whole 9. She wanted to have sex like 3 times a day, everyday. In risky spots like a public bathroom, in the car at daytime when people could potentially se.. And me going from having no sex to her wanting it every 5hrs was just too much. I lasted about 5 months with her. Broke up, she was preggo within another 5 months. Now shes a single mom with 3 kids, 3 different dads. I havnt seen her …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:30 PM
-1

That couldnt of been enjoyable for her, or yourself.. Usually you gotta warm them up for anal, lots of finger play, lube, buttplugs / toys. Did you just stick it in or did u fuck her ass?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:11 PM
2

Your setting yourself up for a bad case of oneitis. How do you know this girl is LTR material if youve never even been out on a date with her? Stop trying to find "the one" and go out and enjoy spending time with girls.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:35 PM
2

Well what if your both into the same shit? Idk my goal is to not get her to do something she DOESNT want to do, my goal is to get her to do something I WANT her to do. And i think thats what turns a girl on.. preforming something for me. Whether she wants to do it or not is on her, but I will still try and push the boundaries.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:51 PM
9

Ive been actively trying to be more dominant in the bedroom, most of it comes off pretty naturally. You have to fuck her and treat her like your fucking her. Grab her neck, grab her hair, pull her arm behind her back, put your fingers in her mouth, say dirty shit. Dont ask her to switch positions, tell her which position you want her in and throw her in that position.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:00 PM
13

I sometimes think this place is crazy cult like, but then i come across real world scenarios that are talked about on here over and over again and really makes me think stuff like AWALT is 100% true. I take what I need to take from here, and I assume most other users are the same.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:07 PM
1

I get off all the time by myself.. its my grip.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 01:52 PM
0

I really was so caught off guard by this, i wasnt sure what to say at the time and just panicked. Im gonna read through that now.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 09:14 PM
0

I might of came off beta by talking to her about it last night, but i didnt want her thinking I wasnt into her.. i still act very dominant during sex, and she enjoys that. Shes 5'1 and 100lbs.. i only use my middle finger to finger her. Shes pretty tight man. Im just use to squeezing on the head of my dick I guess =/ I just dont get it, when i was a virgin i was jerking off all the time, when i lost my virginity i had a condom on and was lucky to last 2 minutes. How is my 3 yr break any differen…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 09:05 PM
0

Lmao.. im not gonna put it on her, ive already talked to her about it a bit and she seems understanding, and willing to keep trying. I could tell from the first night, after sex we cuddled for a bit and she was asking if there was something wrong, if i found her attractive. And the second night is when i told her listen its been a little since ive had sex and it might be just nerves. I guess this is better than not being able to get it up, idk. And we were fuckin with the condom, i was going sof…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:38 PM
3

I mean fucking for awhile is cool, its nice to see her enjoy herself.. but at the end of the day, i wanna get my nut off before my dick gets sore and numb. I just wonder what shes thinking about this. She must like the sex, because she came right over the next day.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:22 PM
1

That's the exact position I was talking about when fucking her from behind.. im not gonna touch my dick all week and we'll see what happens this weekend.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:18 PM
2

That's basically what I was doing man.. this sucks..
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:45 PM
3

Thats not it, but i dont want her thinking this.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:36 PM
0

Yeah, I mean thats the obvious answer.. Idk, its not like im some furious dry rubber, jerkin till my dick is bleeding. I use lube, im not really into super kinky porn that i NEED to see to get off.. i thought 100% i was gonna be a two pump chump. I can tell she is bummed out over this. Im pretty certain she is getting off.. I reassured her its not her, and told her its been awhile since I had sex last. I dont want her thinking im not attracted to her.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:35 PM
3

Which position? Fuckin her from behind was probably the closest I got last night. So your saying you still have effects from the deathgrip to this day?
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:27 PM
1

Not really concerned what your opinion is.. I do however love the fact that I get under your skin enough for you to reply paragraph after paragraph trying to explain yourself. Im very dignified, ive been off the drugs for 6 years now, made 6 figures this year, wbu?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 04:21 PM
1

Does this really help? I definitely over do it with caffeine.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 01:48 PM
1

For such a successful guy, you seem real desperate for $200.. honestly, you turned me off with your donating the funds talk. I got my kick out of listening to you put a price on your dignity. I might consider it if you let me upload the video, ill get it frontpage on wsb and make that 200 back in views.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 01:44 PM
4

Im 29. I spent a good portion of my early - mid 20s being a drug addict bum.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 10:28 AM
1

Call her and tell her.. i mean there is no easy way to sugar coat it, tbh. Just tell her your doing this for her best interest and that she should go get checked just incase.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 08:24 PM
1

She matched with probably 30+ guys that day and had a bunch of other better options at the moment.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 07:42 PM
3

Being a dick is not rp, its being a dick.. You need to tell who ever you recently had sex with. Stop raw dogging nasty hoes.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 07:13 PM
1

Im certain she wants to hookup aswell. I think im thinking too mucb about this, and I should just enjoy my night with her, get it out of my system and move forward.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:06 PM
1

Well thats different. If its a barber, your good. If its a wannabe hairdresser who has a part time gig at sports clips, walk tf out of their.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:57 PM
3

Congratulations, you passed the test! She will be hitting you up for a booty call in a couple of days.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:53 PM
15

First and foremost, ive battled depression before and its very real and can be very debilitating. You need to address this with therapy. You have to appreciate yourself before you can appreciate others. Now, i think its safe to assume she feels hurt by this. Meaning she probably thinks she did something wrong to scare you away. Girls are insecure like this. You can salvage this, but it wont go anywhere if your depression has the upperhand. Id not message her for a week or so, then randomly hit h…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:49 PM
1

Noo, thats exactly what I want to avoid. She seems really into me, like to the point where she remembers everything about our past, old conversations everything. I was a little taken back by that because I forgot most of it. I dont care shes mentioning her ex, i want to avoid being the person she goes to for emotional shit because thats a one way trip to the friendzone. I agree, it would be a mess. But I keep thinking about the 18yr old me that wanted to fuck her brains out, and now I have a cha…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:43 PM
2

Definitely not. What I am trying to avoid is her thinking i am relationship material.. ive seen the good and ugly side to her years ago, and thats not the person I want to invest my time with. I wanna fuck her for the 17/18yr old me that never did.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:24 PM
2

I completely disagree. Great clips, sports clips, all those franchise places are horrible. No shape up, no straight razor. Just a quick cut, and your out.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:04 PM
1

Id look elsewhere. The place i go to is a little pricey, $30 for a cut and shave, but they will spend no less than 30 - 40 minutes with you.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:44 PM
3

Do not get your hair done by a chick.. go to a barber shop, a good one where they will spend 30mins minimum making sure you look good.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:14 PM
1

Yeah shes not my only option, esp this time a year. But realistically, seeing her after not seeing her for so long is kind of exciting.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:03 PM
1

Appreciate the response! I know its not unusual to talk about exes, but usually youd wait a bit before bringing it up. She is acting like she needs someone to vent too.. but i dont want to be an emotional tampon, because i know where that leads.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:00 PM
1

But if i say something like that i feel like that is sending a signal that i would want to date her.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:48 PM
-1

I think im fairly well spoken. Its a bit different on mobile but i get what youtlr saying. Aint is in Websters now... along with brung, Its valid =/
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:42 PM
-1

Brought = brung bro
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:38 PM
1

A lesson in grammar is not a dictionary.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:37 PM
1

You need a dictionary?
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:34 PM
1

Im not too worried about it. I dont want to date her, i just wanna fuck around for a little bit. But i think i was her last relationship here in this area before she took off for college. Even if the alpha widow theory is true here, their gonna be a thousand miles apart from eachother.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:32 PM
8

Lmfao are you serious? This is a great thing.. Girls love having what other girls want.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:40 PM
1

I hope to god you weren't going after her in an attempt to make your oneitis jealous.. You need to drop them both. Gone, unfriend social media, cut all contact to them. Work on yourself, meet women you dont already know.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:06 PM
3

Some guys are perfectly fine smashing ugly girls. Less effort I guess?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:37 PM
7

Nah dude, your wrong. Ive seen a vid of some ugly far girl exposing her online dating messages, thirsty ass dudes hitting them up ALL DAY LONG. Even a 4 is sifting through 20+ new messages a day.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:28 PM
1

Honestly, no. She cares too much about how her friends judge her.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:19 PM
1

Nah, girls talk about guys A LOT. Your oneitis cock blocked you.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:57 PM
5

I didnt really read through everything. But your hitting on tourists.... their on vacation, she probably wanted to fuck but you couldn't pass her tests and she had a change of mind. DM her your number, say you like to keep your business and private life seperate and if she wants to chat, to text you. Then stop replying to her emails or ig, everything, until she texts you. She would never ever text you if she didn't want it.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:45 PM
3

Its not because you were fat (well probably not). You creeped her out by being too beta. You became a nuisance and she literally felt the cringe. Dont feel horrible, weve all been there. You need to branch out outside of her or your social circle.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:41 PM
10

Next. Girls match with every single dude they swipe on.. they have messages all day long of guys wanting their number. You gotta be creative and catch their attention, quickly. Its literally a numbers game and the odds are not in your favor.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:38 PM
7

I think it will. You will be the new sexy exotic guy in town, women love that shit.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:18 PM
1

I hear you man, but your only taking it out on yourself if you let that get to you. It will also help your confidence by pushing through, but you are your own person.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:11 PM
1

Switch gyms if that is the case. I walked into a gym at 129lbs and was straight benching the bar. I felt beyond embarrassed but ended up having some people help me out with tips on form and whatnot. No one walks into a gym their first time shredded.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:00 PM
6

Wow, this is fuckin gold..
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:52 PM
3

Okay so, this is a bit different considering how young you guys are and her families financial situation. Pay for the date. If she offers to pay for her half, let her. I wish i found this sub in my teen years..
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:48 PM
0

Use this feeling as motivation brotha! Do not give in! Honestly, those kids probably aren't even looking at you, its all in your head.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:46 PM
2

This sub has a pretty steep learning curve.. think of it as tough love. It sounds like you are way too invested in her and are not on the same page with anything. Shit like this is something you need to have a conversation about. Usually the girl is the one to bring up going exclusive first. You should never assume you are exclusively dating unless you both agreed to it. Is she seeing other guys? Did she just hint at possibly seeing other guys? Either way you need to act like you have abundance,…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:43 PM
8

You did the right thing. No one has time for bs social media. If she doesnt agree to meetup, i would next and not waste anymore time.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:37 PM
8

Say you've been busy with work, setup a date for this weekend. Bring her back to your place, bend her over and plow that fat ass.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:33 PM
0

My original reply was a response to a comment here, "just work on your game"
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:52 PM
-5

Then why are some ugly ass dudes with money getting IG models? Why are gross looking youtubers walking around with swedish models? Social status means a lot in a girls mind. All im saying is everything plays in equally. Its not just "work on your game", its work on yourself as a person, in all areas. This all aligns with trp theory
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:11 PM
1

Im not saying they are more important.. you have to understand how superficial women are, esp in their 20s, prewall I see it all the time.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 01:36 PM
27

Too many idiots on here are saying just work on your game, a 3 with good game will slay 9s no problem.... Attraction is a MUST. If you are lucky enough to be born looking like a greek god, then you have the upper hand forsure. You cant change the way you look, but you can change your appearance. Haircuts, shave, proper fitting clothes, etc will all help your image. Alternatively, if your work your ass off and pull up to the club in a nice car, expensive suit, nice watch, you will also get women,…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:18 AM
8

My fucking brother knocked up his girlfriend losing his virginity.. Do not be like my brother.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:08 AM
1

I def have a scarcirt mindset right now. This is our busiest year to date at work and I have doubled my salary in overtime alone. Ive been on a few dates over the summer that didnt really go anywhere, a big part of that is just scheduling dates. Its hard to practice abundance when youve been fucking your hand for awhile.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:07 PM
1

But i dont want to be a provider. I dont want to date her, i like being single, i want a fwb relationship.. I guess i just have to stay solid and not break frame.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:04 PM
0

Im just a little confused on how to approach it. I originally thought she was coming back for 5 days and wanted to just catch up for one night. Now it seems like a lot more. She also has some other things going in which makes her very vulnerable and shes looking for safety. Shes acting off of old emotion and the truth is im not that same person anymore. I want to fuck her, always did. But i dont want a relationship, and i dont want her getting emotionally invested. I wanna be the rebound used fo…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:49 PM
-1

Not really.. at that time i thought she was just visiting and that was that. Now i found out shes broken up out of a serious LTR and is moving back here. This isnt just a quick hookup anymore, like i had originally thought.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:52 AM
33

You will slowly drift further and further away from people and become a real introvert. Its not a bad thing if you are truely all for monk mode, but after a couple of years of not having sex, you will feel like something is really missing from your life, which leads to unhappiness. Source : personal experience.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:10 PM
1

Maybe someone with higher smv has come into her life? Maybe shes bored. Maybe she is prone to peer pressure from her friend? Is her friend single? Maybe those two have a history of going out, getting drunk and doing "regrettable things" (or so she says..) If she said this one time, in a joking manner then I wouldn't worry too much. But she kept mentioning it = her planting the idea in your head to use as an excuse later. Either way, this isnt a good thing.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:06 PM
19

You say you made 8 figures and are young. Take 500k and go travel the world. See different things, cultures, party and meet tons of women. If you havnt already get some good financial investors, you should basically be able to live off of interest. Do not fall victim to gold diggers. Very very attractive females will gush over you, but only want the lifestyle you are able to provide for them.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:56 PM
1

I understand the wall, but remember.. she lives a thousand miles away and is flying here to visit family. I happened to find that out by looking thru her fb page. Their is no bb of her dreams. Its either hang out for a night, catch up and fuck or nothing.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:26 PM
1

Noooo. No chance of commitment, she lives a thousand of miles away. Im more wondering if I should message her or sit back and see if she reaches out. I already accepted her friend req.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:55 PM
2

I agree its the scarcity in me talking.. not sure what you mean at that age tho?? As long as she wants sex, im okay with that.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:02 PM
3

I think messaging first reeks of desperation, no? The only way i would know she is coming is by reading through her latest posts.. idk. Atleast it would cut the shit and get right to the point. Also, looks like she doesnt drink. I see a bunch of AA shit on her fb page along with what I think is her sobriety date. We were both pretty heavy partiers, i fell into drug addiction and im assuming she probably did aswell.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:47 PM
3

Its her hometown... shes visiting her family for christmas.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:42 PM
6

Unless she is a freak, super kinky, into rando fucks AND you are good looking.. it wont work. And if it does work, id imagine shes been tore the fuck up for years.. some girls will fantasize about this kind of shit, but never go for it irl. (they need trust really..) Could work with a friend / someone you have SOME history with if you catch her at the right time.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:39 PM
7

I dont use apple, but isnt that shit like a dollar? I mean thats hardly a scam and could of been used as a validation excuse. "Oh i went over because he helped me setup my apple cloud". Idk the reasoning really.. but i sincerly sincerely sincerely doubt an ex is going to hit you up, talk dirty, dress up and come over to scam you out of a few gigs on the cloud and 2 slices of pizza.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:49 PM
10

This is the first thing that popped into my head after reading the story. She was frantically looking for an excuse to validate herself being there... other than sex. No girl wants to be KNOWN as a slut, although most girls like being slutty. She wasnt trying to scam you out of a $15 pizza.. that is just ridiculous thinking. Now, if she started telling money trouble stories, like how her phone, cable, electricity is about to be shut off because she cant pay the bill.. well thats a HUGE red flag.…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:23 PM
76

God this is cringey.. shes not interested bro, if she was she would of jumped at the opportunity to meet up with you. Do not text her "god your boring" after she curved your ass.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:10 AM
2

Why are you allowing your male friends to brake your frame? They probably think your just as annoying, everyonea got different priorities in life. Dont expect everyone to have the same as yours.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:12 PM
1

I want to go into monk mode this winter, hit the gym, get out of debt and focus on some other priorities in my life. Not really looking to game anyone. Didnt want this to happen, it just kind of did and the more i distance myself the more she seemingly wants me.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:52 PM
2

Shes cheated before. And will continue to cheat. Not too worried of false rape claims, because i have plenty of evidence that she wants it. Id or probably done it by now honestly if she was more local and our schedules matched up. She wanted me to take a day off work and come up to her place. I told her that im not doing that, and if anything id get a hotel room somewhere. But im starting to talk myself out of that idea. Not so much family friends anymore.. Her mother and my mother had some seri…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:12 PM
1

Yeah, spend periods of time in a zero gravity chamber. ​ 1" aint gonna do shit, but you know what you can do? Work on your confidence.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:12 PM
6

Time for a life of fucking hookers.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:46 AM
1

First of all, what do you mean "trying to leave"? No one is forcing you to work there. This is a good opportunity for blackmail.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:41 AM
2

Not really man. You retire at 40 with a great pension (cops prior to retirement around here pull in 120 - 160k) After you retire, almost all of them move on to opening their owb businesses / investments. Personally i could never be a cop, just isnt a gig for me. Id probably turn into a shady cop anyway lol But its not a bad idea.. Id stay away from construction. Been in that industry for 10yrs. Become a god damn stock broker / trader. They all love cocaine, high end hookers and money.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:54 AM
2

You have to talk to / game / hit on other women. Even if it gets nowhere, it will help you forget about her. Absolutely delete all social media contacts with her. Its tough, but as time goes on it gets better. But seriously, the only thing that got me over my oneitis was talking to other women.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:13 PM
1

It wont. Its purely for entertainment (and also a killer workout). When I was your age, id get together with a few of my buddies every weekend and we would spend hours riding. Bikes / gear / parts are expensive, but ive never met a girl who didnt atleast seem somewhat interested when I tell her I used to race.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:14 PM
1

Ive always always been attracted to the adrenaline rush of action sports. Motocross, fast cars, snowboarding, hiking, rock climbing, etc.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:19 AM
2

I was supposed to take over a family business. Had to get out of it though, running your own business just isnt worth it IMO unless your making millions a year. Too much stress. Youll never have a day off, ever. Work will be the first thing on your mind in the am, last thing on your mind before you fall asleep. When you dont need the money, youll always be your busiest. When your hurting for money youll always be slow. No time for personal life, your business will take 100% of your time. You can…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:23 PM
4

Lol no one enjoys hanging around a dick.. Learn the difference between holding frame and what you believe in vs being a purposeful douchebag to people.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:41 PM
6

Being a dick is not attractive. Being confident and firm is very attractive.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:55 PM
1

If the sex was good she'd be wanting to hang out again and again...
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:31 PM
6

Absolutely.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:00 PM
4

Im not one to advocate violence.. but some lines were crossed here forsure. Was it a glass bottle? If so, im running at whoever threw it and immediately punching them in the teeth. However, this has consequences. Assualt charges, school suspension, getting your ass kicked, etc. However, even if consequences happen (including getting your ass kicked) your respect will go up. So its a balance. Revenge isnt the answer here, let this incident go however if a similar situation pops up, you NEED to st…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:58 PM
1

This is good.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:17 PM
2

Jesus dude, i couldnt read all of this. Your WAY WAY over thinking it. Get out of your own head. Get her number asap. Text her, setup a date. Kino, escalate. If she says no, makes excuses to not meet up, than ignore and move onto another girl.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:15 PM
0

Dude, im not saying go out and rape bitches. Game girls. Make them want to be with you. Dont have sex with someone who is extremely drunk party, but get numbers, set up dates, hang out one on one, kino, escalate. Even if you dont get laid, your young and its good practice. Dont procrastinate and act like you'll magically have all this game once you graduate hs.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:23 AM
1

Well considering the market is closed on sundays, i find it very hard to believe you were putting in 19hr days mon - sat. But more power to you. I missed out on the college experience. I was also popular in hs, got some pussy but nothing crazy. This is why i would again, tell 15yr old me to get with as many girls as I could. Most were more than willing to put out in jr - sr year. Reputation is absolutely everything, but i think your failing to realize this is only 2 - 3yrs out of your life. Your…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:35 AM
5

Uhhhh thats the best time to be slaying pussy. Wait until your in your 30s and work 60hrs a week.. You'll hold onto minimal friends from hs. Make friends, approach girls, and dont be afraid to fail because 4yrs goes by quick and you'll never see 90% of your classmates ever again.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:22 AM
28

Good for you man! Keep it up, and no matter what, do whatever is best for you.. even if that means going against some trp suggestions. If i could tell 15yr old me anything, it would be to slay as much pussy as you can in hs. Trust me. Stay away from hard drugs, save your fucking money and open a roth ira at 18.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:59 PM
1

Fuck man im 29.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:00 PM
2

Focus on making the most money possible in the shortest time frame
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:46 PM
3

Jesus christ I dont want to get old.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:44 PM
4

Gaming other girls will absolutely make these feelings subside as quickly as possible. Its the only thing that really helped me get over my oneitis. Its gonna be rough since you will see each other often, keep everything work related ONLY and at a bare minimum. Do not play any games, don't try to make her jealous, trick yourself into believing you still have a chance.. its over. ​ ​
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:43 PM
3

Depends on the situation. Famous / wealthy / high status, pretty much forever. Broke / average / nothing to offer.. probably into your mid - late 30s.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:37 PM
1

Sooo.. if i dont fuck her, cheating will stop worldwide?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:58 PM
2

While I dont disagree, its really none of my business.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:41 PM
1

Well the issue is, im not his bro. Never met the guy. And im friends with her, we grew up with together..
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:21 PM
7

First off man, you had a bad first date. Big shit, we ALL have. So what happened because of it? Prison? Torture? Oh thats right, nothing.. Its ALL in your head man. Girls LOVE confidence, you need to act confident. Even if that means faking it for now. Step out of your comfort zone, it will do wonders for you. Dont be afraid to fail, failures are how we progress.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:48 PM
1

Ive never been with a married woman before so this is a first for me. Ive been cheated on before and it absolutely sucks, I get it. We grew up together, were eachothers first crush at like 11yrs old but then moved away. Recently we reconnected and it just happened. I brought up my concerns with her and she consistently reassures me he'll never find out, however im still iffy about the situation. Shes cheated on him before, it will continue. Whether its me or someone else. I plan on wearing a con…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:19 PM
1

Was gonna say this, but then that might give her the idea you may be open to this and one night you'll go over and see some big ass hung black dude there ready to go. Parsonsally I wouldnt be against tag teaming a girl, but definitely not one of my plates.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:57 AM
5

Shes insane and doesnt know what she wants. Shes looking for a relationship, not a fuck buddy. She wanted you to spend the night and cuddle with her. Girls like this LOVE drama and will drag you down into it.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:46 AM
9

Shes crazy.. next.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:26 AM
15

Its called priorities and everyone's are different and ever changing.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:26 PM
3

Dont break frame. Ignore, act unphased and definitley do a soft next, nc for awhile. Shes obviously trying to get you to break frame and is craving your attention, but going about it in a horrible disrespectful way. This is why you need to punish her with nc. And ask yourself if you still want to spin this plate. If you do, do the above. It might lead to awesome sex. If youve noticed other redflags with her, feel too disrespected or are just sick of her shit than this might be an appropriate tim…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:52 PM
9

Lmao.. I dont think that's a good thing. Former heroin addict here, there is no appeal to it.. and the only girls you get are other smack heads who will suck you off for a $5 bag.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:23 AM
7

Maybe go out with him one night and be his wingman. Id hold off on getting into fine details.. after all, your fucking his little sister. Really depends on the relationship you have with him.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:55 PM
1

Shes sent me plenty of pics already.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:14 PM
1

Yeah. Ive thought of the latter as well. Idk if its just because we have a little history or if shes out there tryna get fucked by everyone. Her husband doesnt seem like a complete beta just judging by his fb profile. He seems like a cool dude tbh lol
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:47 PM
2

I mean at the end of the day, if I get my dick wet thats really all I want out of this.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:51 PM
1

It amazes me how much of a whore she is being via text.. but it is turning me on big time. I dont usually like sexting too much before actual sex as it leaves expectations high but god damn. Shes making my work day very difficult rn with the shit she is sending me and keeps reassuring me not to worry about hubby.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:38 PM
1

They both live together. About an hr away in the next state over.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:13 PM
1

Kinda looking to see if anyone here has been in a similar situation, if they ended up regretting it or what. I know people cheat every day, i would feel much better if this was just a bf and not a husband, even tho those titles are just words.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:42 AM
2

First crush.. we were like 10 or 11 years old.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:25 AM
1

Its 100% her idea.. and although she was my first crush, we were really young. Alot has changed since then. I just dont wanna see her get in trouble, or have some dude out there who wants me dead because of this.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:24 AM
1

Ive fucked a mom before, she had a kid like 2 years before i banged her and she was great in bed. But yeah 3 kids is a lot. She really does look good tho.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:15 AM
2

Shes not my only option.. But i just got out of a relationship like 6 weeks ago and was just trying to focus on myself before this opportunity fell into my lap.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 10:58 AM
7

Lmao.. you have a serious point. I got out of a relationship like a month ago and was just trying to focus on myself before this opportunity fell into my lap. I didnt really try to have this happen, it just kind of did. She does look great for a mom of 3 tho.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 10:55 AM
-1

Woah.. i mean im not trying to wife her up. We were eachothers first crush but that was when we were like 12yrs old. Im 29 now and a lot has changed since then. Id like to see her to just catch up, but i know that there is mutual attraction and that will most likely lead to someone making the leap. I respect the fact that she has a family and would encourage her to keep it going if she feels thats best for her situation. Ideally if I go forward with this, id like to keep it at a once a month - e…
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:58 PM
-2

Why would I do that? I know her, ive never met him. They live in the next state over, i think the odds of him finding out are pretty slim.
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:07 PM
1

Yea, your right. At the moment I have no plates, recently got out of a relationship. I can get laid by some okay looking chicks but there is just something extra exciting about doing something you probanly shouldn't. I still kind of want to, but I dont want to get shot, so I probably wont.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:39 PM
1

She isnt local, lives about an hour away in another state. But I know..
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:17 PM
1

Kinda hard not to be paranoid, but im positive this goes on every single day. Also uhh.. being that there is two of us, should i ask her to bring a friend for him or..? Without getting too weird, we'll obv be wearing condoms. I wouldnt care if we both fuck her, but I cant help but think she will pull some shit where we get charged 3x the rate for that.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:01 PM
2

Ive heard that the "street girls" have really dried up and almost everything is through online ads now. When i went to vegas, someone told me to check the lobby bars but I really didnt have much luck. Im also kind of younger, 29.. most escorts I think are moreso approaching older guys who they suspect has a lot of money. But thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:10 PM
2

Okay so replace starting to receive with starting to enjoy. All women are attention whores. For argument sake, lets say shes a 9. She shouldnt have an issue finding another high smv male who hits on her. Eventually she will fold. But you have me stumped on how its different than a normal relationship. In that aspect you are right, but then what is the point of having an LTR anyway?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:11 PM
1

So what happens when your LTR starts receiving attention from another man? A coworker, an old friend, a random who approached her on lunch break, etc? This new attention will draw her in, because you have dropped your attention on her, for other women. She will eventually get fed up, and fuck them. She will tell herself she isnt doing anything wrong because you are out doing the same. It might work temporarily, but all paths will lead to a breakup. And if thats the case, why bother staying toget…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:54 PM
1

You can try photofeeler. Ive used it before with mixed results but it kinda helps you weed out the shit pics.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:18 PM
3

The natural craving of sex. Its hard to overcome instinct but if you can, more power to you.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:56 PM
1

Sounds like mild alcohol withdrawals.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:26 AM
1

So she wins when I receive nudes? Im not making plans with her anytime soon. Shes told me if im ever in the area, i could come crash at her dorm, but im never in that area and im not driving 3hrs to see her.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:48 PM
1

I really dont see any reason to ghost her.. I have been talking to other women, one is a fwb that I bang weekly, the other is a friend of a friend that I started talking with recently. Both send me pics almost daily.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:24 PM
1

I havnt asked her to come back this way, nor do I want to. Im perfectly fine with chalking it up to bad timing and not try and pursue her while she is in college. Im not looking for a LDR. But in the mean time texting seems pointless, so I wanted to try and get something out of it if I can.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:14 PM
1

My heart is bleeding. Im so sad. Get a life blue finger faggot.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:39 PM
1

I get pics all the time from women im talking with. The only difference with her is, im unable to see her for now. And lmao, do you think your life is comparable to leos? I got news for you, it isnt and will never be.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:36 PM
1

Who said im not doing that?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:02 PM
1

Im not trying to date her, shes young, has a rockin body and I wanna see some slutty pictures of her.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:58 PM
1

She continues to message me. Our texts have been flirty and suggestive, so why not? She'll be back in a few months and ill bang her out then.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:57 PM
1

Im not looking for a LDR.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:54 PM
1

Uhh. Which part of my post did you not understand? Shes hours away on campus. If we stay in touch until shes back on winter break, then I plan on fucking her.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:43 PM
6

You shouldnt of said it like that.. makes you look like a butthurt bitch. Ignore and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:36 PM
1

Do not ask her if she thinks your attractive.. Next time you are in your salsa class, try and talk to her a bit one on one, maybe at the end. Say very casually, "Hey lets hit X bar after class tonight and grab a drink". Keep it very casual and once at the bar, keep a conversation going, kino and escalation and take it from there. Ive never been with a black girl before, but I feel like you need to have A+ confidence to game a black chick.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:15 PM
2

I think your overthinking this big time. Try and hang out with her and see how she responds to escalation. Idk, whenever I call girls cute, they respond well. I know what you mean about them calling you cute tho..
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:56 PM
10

Heroin addict here. Havnt touched the shit since new years eve 2012/2013. Addiction is not east to overcome, it took me multiple detoxes, rehab visits, psych evals, medication and I still got high. I remember the day I finally gave it all up, I got into a horrible fight with my family. I was homeless, sitting in a dunkin donuts and just spent my last $2 on a coffee. I saw my reflection in the window and saw myself looking like shit, extremely underweight, horrible hygiene and i knew right then a…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:26 PM
1

Probably a canker sore.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:45 PM
8

10 minutes of penetration isnt horrible.. id say average is about 10 - 15 minutes for me. Change positions, wear a condom, focus on breathing. Let her go ontop first, she'll get off easier. A bit of alcohol can help.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:42 PM
2

I mean personally no im not into that, but obivously some people are as there is a huge market for it. Does the thought of being with a tranny turn you on or is it just a porn fantasy? I have some fantasies that turn me on, but i would never actually do it IRL. Whatever the case may be, do whatever feels right for you. Fuck judgement, if you want a chick with a dick pegging you in the ass then go for it.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:55 PM
1

Use supplements. Get a weight gainer with a ton of protein per serving.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:11 PM
2

I hear your theory, but the truth of it is no one is perfect.. including yourself. She will realize this and give up on striving to be the "perfect" one for you, especially considering your not perfect yourself. She'll get annoyed, a coworker or friend will start giving her the attention she is craving, the attention your not giving her, and she'll fuck his brains out. May not happen right away, but i truely think it will end up like this.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:52 PM
3

With a plate, yes. With a LTR, no. I think this is only going to cause problems in your relationship. Either she doesnt view herself as your gf, she has incedibly low self esteem, or shes giving you a line of bs and is sleeping around. Id either downgrade her or if your serious about having a ltr with her, you should probably have a talk about going exclusive.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:29 PM
10

She "lets you" fuck other women, but shes only fucking you.. yeah, okay bud. You either have a unicorn or shes fucking all your friends.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:04 PM
1

Im 5'10 and 155lbs. I dont think im skin and bones, but definitely wanna hit the 160 - 165 mark. OP - even if you wanna maintain, your gonna need to up your calorie intake, since your burning a lot more now. High carbs, high protein.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:58 PM
0

Lol dude. I talked to her for about 10 days. I met her right before she was leaving, i want to fuck her, but shes away for the next 4 months. So i cant. I simply asked what my next move should be to have the best shot at fucking her when she is back local. Your barking up the wrong tree and trying to get the last word in with me is not gonna work.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:24 PM
1

If you read my post youd already know i addressed that.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:17 PM
0

Keep convincing yourself if thats what makes you happy. My only question here was to keep in touch with her, or ignore her until she is local.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:54 PM
0

Uhhh.. okay?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:45 PM
-4

I really dont socialize much with people that age.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:41 PM
-2

Its not oneitis, i never planned on not moving on. Most girls ive recently dated are my age and boring.. they dont wanna go out and have fun anymore. I dont have any other 21yr olds im talking too, and i wanna smash as many as i can before i look like an old creep.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:32 PM
1

Yeah, dont want to look needy or thirsty. Its not like I expected her to not be fuckin other dudes in college. Im perfectly fine with being the dude she hits up when she is home for the time being.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:28 PM
2

Yeah I agree. There is nothing to really accomplish by texting her right now. What should I do if she messages me? Play the game, wait 5hrs and give a vague response?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:26 PM
3

It just so happens I was on call that week for my job. Which means I have to take my work truck home and kinda cant go anywhere because they track you via gps. I tried to get her to hang out the night before she left, when i was off, but she had family over and was busy packing to leave. It really was shit timing.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:24 PM
-10

Yeah, I agree. I got a small edge over the kids her age, I think naturally at that age, girls love the attention from an "older" guy and i have a decent job, which means i can take her to places other than taco bell for a date.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:04 PM
7

This is what turns me away from the trp. Its very cultish and too many people use this all or nothing mentality. Take away what you need to take away from this. Be true to yourself and follow what you believe in. In the end, this is your life. #1 goal is to make yourself happy first.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:08 PM
3

You dont shit where you eat as in a career. If your in a dead end / temp job, that is easily replaceable, then by all means go for it. I hit on a lot of interns at my place because its a revolving door. Ive also recently dated a former coworker.. didnt go too well, but thank god I waited until she was leaving to get her number.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:03 PM
2

Sounds to me that she enjoyed her time with this other dude "her trip" more than the time youve spent with her. You probably turned her cooter into beef jerky by saying way more than you should of and the combination of the two led her to dump you. Atleast you seem to realize where it went wrong. Most likely this wouldnt of changed much if you just nexted / ignored her to begin with, but you would of still had your dignity.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:57 PM
3

I mean at the end of the day, were all human and have emotions. Losing a loved one sucks and we've all been there. I don't think there is anything wrong with comforting someone over this type of shit, I don't care how beta you think that is. Id do it for a gf or plate, id do it for a friend. Id do it for half the people I work with. Were trying to make girls wet, not be a purposeful dick.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:27 PM
-1

Ive had hepatitis c from drug use. The chance of contracting it from sex is literally under 0.5% infact, the cdc doesnt even recommended a condom when you have hep c. Its blood to blood only. So you would need to tear yourself, and her for it to transmit. And treatment has become almost nothing now. I took one pill a day for 8 weeks, and my viral load became undetected after week 2.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:09 PM
1

Maybe i wrote that wrong, i dont expect her to see me exclusively. I expect her to live her life as a single college girl. I just know how the texting game goes, it gets boring fairly quickly. you run out of things to say, attraction dies and then you just remain platonic buddies. Im not really close with her, just thought it might be fun for her aswell as myself. Im not loaded, but I have a decent job and i dont know any girls that wouldnt like to have a fun time in the city and not have to wor…
/r/seduction14/08/18 04:36 PM
1

Well i can appreciate your insight, but you seem very butthurt over something. Tbh, no, I cant see us seriously dating when best case scenario we would see eachother once a month. That is just a disaster waiting to happen. If she was local, then I absolutely would be interested in dating her. And im pretty certain the feelings are mutual. Shes not looking to date either, however there is a fair amount of sexual tension between us. There isnt really a reason a 21yr old girl would be texting someo…
/r/seduction14/08/18 04:21 PM
1

I dont plan on making that drive, although some of the guys at work are trying to pursuade me to. And IF i did, and didnt get laid, im pretty sure that would be pretty much the end of that. Kinda still up in the air about inviting her to the city with me (which is up by me). I wanna hit it forsure, but rather sooner than later. Most of the girls ive dated recently (mid - late 20s) seem boring and have too much baggage. Its nice to see someone like her with a rockin body, still wanting to go out …
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:52 PM
2

Ive yet to use this line, but i think its a decent response to the "i have a boyfriend" or "im seeing someone".. Simply just smile and say "yeah, me." Its obviously a joke, but your still maintaining your intentions going forward and avoid being used by her.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:20 PM
1

Jesus. Well 40 mins isnt horrible, but still. I got tickets to a show in nyc (up by me) early sept. I think ill invite her and probably get a hotel in the city to crash at. Just not sure if she can get away from class those days and i dont want to ask her just yet.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:41 PM
2

4 fucking hours if you count the way back.. I cant see a girl inviting you that far away with no intentions of giving it up.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:33 PM
5

Your insight is so valuable.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:56 PM
2

I dont think the sex is creepy, i think me being on the campus itself would be. And probably thats just my own mind / anxiety going.. I keep thinking about the superbad scene where seth visits his gf at the highschool lmao To be fair, i look younger than I am.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:51 PM
1

I agree. I definitely didnt want to move back, but it just made the most sense at the time. But i do work a lot. 50+ hr weeks and every other weekend, sat & sunday.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:47 PM
1

Im honestly not sure. Ill ask.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:46 PM
4

She has a dorm to herself lol shes an RA. If i went, id say im almost guaranteed to smash. If i made the 2hr drive for a handjob, id be fuckin pissed.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:01 PM
1

Ive thought of that.. however ive moved back in with my parents a little over a year ago, before i got this job and its just not a good spot to be bringing her too. I mean i could, but would rather not. Ive been apartment / house shopping and hoping to close on a deal for October.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:59 PM
1

Ive done the gym before, fell off when i did drugs. Did it a bit for a year after getting clean fell off. Just started back up a little over a month ago, via trp advice. Im pretty fit and active as is, just not that defined. Starting to see some results now, ive been going 3 - 4 times a week.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:16 PM
1

I think nike is droppin some new shoes that give you an extra 3" of height. I might not be great with women right now, but i have my reasons why. In order to get a needle out of my arm i had to drop my entire social circle and start over. Its not easy making friends as an adult, let alone breaking from a party lifestyle. I suspect your a young one trying to act hard. But yeah, later tater.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:08 PM
1

The guy who tells me im a fool for letting a girl intimidate me is the same guy who couldnt even bring himself to post anonymously or even vote on a subreddit. Jesus christ. I might have some issues, but i couldnt imagine being that much of a bitch. I just started talking to her, and your over there calling her my unicorn. I openly admitted i just got over a oneitis.. (probably because im not a pussy and i can care less about being honest anonymously to people i dont know) a different girl and i…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:48 PM
1

Woah buddy. Settle down, alright? By putting her on a pedestal im simply saying i might be a 7, shes a solid 9. She has a couple thousand ig followers and almost all of her pics have 500+ likes. Its a bit intimidating tbh. And i hate to break it to you, but learn what this subreddit is. Its for people trying to get better with game. Im pretty sure if it wasnt ever and issue for you, you wouldnt be here, would you? I could sugar coat it and lie, but what advice would that get me? I wouldnt try an…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:19 PM
2

Holy fuck, i just looked that up and that is her to the tee.. the yoga, cooking, all that shit and shes even told me awhile back that she is an "elusive unicorn" and not an easy catch.. god damn.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:45 PM
0

Lol im actually doing both. I have a date with an old friend from hs Saturday (really just kinda used her as a rebound from this girl to help get my mind off of her.. but going out ans getting a few drinks wont hurt) and i just got two bew numbers from these two interns that just left my company. But to be completely honest, i still want this girl over any of those 3. And i joined the gym a little over a month ago. Ive done the gym before, im pretty fit as is just not that defind. Starting to se…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:19 PM
1

I get that. But isnt attention from someone new more exciting? Im giving her very little attention and trying to give short vague responses. Girls can get attention very easily from elsewhere. I hear what your saying but it just doesnt seem to make sense to me. While other trp suggestions seem to make perfect sense.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:58 PM
1

Im well aware i didnt play my cards right. And im fine with chalking this upto as a lesson learned. And as much as i fucked things up, it did not help that weeks went by without going on a second date. This caused me to text her more, which got boring as fuck for me, so i can only imagine how bored she was. She blames herself saying this happens everytime she tries to date someone, but that could just be an outright lie. But at the end of the day there is a reason she is still single at 27. Aswe…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:45 PM
1

So what is my best option if ghosting isnt? Why is she still reaching out to me? We live about 30mi apart so we dont hang out. When we did go out, she paid for herself. Ive never done any favors or anything for her, she never uses me as an outlet for any problems or anything she might be having. I just dont see what she might be getting that is worth her reaching back out? I dont give her the attention i used to. And if she is after attention, couldnt she get it from someone else just as easily?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:30 PM
1

I wouldnt say hes wrong.. But not even the biggest bp omega goes into something saying my goal is to become an orbiter. I still think having other women to flirt / set up dates with is not a bad thing at all and if anything it would help me forget about this other girl.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:59 PM
1

I hear you. But let me ask you a question. We dont ever hang out (live about 30mi from eachother) The one time we did go out on a date, she paid for herself. Ive never bought her a damn thing, or have ever done any favors for her. She never uses me as an outlet for her problems or anything like that. What benefit does she get from "using me"? Simply text gratification? Couldnt she get that very easily from someone else? I just dont see what she is getting out of the deal to make it worth her rea…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:55 PM
1

I appreciate your reply. Im probably overthinking it but she was extra flirty last night forsure. Maybe she is just missing the attention i used to give her. I will not initiate any contact with her going forward but feel like i shouldnt ghost her because we will be running into eachother in the future. And would you rather i lie and say no i dont want to fuck her anymore? Just being honest here. And i have a date this saturday along with getting 2 new numbers. Im not out there slaying a bunch o…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:22 PM
1

Ugh. Being a former dope head, this is big for me. When i was using, i used to go foreverrr. I mean id only cum 1 in 5 times, but the girls i was with loved it. I havnt had sex since ive gotten off the drugs.. I still drink and smoke weed tho, if i remember right if i drink a decent amount ill either last awhile or not get hard at all. But i need to learn how to last sober.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 01:13 PM
1

Ill say it again. Have not had sex in 5 years, im gettin fuckin desperste over here.. but i know what you are saying. Your spot on with the craziness about her. And yes, i honestly have little interest in getting back with the oneitis. If the opportunity presents itself, ofcourse, but im done putting in effort to try and see her. I know she WAS sexually interested in me, giving me shit tests, but that was before i ruined things.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 01:04 PM
1

Lmao im afraid i came off way too beta for my "ex-oneitis" to have second thoughts. We talked for 3 months and only went out once. Then i became frustrated and became way too blunt about my feelings.. to which she responded with i dont think this is going anywhere. Ill most likely see her again in october for a state exam (we dont work together anymore but are in the same industry) No advice on the old friend? I agree with starting with the new girls, but they both live about an hr away. The old…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:51 PM
1

If money wasn't an object, what would you like to do in life?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:25 AM
7

If your driving make sure you park in a far away, but legal spot. If the party gets busted you run the fuck away. Never admit to drinking, even if it is obvious you are plastered. If your main goal is to meet girls then don't drink too much. If your main goal is to get fucked up and have a good time, drink as much as you can. Please don't drive drunk.. Get a ride, walk, or spend the night if it comes down to it.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:14 AM
1

Yeah I agree. The problem is, normally im fine when its someone whose as fucked up as I am makes fun of me, because then its obviously a joke and it feels natural to joke back and keep it going.. But when its some good looking chick making 6 figures, owns her own home, has all her shit together, it stings instead of comes off jokingly.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:46 AM
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She didnt flake on me, maybe that came off wrong. After first date, i tried to set up a 2nd the next day. Asked for the upcoming Sunday, she was busy. She said we should do it the following weekend, i agreed. That weekend was mothersday weekend, but i hit her up and asked about Saturday but she said she had early mothers day plans (her mom lives outside the country and flew in to see her.. so i get it) and asked about me for Sunday, but i had plans. I havnt tried to setup a second date since, i …
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:46 PM
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I'm new here and trying to learn the lingo but doesn't soft next mean just no contact unless she reaches out? Ive done this before and she has reached out after a couple of days.. And if you believe I am dead as a sexual partner, why wouldn't I just ghost? I understand the whole texting for logistics only thing.. I try to keep texting at a minimum, I really do.. i know this isn't a great example of that but Ive been conscious about that. We will message once or twice a week, but that has been ba…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:32 PM
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Pretty much realized I was at the end of my ropes here with her, was frustrated, so spelt it out bluntly. We were getting no where anyway so I didn't have much to lose. I have no idea what I am doing.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:13 PM
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Yeah, I have no game at this point.. And the message obv didn't start out like that, I became frustrated and spelled it out bluntly for her because our messages have become pointless and boring, even for me.. Didn't really give two fucks at the time and still kind of don't because were getting no where anyway. The message turned bluntly here: Me: Your weird and I cant figure you out as much as I want to. Im trying to freakin flirt with you so all our texts dont consist of hey whats up, how are y…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:10 PM
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No, I am new to TRP. Have no idea what I am doing. Totally unsalvageable?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:46 PM
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I'm slowly learning guy selfies are weak unless you are model status or damn near it. Lighting forsure makes a difference. Get pictures of yourself with people, looking like your enjoying life, out at the bar, hanging with friends, etc. Makes the picture not so awkward and shows that you like to have a good time with others. But take my advice with a grain of salt, im no TRP expert.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:43 PM
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I completely realize this. We tried to go out again, but weve both been busy. I work 60hr weeks, including every other weekend. Not to mention she lives an hour away, which isnt crazy but does make seeing eachother that much more difficult. I think the next time i message her im gonna be a little more flirty and sexual than normal, im gonna ask her to hang next weekend. If that doesnt work out, then im gonna back off for good. I said this to myself already tho and backed off, but after 2 weeks o…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:21 PM
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She is a little different than girls ive gone after in the past. A little nerdy, very work motivated, professional, independent. She was in a ltr about 2yrs ago, but i am unsure if shes seen any guys since tbh.. In the past ive usually gone after sluttier faster girls where making a move felt so much more natural because i knew they wanted it. But i also didnt give a shit weather it worked out or not because i wasnt looking for a relationship. Id be lying if i said i was super confident, but I d…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:22 PM
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Any other tips on how to build sexual tension with someone you dont see often?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:42 PM
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I try to stay as basic as possible via text, but its getting to the point where it just isnt worth it. We'll setup a date and then something on her end or mine will come up and we have to reschedule. This happened twice already and after the second time i havnt asked for another date because i was busy for the next few weekends and now shes on a vacation. I can just keep doing what im doing and give a 2nd date one more shot, but if she cant make it than i feel like i need to let it go. Its very …
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:41 PM
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How did i explain it was wrong? Ive done it before with sluttier women and its worked for me in the past. However ive never done it with a girl whom ive tried to date before (this girl).
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:32 PM
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Ive done it before with girls before ive slept with them and almost always have had a positive response.. and yes it usually leads to sex shortly afterwards IME. Ive never done it with a girl whove ive really wanted to date before tho. Our convos have been getting too basic and i feel like im flirting with the friendzone here. Im not talking about pics or anything yet, just some playful words.. if she responds well i wouldnt mind getting more in depth with it, i kinda like talking dirty myself.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:27 PM
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It was probably the toughest thing I've ever done in my life, but required me to hit absolute bottom. Multiple, multiple rehab stints. Lost almost all my friends and ruined my reputation locally. I'm 5 years clean today, but it took awhile to get some confidence back. I still smoke and drink occasionally, but that's it for me.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 11:49 AM
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Heroin and benzos
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:20 AM
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I mean, your non religious as you say. So wtf do you care about the other persons religion? If they are okay with it, and so are you, go for it! There are plenty of girls in their mid - late 20s who say they are christian, that are complete freaks in bed, but still go to church on sundays to make their mom or dad happy. Im not religious at all, but that wouldn't deter me from dating someone who is. I would never conform to their beliefs tho for a relationship, let that be known early on. Stick t…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:10 AM
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Originally when she told me she was seeing someone, she said she still wanted to keep in touch and hang out as "friends". I think she wants to get to know me better before fully opening her door. We were coworkers but never were able to spend any one on one time together. I wanted to make my intentions as clear as possible to not end up in the fucking friend zone. I havn't messaged her since setting up the date 3 days ago. Ill probably touch base with her some point tomorrow afternoon saying loo…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:59 PM
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Meh thats actually a big part I left out. I moved back in with my parents after I got off the dope and have been here since. My location is not an ideal setup at all atm. Ideally I want her to invite me back to her place.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:54 PM
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Bro dont sweat it.. After HS it really does all change. I'm 29 now. I talk to maybe 2 - 3 people from my grade. I will say one thing, work on your confidence now. It might be in the gutter currently, but don't loathe around like a worthless piece of shit because thats how you feel. Ive been there, Ive wasted years moaping around feeling sorry for myself over some petty bs. Use that as motivation to grow. I say fucking fap if you need too, worry about getting money right now and work on your conf…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:35 PM
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Fuck, man. Are you like a horror writer or something? Lmao if that was the case I'd of went to the bathroom and dipped out after the first drink. There's not even a slight chance the friend is decent?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:10 PM
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Yeah.. I'm probably outweighing the negatives with the positives. But again, I'm almost 30. All my friends are buying houses, having kids, growing up. And lately I've just been feeling left out. Idk I know trp is all about hooking up, hit it and quit it but that's not necessarily what I want.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:37 PM
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I went NC for a couple months and she reached out. Why delete block and ghost? I know that's the move when you have no shot but caught feelings. I feel like the door is still cracked open here and not closed for good. Not worth pursuing because? or do you think she's just playing with me?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:09 PM
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Well I am speaking past tense here. I did originally do NC because I saw myself going down that path and got the idea she just wasn't interested. So I figured it was best to move on. Unfortunately I'm basically living to work right now, putting in 60+hr weeks. So my social life has taken a hit, and I'm not meeting new people much anymore. So if can make something out of this, I will. I personally think she wanted to hook up or at least test the waters with me, being she texted me earlier that da…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:04 PM
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I'm trying to avoid that. But I'm just being honest here.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:41 PM
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I haven't texted her since. Should I not initiate any further messaging (even tho i kind of want to?) I doubted nc ever working, but maybe it is?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:23 PM
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This has gone through my mind too. I didn't know what to think of her being with one of her friends. We've never hung out outside of work before, so maybe she was just nervous? Idk. We're both in our late 20s, so I feel like there isn't much to hide. I made it pretty clear I was into her before. But I know some girls love to just have guy friends for the attention. I'd like to meet up with her 1 on 1 ideally. To be really honest, I kind of crushed on her when we worked together, but got over it …
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:22 PM
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Yeah. The only problem is I didn't have my personal vehicle, only the work truck and they track my milage.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:52 PM
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If shes really insecure she might think its her and not the alcohol. Their is a fine line of alcohol that can either make me last forever or just become a wet useless noodle.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:22 AM
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I agree with basically everything you said, including the 1/20 shot. I think unfriending might be a bit much tho, she just accepted last night, although after she gave me her seeing someone else bs. Am I over thinking this? I feel like unfriending someone sends a strong message but if that's what needs to be done, then I am all for it.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:33 PM
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Yeah I can see that now. No texting except for making plans. Got it.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 03:34 PM
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Thanks for the wake up bro. Fucking sidebar is a pain in the ass to read on mobile, but I get the point.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 03:30 PM
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Lol okay I get it, I get it. Thanks my man. Although I'll disagree with the fb stalking, I literally looked through it once. But in get the point your making.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 03:29 PM
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She's one of them really smart independent girls. Judging from her fb and what I know about her, she doesn't seem to date or be with many alphas. Which is why I think I'm confused even more or am I that much of a beta? Fuck. I know I'm asking for a lot but your giving me decent advice here, you still suggest NC for now? I had planned on waiting for her to hit me up before even thinking of asking her out again. I can't think of anything else more pathetic than basically begging her to go out with…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:51 PM
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I'm not going to take her out if she says she is seeing someone else and already hit me with the I hope we can be friends.. I would take her out if we don't talk for awhile and she starts hitting me up again. I'll read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:41 PM
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I know.. that's why I stopped. She literally texted me a bunch of questions the first 2 days so I just went with the flow and answered them. After that I didn't text her, she would hit me up like every other day. Then that kinda faded off, and when I asked her out again she gave me that schpeal. Trust me I was paying attention to the amount of texting going on. I'm not a total clueless bastard.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:38 PM
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Yeah I can understand that. We literally never had any 1 on 1 time together due to the nature of our positions at work. It was always seeing each other in groups with others, so paying attention to her actions would of been skewed anyway. Maybe I took it the wrong way, but she had no obligation to give me her personal contact. I figured if she wasn't interested she would of said something like I'm seeing someone, I'm not looking for a relationship, I have other plans, something like that. And le…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:36 PM
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