I was told off for checking out a girl, yet I saw her friend checking me out. How is this fair?

ErasmusMRA · 2012-09-27T04:39:59+00:00

why is it acceptable for women to be so hypocritical?

Because men in general put up with it. You didn't rebuke her either, did you?

Darkling5499 · 2012-09-27T05:22:10+00:00

because she was just showing she was a sexually empowered womyn, you were clearly sizing her up to rape her as soon as she left. /s

thesnowflake · 2012-09-27T05:40:23+00:00

Male privilege. Plus, you're probably a creep too, oppressing and objectifying her with your male gaze. /s

cthulufunk · 2012-09-27T04:56:28+00:00

Shit Test.

2012-09-27T11:28:42+00:00

Clove ciggs and wine at a bar? Really, man, what did you expect?

ExpendableOne · 2012-09-27T17:07:39+00:00

This is another example of male interest, or male sexuality, being vilified and demonized beyond any kind of reason or applicability. Why is it even acceptable for women to dictate that men looking at them is offensive? How is it acceptable for them to direct that kind of anger or disdain to men exclusively(while seemingly having absolutely no problems being looked at by other women, even getting naked or sharing washrooms with them without a second thought)? Why is it offensive for men to find beauty in women, or to want to appreciate that beauty? A person that finds beauty in nature, art or music wouldn't be called a perv or a creep for contemplating or appreciating that beauty, so why is it that when a man finds beauty in a woman(something that, as reproducing animals, men are naturally prone to do), it's offensive or harmful? A male appreciation for women, or even the embrace of the female form, isn't something that should be something to demonized or something that women should ever feel threatened by or uncomfortable about. On every single level, this negative predisposition towards men, or the male gaze, is absolutely misandric. Why is this kind of misandry, gendered resentment and unnecessary guilt/shame towards men still socially accepted?

2012-09-27T11:04:03+00:00

you should have said "I'll stop staring if you get out of my sight", I totally would have. I'm a not a guy but seriously if someone was like that to me that's what I'd say.

2012-09-27T07:27:23+00:00

Let me give you advice, speak out against them. Feminism teaches women to treat men like play-things. When sub-consciously they want someone who will stand up for themselves. Women like these are walking contradictions, and I highly advice to stay away from women like these to raise children, Or even have a long term relationship.

Objectively derail their absurd double standards. If they carry-out a bitch fit. Well I'd say, "Well there's my point lady's. And it seems you have become a lot uglier it seems."

campushippo · 2012-09-27T14:41:15+00:00

You should have responded, "I'm sorry. It's just been such a long time since I have seen someone so odd looking. I must have forgotten my manners. You're right. It isn't polite to stare at the less fortunate looking."

McFeely_Smackup · 2012-09-27T17:55:07+00:00

It has nothing to do with women being hypocritical...at least not from their perspective.

Basically, women go to bars to have their social value validated. Attention from men makes them feel good about themselves. Rejecting attention from men is even better because they establish that man "isn't good enough" for her.

I once had a woman offer me her phone number (I hadn't even spoken to her), just walked up and said "give me a call some time"...but it was a toll free number, so I was like WTF?? I called it from my cell and it was a "dial a prayer" number. It was like this girl had always wanted to give a fake number to brush a guy off...but got tired of waiting for someone to ask.

thedevguy · 2012-09-27T13:37:36+00:00

why is it acceptable for women to be so hypocritical?

A woman's sexuality is a good thing. If a woman is checking you out, then you should feel honored.

A man's sexuality is a pathology. It's dirty and disgusting and you should feel ashamed.

C0CKPUNCHER · 2012-09-27T06:37:12+00:00

Clove cigarettes and wine?

Anyway, personally I think checking people out is fine, but discussing them with a friend is sort of mean.

rightsbot · 2012-09-27T04:38:17+00:00

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2012-09-27T12:29:00+00:00

You should have given them hell. These people are like children. If you just let them run rampant, doing whatever they want, they never learn to be half-way decent human beings.

buster2209 · 2012-09-27T13:17:26+00:00

She was just being a bitch and shit testing you. Next time it happens, give whoever it is a gentle smirk, a quick roll of the eyes, and then turn to your buddy and talk about something completely innocuous. Bitches like this are looking for a reaction because it makes them feel good. By not engaging with her and dismissing her like a small child, it will piss her off... but also give her the gina tingles.

Alastair4u · 2012-09-27T15:33:05+00:00

Feminism=Hypercritical

Feminists(most women) practice gender discrimination, pure and simple.

arockway · 2012-09-27T16:46:30+00:00

What in the fuck is this thread about? Someone was made uncomfortable by something you did, told you to stop (though the "freaks" comment was inappropriate), and then left. Why is this threadworthy? Did the world blow up shortly thereafter?

McFeely_Smackup · 2012-09-27T17:48:15+00:00

Obviously the first girl thought you were cool when she saw you smoking a clove, but then the second girl saw you drinking wine and your cool factor nosedived into creepdom.

2012-09-27T16:11:27+00:00

Say something back and put her in her place, she is a cunt, tell her.

blueoak9 · 2012-09-27T06:36:07+00:00

Just a couple of bitches. Nothing to see here. No offense, but I really don't think this belongs in this subreddit.

FireTruth · 2012-09-27T06:09:25+00:00

thats how many women are... sexist... imature.. hypocritcal.... they expect to be treated like a child and an adult... special treatment and privllgies were it suites her... lack of responsiblity or accountilibty were it suites her.

its an example of the mounting extream sexism and abuse women believe they are allowed to do.

it also has alot to due with sexual dynamics of course.

i wish you had said "I wouldent fuck you if i was drunk or desperate.. dont play ur self"

chuckles

she could have just teasing you.. in that case i would have said "in your dreams, im just going to ignore you"... and see what she says.

Title	I was told off for checking out a girl, yet I saw her friend checking me out. How is this fair?
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Upvotes	63
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Date	September 27, 2012 4:37 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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