What does Mensrights have to say about this kind of shit? What if it were a man confessing that he'd replaced the birth control with a placebo?

ProWomanAntiFeminist · 2011-11-21T00:04:58+00:00

Anybody with some principles can see that this is wrong.

theozoph · 2011-11-21T00:40:32+00:00

Most people recognize that this kind of dishonesty is sickening, even on r/2XC.

Now let men have financial abortions and put an end to this shit.

2011-11-21T03:08:12+00:00

What if it were? Well all the comments are pretty disgusted at the woman, so I would assumed they would also be disgusted if it were a man doing it to the woman.

sewneo · 2011-11-21T01:47:10+00:00

Before I found r/mensrights I would have just thought of this like, "aww man that's fucked up", but I wouldn't have thought of it in terms of how unbalanced this type of shit is in the eyes of the courts or society.

Women DO this kind of shit a lot. And they get a pass. "Aww she's just crazy because of her hormones etc..." But if a man were to do this he'd be run through the ringer. There is no pass for a man who's deep desire to have a child overrides morals and ethics. For the women who defend this behaviour it's, "Hey, this is biologocal... I can't help myself." ...and the like.

What are the legal grounds that we as men have to stand on... If we've been tricked into a pregnancy? Or are there any?

BinaryShadow · 2011-11-21T00:27:08+00:00

The same things we've been saying?

That men need actual reproductive rights?
That men need their own version of the pill?
That "think of the children" is a woman's weapon to get what she wants, a shield when criticized, and ignored when it conflicts with her own desires.

Edit: I'm playing with the simpsons "WON'T SOMEBODY THINK OF THE CHILDREN!" hysteria here.

ProWomanAntiFeminist · 2011-11-21T00:09:01+00:00

My mother has told me dozens of times that I was a mistake.

Bobsutan · 2011-11-21T12:32:02+00:00

A more apt analogy would be saying he got a vasectomy when he didn't. Her BC is on her to take and the man to trust she's taking it. Same with him getting snipped. Fucking with her BC is a whole other thing.

YesImSardonic · 2011-11-21T21:10:36+00:00

What does Mensrights have to say about this kind of shit?

Good on ya, /r/TwoXChromosomes. That's what.

roland3337 · 2011-11-21T07:09:45+00:00

Once again, we have an example of why it is so important for men to have some option for controlling their own fertility, besides the only two that are presently available are either irreversible, or not completely reliable: Condoms, or getting cut.

ExpendableOne · 2011-11-21T14:04:38+00:00

The equivalent would probably be something more like "what if a man replaced the birth control pills with a placebo, forced her to go through with the entire pregnancy(with the full support of the law, society and his government), and then decided whether or not she gets to ever see that child again"

PersonalityDisorder · 2011-11-21T06:51:16+00:00

Wonder what would happen if the guy got a vasectomy and didn't tell her.

TheDongerNeedsFood · 2011-11-21T20:36:33+00:00

A woman stops taking her birth control without telling her husband: tough shit bro, you have to deal with this, and don't even THINK about trying to get out of child and/or spousal support.

A man starts poking holes in the condom without telling his wife: I could be going out on a limb her, but I wouldn't be surprised to see him get tried and convicted for rape.

Liverotto · 2011-11-21T20:19:22+00:00

What if it were a man confessing that he'd replaced the birth control with a placebo?

According with our Feminist overlord rules he should be incarcerated for "Sperm Rape": his penis was allowed into the Holy Hole Temple of Blood but his dirty white fluid was not granted permission to the the Fallopian Tube, 40 Years of prison should teach him a lesson.

WordsNotToLiveBy · 2011-11-21T02:29:36+00:00

Men (in general) don't think this way. This isn't a concern to "most" women because the male thinking is far from this. There are definitely men who want to be daddies more than anything, but it is very rare for any of them to go to that extreme.

Now if, on the off chance, that a male did such a dastardly deed; then it's a good indicator that he's got more serious issues lurking.

WallaWallaWhat · 2011-11-21T23:40:35+00:00

Have we heard from this woman's husband, yet?

mcmuggins · 2011-11-21T05:01:22+00:00

There's really nothing you can do about it unless you watch her take the pill at the same time every single day.

Otherwise you can't take her to court or anything for lying about it. Even if you do there's no proof that she lied.

I think the answer to all of this is to finally create a birth control pill for men so that you all will stop whining.

Seriously, if you don't want children then wear condoms or stop having sex. Doesn't matter if it's your wife. If you have these trust issues with women you shouldn't be married anyway.

Title	What does Mensrights have to say about this kind of shit? What if it were a man confessing that he'd replaced the birth control with a placebo?
Author	sewneo
Upvotes	37
Comments	46
Date	November 21, 2011 12:03 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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