YA’LL I AM SO PISSED I just listened to the podcast on “communication” and found this post. The literal first comment has me steaming mad.

2340000 · 2021-08-29T17:02:30+00:00

Groping is sexual battery. It's also sexual assault, but people use that phrase as a euphemism for rape too.

OP's friend was waiting for a vulnerable moment. He intended to assault her. He assumed what her reaction would be because he already knew about her past assaults. And I bet it's not his first rodeo. He's done it before. Classic male bumbling.

I am pained for her😔. Women don't realize/fail to acknowledge that the men they see everyday (family, co-workers, "friends") are the perpetrators. Like another FDS'er mentioned, we're blind because we want love from the oppressior.

christmasforoutlaws · 2021-08-29T19:03:40+00:00

You can't tell men about your trauma because they take it as an invitation to beat the "high score."

TERFSareawesome · 2021-08-29T17:55:35+00:00

Have you tried cOmMuNiCaTiNg? Once again these scrotes at it with the same pathetic defletion excuse. It's a really fantastic form of gaslighting and victim blaming. Scrotes know that theyre no longer able to ask what a woman was wearing or if she led him on, that kind of victim blaming has been rightfully called out. So now they use the "you need to communicate with him, maybe he didnt know it was bad" line to reverse it back onto the female and victim blame her in a new and "woke" way.

I cant stand these reddit LVM. They are truly pathetic and so sick in the head and depraved.

sad-porcupine · 2021-08-30T05:17:13+00:00

Happy comment update: the “just communicate” is now one of the bottom comments, and the top comment is the good advice! I hope OP can heal from this. Words cannot express the sadness in my heart for her.

TrixieFriganza · 2021-08-30T05:28:09+00:00

I want to throw up, this person so obviously lied he's asexual to get to her, this was planned and he clearly knew what he did, stop giving excuses for these scrotes. And never lay in the same bed of a man who isn't your partner, how good friends that you think you are.

randomgirl34861 · 2021-08-29T17:02:15+00:00

If you start reading after the if not: then it’s actually a good comment 🤷‍♀️

FrenchHeel · 2021-08-30T12:21:34+00:00

How many women have woken up with their hands groping the person next to her? Zero? Yeah, that’s what I thought.

Japanese_Lasagna · 2021-08-30T06:59:33+00:00

One thing women need to keep in mind is that a man saying he’s asexual doesn’t guarantee he is nor guarantee that he is safe.

I once had some dates with a so-called asexual man who, shortly after what would be our last date, ended up crying to me about how disgusting he felt for having had casual sex with a woman not long after our date and how repulsed he was by her but that he couldn’t help himself because she had been so pretty. So so many red flags that I don’t need to unpack here, but I noped out. Asexual my ass.

This man is not asexual, and asexual wouldn’t mean stupid or naive either. Asexual adults are not just children in adult bodies.

Title	YA’LL I AM SO PISSED I just listened to the podcast on “communication” and found this post. The literal first comment has me steaming mad.
Author	sad-porcupine
Upvotes	217
Comments	16
Date	August 29, 2021 4:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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