Have you all noticed…

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-12-05T08:07:20+00:00

Yet women(Especially teenage girls) are the ones who get made fun of and are shamed for their ‘high expectations’ and ‘unrealistic and dumb’ fantasies.

Whereas men with depraved fantasies and lack of empathy, care, and genuine love get supported and defended.

People will even try to blame it on his gf/10 year fiancé/wife/mother of his children/etc for being so irrational and causing him to be the way he is when she dares to say that she wants a man who genuinely loves her and sees her as a person rather than an object and stood up to him but all people care about is that she hurt his ‘fee fees’.

Some people will even go as far to say that she should’ve done all wifey things despite his bad treatment and behavior towards her and continue to remain an object while her feelings get neglected but she’s expected to be his free therapist.

I swear people act as though when women respect themselves and don’t put with with shit=harassment, abuse, mistreatment, selfishness, entitlement, ‘out to get him’ and bullying.

When did healthy relationships and genuine love become such a taboo and awful thing to like?

CloacaDiddler · 2021-12-05T09:28:30+00:00

Say it louder for the clowns who think porn and rom coms are equivalent

fireforestfairy · 2021-12-05T13:03:27+00:00

Yup. Men get turned on by fantasies of degrading women (or other men if they're gay). Straight, bisexual, or lesbian women are almost never turned on by the idea of degrading men or other women during sex.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-12-05T06:29:57+00:00

Oh my gosh, OP... That quora post says everything. I hate how men defend him and call her "not having a right to judge".

So porn to them is like romcoms to us? If that's the case then incompatibility 💯 from day 1. What a stretch, what clowns they are🤡

Etriumvalles · 2021-12-05T06:03:16+00:00

It’s been five years since I stopped watching porn, and my sex life improved drastically. I don’t feel anymore that I have to accommodate to male fantasies, instead I listen to my body and to what I want.

And I hold men to the same standard. If he watches porn, he will never have sex with me. I am not a sex doll to apply porn fantasies to, I want connection, and desire, and care.

pukubr · 2021-12-05T17:01:30+00:00

You know, this is just evidence to me that men know they are beneath women and they hate that. We fantasize about bonding with an emotionally mature man because it is rare, men fantasize about women being dumb sex objects because it is rare. To me, I think this implies all the men with the objectification fantasy see women as superior to them. And I think we are 💅 I think to them, smart, emotionally mature and capable women surround him on all sides, the likelihood of any woman he chooses off the streets would be smarter than him is so likely to be high that the reality of this scares him. He just takes for granted that many and most women are girlfriend material, so he hopes and fantasizes for a woman with terribly low self esteem so that she would settle for his bottom of the barrel ass.

mollimew · 2021-12-05T19:06:12+00:00

porn is category of violence that man use as "satisfaction" that is connected with "real life" crimes like human traffic, rape and all kind of violence. And they feel good and satisfied consuming those things... this is the ideal women! And if you tell them "all men are possible rapists" or "all men x" they say ~nOt all Men~.. but if you say that you don't want a man that consume porn, they say all men watch porn. Which takes us to the conclusion that yes, all men feels satisfaction at any kind of dominance over woman, the only that changes is the "style" of power and dominance.

Woman NEED to have boundaries, our self love must be sooo high, soooooo high !!!

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vforvendetta87 · 2021-12-06T16:10:21+00:00

I love all of your responses, ladies. Thank you. ❤️

Title	Have you all noticed…
Author	vforvendetta87
Upvotes	422
Comments	23
Date	December 5, 2021 5:46 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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