11/18 day i was arrested for poking my wife which is not exactly true but I did ask her to stop yelling in my face and had my finger in her face 11/17 my wife claims I raped her while she was asleep on a pfa to get all our property and fill custody of our kids Court was Dec 7 and she was unable to prove anything she claimed and was awarded a temporary extension and we were referred to a mediator She demanded I only be able to talk to her mother but we were told we could speak about our kids without causing issues and she was awarded the house and all the property for the time I was told to get something via civil standby

Wife asked for apartment but never stayed there be night just wanted to take all my things to sell or pawn for her benefits

Due to being given visitation I got to see my kids directly after our court hearing and my son who is struggling with potty training for years now had an accident and I was not provided any cloths so I called to ask for them she refused said it was my problem

After being forced from the family home I couldn't find a stable place to live I decided I would need to move to a city 2 hours away with family to survive and the day I left was Saturday but Friday I didn't have a place to facilitate the kids and myself for the 4 hours after school realizing u couldn't let them be cold I walked them home where no one lived but called their mother told her what was happening and she told me it was all 9b me and she wouldn't come there till ny time ended

We stayed in the garage for 4 hours and she texted and let me know she was also gonna be late 30 minutes cause she had started calling a cop to standby for every single drop off now she has asked me if I wanted the apartment and I said ok but needed to know I could have it by a certain date my visitation day on Wednesday

She wouldn't answer and was just being hateful cause it was our anniversary that day she wouldn't answer

In my upset state I told her I wasn't gonna be able to take the apartment and she has moved my kids to a near by city 16 min drive and has told me she was moving their school but no one has agreed to this no judge or nothing

She has now refused to tell me where they live or how to reach them if it's an emergency and I am at the end of my rope I am hurting so bad because she is using the court to take everything someone help me please before I lose all hope and do something I can't take back