Only 12% of straight men feel desired by their partners.

RedPillDetox · 2021-12-13T09:15:31+00:00

Whenever sensationalist statiscts like this come up, i always suspect something fishy is going on. So, 12% of men reporting "feeling desired as much as they want", while 88% wanted to "feel desired more". Okay, why wasn't there an item asking for men who "feel little desired" or "don't feel desired at all"? To put it into perspective, if you ask people their level of satisfaction with money, most would probably say they'd like more, despite not living under poverty line. I can already feel incel propaganda abusing the shit out of this study. Will also read the actual paper later too.

No-Border680 · 2021-12-13T06:49:12+00:00

Yeah, I think that there's this notion that men shouldn't need to feel desired, but be the ones that desire others. We joke about it, but everyone seems to think that we should feel grateful that someone wants to sleep with us at all and asking for more is somehow unmanly.

It's dumb and and leads to so many men having shitty sex lives.

RealRussShackleford · 2021-12-13T19:16:20+00:00

I am definitely NOT anti porn but I think a lot of this has to do with unrealistic expectations set by both porn and mainstream movies.

I think those of us who have had numerous relationships have had at least one that was really hot right at the beginning where the sex was just constant.

It’s not a realistic expectation to think that will go on forever, but apparently that’s what many people expect.

OhwellBish · 2021-12-13T21:41:04+00:00

I think part of the issue is that men are not socialized or encouraged to talk about their feelings especially when there is the potential for their egos to be bruised. I believe that some of these men who don't feel desired might find out that they are actually far more desired than they think, but there are other issues impeding their sex life or desire that have nothing to do with the man at all (e.g. fatigue, hormonal issues from birth control, etc.)

cunningcaring · 2021-12-13T18:09:56+00:00

…..…..”as sexually dexired desiredas they wanted”..…

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Your title s.

rulesforrebels · 2021-12-14T13:33:44+00:00

Look around most dudes are not desirable dudes

Title	Only 12% of straight men feel desired by their partners.
Author	PutsWomenOnPedestal
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Date	December 13, 2021 3:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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