Should you feel pity for 'weak' men who get taken advantage off?

NockerJoe · 2022-01-20T00:54:11+00:00

Yes. It turns you you should feel basic human empathy for people who aren't perfect.

ilove2bowcat · 2022-01-20T01:08:34+00:00

I dont pity the weak men who get taken advantage of because they thought with their dicks

I pity the weak men who get taken advantage of because they dont have masculine wisdom due to the environment and conditions they were born into

KingWhoCared86 · 2022-01-20T00:53:36+00:00

Don’t feel pity for them. Because it’s the only way we’ll learn. No matter how many people tried to warn me off I never listened. You just have to let them get hurt enough times for their eyes to get opened one day.

TomorrowsWar · 2022-01-20T00:59:23+00:00

Pity isn’t particularly helpful and it is not my place to hold anyone accountable for who they are or who they have been. But if they’re a friend I can show sympathy and be there for them

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-01-20T01:06:22+00:00

It’s their own fault but on the flip side I feel bad for women who get taken advantage of. I will admit it’s hypocritical but I can’t change my mind on it

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Tricky_Dog1465 · 2022-01-20T01:00:40+00:00

I have a line I draw I guess. It is one thing if it is a common scam say a credit card company scam. It is a whole different thing to me if said man just wanted naked videos and stupid enough to send account info or buys some sort of pay card. That is his own damn lust and he deserves whatever he gets. Especially since most of those "hot chicks" are dudes with internet access.

sarkington · 2022-01-20T01:05:24+00:00

Yes, but pity isn’t arousing

Also, if the simping is hurting people other than the simp, sympathy will tend to decrease

MarBitt · 2022-01-20T01:12:18+00:00

I am working to be able to feel the same sympathy for men abused and deceived by women as I feel for women abused and deceived by men. It is difficult.

A_Little_Voice1 · 2022-01-20T01:17:30+00:00

What exactly do you mean by holding them accountable? I think the people who most enjoyed 'holding these men accountable' (shaming them for what happened and not giving any empathy) actually subtlety get something out of doing it. In the end, it's not very helpful. I don't think you should exactly ignore that how they acted caused something bad to happen to them, but it is more important that these men learn how to give a shit about themselves, and to learn how to have the capacity to deny what others want in favor of what they want. Thats what makes them less weak

Own-Boat-5374 · 2022-01-20T01:40:19+00:00

No men never get pity, but reverse the roles and he is a manipulative groomer

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-01-20T02:09:42+00:00

A small level of empathy is alright , but there's some shit that's so obvious that you gotta know better,unless you have some severely limiting physical/ mental ailment, you're responsible for your own life

Complete-Temporary-6 · 2022-01-20T03:37:15+00:00

Of course I do.

StarchRunner · 2022-01-20T00:53:52+00:00

I definitely do feel sympathy for them, but is it the same as women taking advantage of weak men? Or should we instead hold them accountable for being, weak?

People generally get what they deserve and deserve what they get, especially the second and third time they just don’t learn.

I simply don’t care one way or another about any instances. Weak men will backstab in an instant for a whiff of pusay.

I would train any of my sons to avoid being like that. And daughters to avoid them as well because many are losers deep down.

baresquad · 2022-01-20T01:00:37+00:00

I pity but I don’t feel bad for them. It’s pathetic to watch somebody be so embarrassingly desperate for companionship that they let somebody walk all over them. Do better and be stronger

(Abuse aside of course)

Ryanmp99 · 2022-01-20T01:40:00+00:00

I pity them for being raised wrong and having no character, sure. Ultimately though they’re usually unhealthy people who aren’t worth saving; don’t confuse pity with empathy. And I’m consistent so I have the same feelings towards women in an equivalent situation (sex workers, single moms, etc) but of course I get shit for only that one. Gender empathy gap.

Title	Should you feel pity for 'weak' men who get taken advantage off?
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Date	January 20, 2022 12:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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