To all the Men out there who Speak out on family law for change, keep it up. We face harsh opinions & they can be downright nasty. We love you, Keep up the good work!

BackAlleyKittens · 2022-01-28T21:22:42+00:00

"I have little to no clue what's actually going on but I wanted to call someone a bitch."

Noob_master_slayer · 2022-01-29T02:20:06+00:00

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usku · 2022-01-29T03:18:34+00:00

On one hand, as shitty as the system is, men currently have to pay their child support. We have no support, no recourse, and no say in what happens.

Reform needs to happen. Men need the same right as women with regards to aborting a child, physically or financially.

Tho, I will say, after paying child support for 18 years, my ex tried to extend her payments which FMEP investigated and found her in the wrong.

Garnished 1500 dollars back from her, and returned it. Was pleasantly surprised.

bennybeckler · 2022-01-29T02:28:38+00:00

Just because a man does not pay child support does not mean he does it out of selfishness

Noob_master_slayer · 2022-01-29T07:24:28+00:00

"You aren't a man". Ah, yes, the shaming and bullying tactic used since antiquity ad naseum to make men do what you want.

Seriously guys, stop caring, and just answer, "ok, yeah, I'm not a 'man', so what?". Stop being insecure about your masculinity, and just don't care what they label you.

men_first · 2022-01-28T22:13:23+00:00

Democrats literally think Men and Boys are subhuman "Oppressors" unworthy of love and respect. They castigate all of us as the villains of society, unworthy of consideration.

Trad-cons are bad as they want men to be used to the benefit of women, like tools. Liberals are bad because they do not believe Men and Boys are human beings. Trad-cons at least have the human decency to protect young boys.

Fortunately the establishment and trad-cons seem to be losing ground in the Republican party, unfortunately the insane SJW anti-male left seems to be gaining control in the Democrat party as people flee their party (e.g. Dave Rubin).

bigbird1333 · 2022-01-29T05:33:01+00:00

Misandry everywhere

3-10 · 2022-01-29T05:58:52+00:00

I’ve done my damnedest to not pay child support. I share 50/50, but when I was facing charges on a false arrest, I had to pay. Did my damnedest to since then never make enough to pay my ex. When I was forced to pay, she used my payment on a purse, she literally posted it the day after after I Zelled the money. She then tried to get the court to get me to pay more because her brakes were bad and going to cost $800.

Since then, every time child support came up, I would intentionally get fired from my bridge work (as I trained for a new career since the arrest destroyed my previous one) so the courts could only base my income on minimum wage.

Screw my ex, the courts make me drive 500 miles a week and pay for the gas and she still believes I owe her money.

I expect to increase my income 2.5X in May or June and then going to go back to war and fight for full custody.

OutGroupOutCast · 2022-01-29T17:58:03+00:00

I'm actually torn about this. If we abolished child support, there would be a LOT less children born out of wedlock. you know its true.

TheHardwayExpress · 2022-01-29T15:47:04+00:00

To everyone criticizing this, there are cases where this could be helpful, but if you're doing it to get out of a legitimate responsibility to your children, you a literally the fuckin worst.

Hi-itsme-johng · 2022-01-28T23:16:49+00:00

If there was 5050 custody in divorce then there would be no child support. The state and women decide that women get the children and the men are a piggy bank. If you choose not to be in the kids life, then yes you are an asshole for not supporting them, and the gov should garnish your wages, and that’s a statement for both genders.

spaceraverdk · 2022-01-29T07:58:00+00:00

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