Have you ever suffered from feminism as man in terms of treatment in workplace, mental health, school campus, money or loss of opportunity? Share

dukunt · 2022-02-13T16:11:38+00:00

Here's my story. If the world is basically a Patriarchy (and it's not), then the school system is a matriarchy. My wife left years ago and my three kids are considered being from a broken home by their school.

So my oldest daughter gets special treatment in school for kids from broken homes, extra help, personal afterschool excursions to places like museums, all sorts of stuff. Then they focus the attention to my youngest daughter, and she gets the same treatment. Then I get a phone call about my son, my middle child. I'm thinking to myself "finally they are going to help my son!"....

I go in for a meeting with the school to discuss my son. "We think your son would be happier at another school."

That was it. There would not be any help from the school like they did for my girls. They just wanted him gone. My son is a good kid. People help girls, boys are expected to help themselves.

I sent the principal an email explaining the situation. She apologized and admitted that they handled the situation poorly. Then they stopped helping my children.

OldEgalitarianMRA · 2022-02-13T14:33:28+00:00

I told a female supervisor I had known for years "no" to a request. She stormed down and started banging on my office door. As soon as I heard her banging I locked my door and hid inside until she went away. Then I gathered my things and quit on the spot and filed a workplace harassment lawsuit, won and retired at 50.

judasfire · 2022-02-13T12:51:37+00:00

In the workplace I had mostly female colleagues , and as a man they tried to put all the hard work on my back , I noticed that and I put them in they place. Like we have the same job , same salary , same rules , but you wanna do less work and just sit on your phone or daydream during the job and I should bust my ass off , nah baby.

Its like they want equality , but only what's equal to them , not everyone else around. 🙄

StevieSnickers · 2022-02-13T16:29:31+00:00

I'm on permanent disability. My last job I hurt my back, and now take painkillers daily. I was working at Coles, and my boss and supervisor were both women.

I injured myself on the job, and after a couple months time off, my supervisor told me to HTFU and said "I'm a woman and I've been doing this for years and am older than you. Stop complaining".

I told her to shove her job. Moll.

No_Fap_is_My_Life · 2022-02-13T16:53:56+00:00

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PaulfussKrile · 2022-02-13T21:36:07+00:00

Had to take Title IX training. It was basically just people explaining things to me that I either already knew or are just flat-out wrong. They even said that not believing a woman who makes a sexual misconduct allegation right off the bat is rape culture. The idea that presuming everyone innocent unless there’s evidence saying otherwise means that you somehow support the offender is an absurd notion. The right to a speedy and public trial is essential to the democratic process, and more importantly, it’s what separates us from our tribalist ancestors. If we don’t support due process for even those accused of the worst of crimes, then we don’t support for anyone.

MGTOW_and_Bitcoin · 2022-02-13T20:34:15+00:00

All of the above...

I was prevented from getting vasectomy earlier in my life from a doctor who refused to entertain the idea...

I have been divorced raped twice and twice I have been prevented from being a father I'm currently in the process of finding out if anything has changed.

My Philosophy teacher was female and confuse the ideas of metaphysics and ontology she refused to clarify and then was reduced to stating how she has been published while yelling.... I later had to have a meeting with the dean and after speaking with him for about an hour he wanted me to switch over to a philosophy major.

I had a Communications teacher who spent the rest of the semester trying to fail me and accuse me of harassment of other students all because I questioned her Statistics over rape simply asking if the real statistics are out there because men aren't likely to see that the same way and file charges. The dean of her Department try to quietly sweep this under the door letting me know that there's no real recourse... I finished out the semester with an F.

I had a job of 10 years and my advocacy for men's rights, was proven correctly once and anonymous female complained after trolling my social media that I wanted to buy a gun and that another comment months later about people choosing between Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump was like shooting themselves in the face. But that's okay because I was able to get ahold of my 401k and I knew exactly how I was going to invest it...

There's been numerous occasions since we are getting into debates has made me a Target and I was deplatformed.... I'm certain it's only a matter of time before they block me on this Reddit as well as the whole platform itself...

I no longer have to answer to a boss or a bunch of woke clients.

Reasonable-Worker-47 · 2022-02-13T21:33:52+00:00

My office is virtually all women except me. After I came back from a week of leave, my desk had been cleared, all my things had been thrown on a desk which was basically a walkway and one of my female colleagues had taken my desk. I asked my female supervisor what is happening and she said that the female colleague had taken my desk because I was away for a week. I said that therefore I can take someone else's desk if they are away? She replied no. I said that's a sexist double standard. She replied that me asking her questions about it constitutes harrassment.

I made a formal sex discrimination complaint with the HR section of the organisation which was ignored, probably because they believe only women can experience sex discrimination.

Since this experience I do as little work as possible and when I'm eventually pulled up for it I'll cite that I'm not able to concentrate on my work since my desk is now in a walkway.

doggosrbabies · 2022-02-13T23:21:59+00:00

when I was a kid my sister would beat me up for no reason and when I hitted her to defend myself my parents would side with her with the excuse of "you are male which means you're stronger" like wtf how dumb can you be

skymonstef · 2022-02-13T18:58:14+00:00

Other then my old supervisor not being fired when twice being caught making false accusations to HR about me nope

She got fired from.her next job in less then 6 months and has felt back home

blrfn231 · 2022-02-13T20:54:48+00:00

My very first job.

Supervising manager was a big breasted blonde and utterly uneducated nearing 50s female. Living with her parents. No relationships. No marriages. Ever.

She got into management because she stuck it out for 20 years in this company and the lead manager chose her for boobvious reasons.

Worst manager ever.

Made a female employee cry once because supervising manager didn’t understand the logical claims of the employee when it came to a small fight within the team.

The whole team - except me idiot - changed into other departments or left the company altogether after the incident. She truly destroyed our motivation, our drive and ambition by narcissistic bs. Everybody in the company warned me about her and made fun of our department all the time.

I was young, stupid and needed the money.

chroma7777 · 2022-02-13T21:48:12+00:00

Yep pretty much complain about muh patriarchy and still get away with stuff because the managers are cucks

Commercial_Sir_9300 · 2022-02-13T10:47:39+00:00

Personally, just verbal bullshit, but I just ignore and never have any conversation with such "people" again.

But at friends level, there's two case that I can't get out of my mind:

I've appointed a friend of mine for a UX role in our company, but - long story short - he lose to a girl with a ridiculously inferior resume, she quit in about 2 to 3 months, and to this day I never saw something that "this was done by [her]" ;
one day I was hanging out with some friends, and got into a "ice cream store" (sorry, I don't know the right word in English) with plenty of feminist bs at entrance, but I didn't wanna to sound boring so when asked why my face was "bad" I just replied that it was nothing. Then after we requested what we want, my female friends were served, but the male ones doesn't until they go ask for when his order would be done;

To this day I record all interactions with random women to have proof if something like that - or something even worse - happens again.

rosewiththornzzz · 2022-02-14T03:15:29+00:00

I’ve suffered from the effects of feminism and I’m a woman. It is for sure a thousand times worse for men, but let me tell you, for those of us women who aren’t feminists, we are treated like shit.

I’m pro-life. To feminists that means I’m misogynistic. I like to hang out with men more than women. To feminists that means I’m a woman hater. Im a tomboy. To feminists that means I’m gay or transgender. Im blunt. To feminists that means I’m not in touch with my feminine side. I want to love and take care of my fiancé, not because I have to but because I want to, and I want to make sure he knows that I would never betray him. To feminists that means I’m a pick-me and an anti-feminist because god forbid if there’s a woman that wants to take care of her man. And I don’t mean micromanage, I just want him to know that his burdens are mine, and that he can rely on me when he needs a break. But to feminists, any woman showing that kind of love and care towards her man is a disgrace to women as a whole. To feminists, men are suppose to be the ones for women to rely on. It’s not a two way street in their eyes, which sickens me.

So yeah. Men definitely get more scrutiny. But for women who aren’t feminists there is still a lot of hatred

JoyousCreeper · 2022-02-13T21:45:37+00:00

I don't want to type too much, but,

my mental health has went from all fine and dandy to barely any solely because men aren't allowed to show emotion (and that was sped up because I have depression)

WalfRiggum · 2022-02-14T21:45:17+00:00

I work in a charity that operates a domestic abuse service for female only victims. They recognise that men can be victims of DA. But they won't put any resource into it because...well...they're sexist.

GreerJohnson · 2022-02-13T21:48:09+00:00

Everywhere, all the time.

Civilization was built to serve women. Men do all the hard lifting to create it and keep it running. Farming, energy, shipping, etc. Vast majority of hard work is done by men and always has been. Vast majority of benefits enjoyed by women and always has been.

Men are worker bees.

(Which is actually fine, except women under the influence of feminism have now decided to start treating their worker bees like dirt. We'll see how long that lasts!)

randomcrocodil3 · 2022-02-13T18:57:20+00:00

sexual harrasment

Ok_Stress_4977 · 2022-02-18T09:09:04+00:00

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Title	Have you ever suffered from feminism as man in terms of treatment in workplace, mental health, school campus, money or loss of opportunity? Share
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