Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?

RedPillDetox · 2022-03-03T13:40:44+00:00

If we can distinguish this difference from others, then how is the blackpill or looksmatch incorrect?

Some people are consensually more attractive than others. There is always a great level of subjectiveness, of couse, with people disagreeing to different levels just how much a said person is attractive, while other people (exceptions) may even consider a consensually unattractive person as attractive or at least not unattractive. Eitherway, it's true: Generally speaking people can more or less agree who is attractive and unattractive, with a great deal of expected noise and variance among them.

Nothing in this rethoric means that black pill is true. Recognizing that looks can be consensually judged doesn't mean that women will only want you for your looks, nor that only the top 80% are actually attractive, nor that it's over for you if you ain't got looks. Admitting that looks can to some degree be consensually judged doesn't automatically mean the remaining fantasies of black pill are true.

ResponsibleAd2541 · 2022-03-03T01:06:54+00:00

Yeah, beauty can quantified and agreed upon, so I suppose you can say what is generally beautiful. How that applies to an individual, I’d say you can always get in shape, work to get a better job, etc. You can also be a more generous and kinder person.

There are all sorts of ways to be a better person and generally that makes you more attractive

jedi-sam · 2022-03-03T16:16:32+00:00

It's just not a fact, you can often see couples with one partner being somewhat more (or even a lot more) attractive then the other.

Looks aren't subjective tho, there's always a general consensus that can be reached regarding someone's attractiveness, but it doesn't matter. Because even if you're less attractive than someone else, there's still a good chance you can get them. Attractiveness isn't subjective and looks are real, not everybody is beautiful, but anyone could get someone better looking to become their partner.

Randomguy34455 · 2022-03-02T22:49:43+00:00

There is a difference between casual hookups and lifetime relationship. A relationship won't last if there is no compatibility. So yes, for a one night stand and to have some fun, women will prefer a good looking guy. If you look the other side of the coin almost all men want beautiful women and only care about their looks. The difference is that most men have no standards while women have dignity and self respect, and also a wide range of possibilities...

If you keep going with those pills you'll only hate women and you'll remain alone forever. If you accept that women's feeling are as feeble as a man's feelings you'll be able to love them anyway

laguaguadecarne · 2022-03-04T03:17:59+00:00

leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective

One's socio-economical class has much more to do with this than one's sole physique.

I'd say leagues are more drawn on class than looks.

People are more likely to get together based on class than purely on looks. I've seen way more people with their class matches compared to people I see with their looks matches.

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n0name1026 · 2022-03-04T02:14:11+00:00

There is a general perspective on what is considered an unattractive man(the infamous 5'2 overweight balding South Asian janitor that is often brought up in incel spaces)

But for the most part people don't agree on who is attractive. Some of my friends find Jennifer Lawrence very attractive but I already know at least three women in my personal life that I'd say are better looking. I've met women who find channing Tatum unattractive but think Will Poulter is handsome.

The fact that you even exist is owing to the fact that two people found eachother sufficiently attractive enough to create you. Statistically speaking and depending on your culture, your father is likely not your mothers first option and vice versa. I know body positivity is all the rage right now, but that works in the context of female dating since on average women do get more attention(respectful and inappropriate) from the opposite sex.

For men, body positivity and loving your height and weight and appearance as is, is something to aspire to but in the mean time if you want to raise your chances in such crowded and competitive world, you have to do the best you can to look as good as you can. If you have a harelip, save up for surgery. If you have a receding hairline shave it or pay for surgery. If you were born with any kind of physical condition that affects your confidence, get it corrected if the risk isn't too great to your life. Therapy is non negotiable though, especially if you find yourself suddenly now getting attention from women post-surgery. Many a man have turned into aggressive misogynists because they felt that their belief that women are 'shallow' has been proven right.

Title	Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?
Author	Pomeranian111
Upvotes	6
Comments	51
Date	March 2, 2022 10:01 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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