Tips on dressing for conservative women who look better naked or in skin tight clothing?

m_owom · 2022-03-02T12:34:08+00:00

Nothing to add to the previous commenter, it was absolutely spot on. I just wanted to pop in and recommend two subreddit you might find helpful: r/DressForYourBody and r/ModestDress

boofthegirl · 2022-03-02T11:09:20+00:00

Maybe a good in between would be wearing a tighter top that is a bit more covered over (but less cleavage) and a more loose skirt?

That’s generally how I dress because, even though I’m slim, I have large breasts. I find that I look funny if I wear tight clothing (like I’m trying to look like cat woman lol) but if I wear looser dresses my boobs create a tent and make me look like a square.

Basically, if the fit comes in at the waist, you’ll probably still find it mostly flattering! If in doubt, wear a low cut top and throw a little cardigan over the top. You can show a little skin here and there if it’s tasteful and flattering but balance it out with something more conservative.

Also teenage boys will literally drool over the slightest hint of cleavage so please don’t let their shitty comments impact how you dress and perceive yourself for the rest of your life. You deserve to feel attractive and you never deserve harassment. You, as a woman, inherently should feel beautiful and feminine. Please embrace your lovely figure whilst you still have it!

Hopefully this helps!

crater01 · 2022-03-02T14:34:38+00:00

Hi I’m 5’1 and curvy too. I went from 130 to 105 a few years ago through IF and very light weight lifting/resistance training. Smalletics is a YouTube channel designed for petite sized women and she helped me look a lot better in clothes and swimwear.

I’m confused because you say you don’t want to be overly sexy, but in another comment you say you’d prefer tight shirts. If you’re top heavy and want to appear more conservative, then a tight shirt isn’t any better than a cropped hoodie. You’re going to emphasize your assets and unwanted weight at the same time, and in my opinion, that can sometimes give off the impression of insecurity/seeking validation.

There are a lot of options to look slimmer while modest if you’re overweight. Tapering around the rib cage or the bust, tucking in a loose shirt into high waisted pants (emphasizing the waist), or something like this are good examples of some trendy tops that aren’t too baggy without being too tight.

There’s a lot of body analysis out there that can help you. For example, my hips are 42 inches and my body measurements aren’t the norm; I never looked modest in high waisted skinny jeans. I started wearing looser, low to mid rise jeans so I don’t feel like so much of my body is on display. Flare or bootcut jeans look good on just about everyone. Straight leg jeans (mom or dad jeans) look good, too. You can wear modest clothing that isn’t tight while still emphasizing the things you like.

Anonymous_fiend · 2022-03-02T14:51:18+00:00

Find your kibbe type. It's makes a huge difference. The kibbe subreddit can help you find your type. You don't need to wear loose clothing to be conservative. A more form fitted outfit can still be ok if you don't show much skin and/or keep to a classy design/color. If you do show skin only show 1 area (legs, cleavage, or back). Also wearing something with waist emphasis like a waist belt or something nipped in might be flattering. You're probably an hourglass shape especially if your shoulder measurement is 38-40. Just avoid wearing boxy/straight clothes since they'll make you look heavier.

anothergoodbook · 2022-03-02T13:09:32+00:00

Wear fitting clothing that isn’t baggy. It doesn’t need to be skin tight, just accentuate the parts that look better. If you have great calves, wear skirts that show them off and a shirt that is fitted not baggy.

LateralThinker13 · 2022-03-02T18:17:00+00:00

I've found that I look so much more attractive when I'm naked, in lingerie or in skintight clothing.

No, you're more sexually provocative. Attractive doesn't mean just sexually appealing.

I don't want men to see me that way nor is overly-sexy kind of aesthetic anything I want to go after.

Okay, you already know what to do then.

Lose. The. Weight. Then you can wear what you want and not look 'off'. Newsflash: you still look off while nude/scantily clad, it's just that men are wired to give attention to sexually available women. And showing skin signals sexual availability.

Plus, losing the weight will give you great health benefits.

smoore95 · 2022-03-02T20:21:12+00:00

Boob tent!! This is absolutely a thing! I love flowey tops because they are so cute and feminine. But I can’t wear them because of the “boob tent”

TheBunk_TB · 2022-03-03T14:41:12+00:00

Have you considered tailoring or alterations?

pearlsandstilettos · 2022-03-02T11:21:23+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Title	Tips on dressing for conservative women who look better naked or in skin tight clothing?
Author	lolwhythrowaway1289
Upvotes	17
Comments	25
Date	March 2, 2022 10:45 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/t4xir7/tips_on_dressing_for_conservative_women_who_look/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/tips-on-dressing-for-conservative-women-who-look.1104522 https://theredarchive.com/post/1104522

Comments