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Study: Women more likely to enjoy aggression in porn

Blutarg

March 5, 2022
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https://phys.org/news/2022-02-women-aggression-porn.html
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Title Study: Women more likely to enjoy aggression in porn
Author

Blutarg

Upvotes 432
Comments 64
Date March 5, 2022 10:10 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/t7k55b/study_women_more_likely_to_enjoy_aggression_in/
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[–]SpanishM 178 points179 points180 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Radical feminist theorists have suggested that representations of aggression in pornography are entirely driven by the desires and preferences of male viewers, while the preferences of women regarding such representations of aggression have not been systematically explored.

They do not suggest, they state that it is because of men.

But they will never acknowledge what the study says, even though they probably know it.

[–]iGhostEdd 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I bet they're trying to accuse that study of astrological rape

[–]CryingMadGirl 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao, if women like weird stuff, it’s because of men but if men like something, it’s because of men too lmao

[–]Sleepy_Need_Coffee 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, I remember someone on r/vent commenting about that ‘violence in porno is preference for male viewers’ and I was thinking that can’t be true. Now, at least I know it. Though, a bit surprised, I think it will be more on equal level between women and men in that department

[–]2137gangsterr 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All projections m9

[–]azazelcrowley 116 points117 points118 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminists were projecting and hating men for the feminists own behaviors and traits. What a shock. Unheard of. Unprecedented.

[–]jedijeff7 95 points96 points97 points 4 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

Those stats go with these stats : between 31% and 57% of women have rape fantasies https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/psyched/200805/why-do-women-have-erotic-rape-fantasies

[–]Loumier 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

In fact at r/rapekink women usually discuss techniques of rape baiting. Rape baiting is literally the woman putting herself on vulnerable conditions on purpose in order to get raped on purpose.

There are some that even practice CNC (Consensual Non-Consent), which way safer than rape baiting. But for some women CNC is not enough and doesn't satisfy them and the only option is going on rape bait.

[–]PHUCK_THE_HIVE 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Holy hell, that's like the worst subreddit I've ever seen, why is that shit not ban?

Rape is like illegal. MGTOW doesn't talk about doing illegal activities.

[–]Loumier 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No one is talking about doing illegal stuff.

[–]PHUCK_THE_HIVE 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What? Baiting people into rape does involve baiting people into doing something illegal.

[–]Random_182f2565 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Whoa that's disturbing.

[–]Exterminatus4Lyfe 69 points70 points71 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really, its just disturbing that its blamed on men.

[–]Adanu0 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

It's the sense of control. Many women get turned on by a lack of control, whether they admit it to themselves or not.

The problem is todays men generally don't care about that responsibility, and the legal system is incentivized to consider controlling behavior as 'toxic'. It's one of many reasons that relationships and marriage have broken down over the last two decades: women have been brainwashed to hate their nature by feminazis.

[–]tias 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

My ex wife specifically said when she divorced me that she was turned off because I always just accepted when she said no to sex.

[–]ImcallsignBacon 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I'm leaving you cus you didn't rape me.." wtf

[–]Adanu0 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She didn't want a choice in when her man had her. I know people like to 'joke' about rape fantasy studies (that can't be true! etc), but it happens more often than you think. Powerlessness is what turns them on.

[–]Adanu0 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She was a submissive woman who wanted to be taken at your whim, but didn't know how to express it. Unfortunate.

[–]lethrowaway4me 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's kinda paradoxical. If she expressed her desire to be "taken", it's not really being taken the way she wants. It's that whole BS of consensual non-consent which a recipe for disaster.

[–]Adanu0 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not very paradoxical. In HER version, she's expecting you to be both a mind reader and read her body language.

CNC is not bullshit. It takes complete trust that the woman is not going to shoot that loaded gun at your head. Why? Because she wants you to take control of her as much as you want to take control. CNC is not unusual in BDSM circles.

[–]PHUCK_THE_HIVE 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also makes sense why serial killers and scum like that get all these love notes in prison.

[–]SuninMyPalm 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

but unsurprising at the same time. just look at FDS and fem sub!

[–]Random_182f2565 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I will rather not.

[–]bahard9 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not disturbing at all, it's a well known truth that feminism tries to hide. Feminism itself is a projection of this fear/desire "men are evil" of women.

[–]myevillaugh 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah, it's a fantasy. Look up consentual non consent ( cnc for short). People have all sorts of disturbing fantasies. The vast majority have self control and don't act on them.

[+]Raju1461 -16 points-15 points-14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But you do desire to act on them. That is disturbing enough.

[–]tenchineuro 62 points63 points64 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

  • After interviewing over 300 regular pornography viewers in a study published in Archives of Sexual Behaviour, Professor Eran Shor found that while most viewers were not interested in watching sexual aggression in pornography, women were more likely than men to say that they enjoyed aggression in the pornography they watch, including harder forms, such as choking. Female viewers were also more likely to report enjoying when female performers expressed pain in response to aggression and were more likely to actively search for aggressive pornography.

  • Prof. Shor, who is a William Dawson Scholar at McGill University's Department of Sociology, says these results stand in contrast to much of the previous research about pornography.

I'm pretty sure that the word has been out for quite awhile that women are the majority viewers of many kinds of porn like BSDM and even rape porn. At least according to pornhub and other sources.

Sometimes you see an article about this and then it fades into obscurity.

But one thing we can count in, men are responsible and women and minorities are most affected.

[–]KitSwiftpaw 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And Ugly Bastard

[–]Random_182f2565 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

...

After reading this, I have come to the conclusion that I'm pretty tame and that some people preference are scary.

[–]duhhhh 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pornhub stats concluded similar 5 years ago.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/bm9w7v/why-are-so-many-women-searching-for-ultra-violent-porn

This isn't driven by the prevalence of porn either. It was the same in the early 70s when "My Secret Garden" was published with the most common fantasies of women before VHS.

[–]Njaulv 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well if Twilight and 50 shades are such big sellers it makes sense.

[–]evaneli13 38 points39 points40 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

My friend dated a feminist. She even had a local feminist magazine and would throw feminist events.

She had rape fantasies. Yes, I know its a fantasy and not real but it was still a shocker.

I'm a dude and I can't get hard or perform if I have to be violent. A couple of slaps in the face is fine and maybe mild choking if she asks but it's not my thing.

Fucked up what a lot of these feminists are into.

[–]Sudden_Difference500 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I get it man. I want to love my woman not hit or choke her.

[–]AndyBrown65 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucked up what a lot of these feminists are into.

Feminists are pretty much fucked up in the head. They only see themselves (and women) as victims so rape fantasies and the like only reinforce their position.

I can't remember if it was on Reddit or FB, but there was a link to a news story in the US where some woman claimed a guy raped her. He was arrested, beaten up in prison etc and it was a dream she had.

Then there's this case where a woman was raped and she dreamed it was her neighbour

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2015/dec/24/clarence-moses-el-free-denver-rape-case

[–]Adanu0 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not fucked up. IF there was to be some sort of reasonable and realistic sort of feminism, it would be about having freedom of choice and accountability for the consequences of those choices.

Unfortunately, the feminazi movement is all about making men the root of all evils and smearing women who don't join the cult as internal msigoynists.

[–]SamaelET 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

60 is quite a low samples

[–]IShitOnPastries 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is it any real surprise? It wasn't 15 million men who went and bought 50 Shades of Gray.

Of course, the feminist response is always the same. "Internalized misogyny." Which is weird because if more men prefer non-aggressive porn than women, how does it make sense that men are making women like it?

Oh well. Everything is men's fault to them.

[–]YeloFvr 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More than half of the gals I have dated I have said they like or fantasize about aggression during sex.

[–]vague_obscenity 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know if I should even say this here, but what the hell. I'm a 37 year old guy, been watching porn since I got access to the Internet, and I'm into BDSM. While I love watching women get spanked hard and even cry, so called "rough sex" is a turn off for me. I've seen porn where men are choking and slapping women and that literally kills my boner.

I'm into Femdom play. I'm a bottom-leaning switch. Note I said play, because it's just sex play, it doesn't mean I think women are superior. Exploring your submissive side with a partner is awesome. I'm not into female led relationships, this isn't a whole lifestyle. It's just roleplay for me. Many, many men are into Femdom and want to be spanked or have their dicks locked in a cage and teased, and for the majority of men, Femdom is about the woman dressing up in sexy outfits doing kinky things to them at their request and direction. I'm a dominant bottom rather than a true sub.

There are people who want lifestyle, like on Fetlife, lifestyle Dommes who are very hateful, feminist women and desperate men who are doormats to them. These lifestyle Dommes spew the same misandrist rhetoric you would encounter on Reddit.

Why do I say all this? Because most men are stand up guys, and I'm suprised at just how many men want Femdom type play and nurturing women. The stereotype of men is that we are knuckdragging ogres that want to violently facefuck our lovers, but that's not true.

If my post gets a negative response, I'll delete it for the good of the group.

[–]PHUCK_THE_HIVE 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women sexually tend to enjoy being the submissive role, but when society calls them weak and shames them for that, that nature explodes 10x under the covers - to the point it turns off most mentally healthy men, and that's dangerous. There's also the other side to it, all the girls have to prove they're 'tough girls' or whatever too.

I like being the dominant role, but it has to be directly sexual involving my crotch. So deepthroating a girl is my most sadistic pleasure.

But if it involves slapping, puke mopping and truly degrading shit like I saw on this gross facial abuse porn, it's a total boner kill for me.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Patriarchy, as envisioned in feminism, is a projection of the female psyche.

[–]-Merasmus- 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What about female to male violence?

[–]EpicHajsownik 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The thing that turns me on the most is a loving couple, that hugs themselves

[–]Ichaflash 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wasn't this supposed to be common knowledge by now? It's the women getting choking and hair pulling kinks, not the men, despite what twitter feminists would have you believe.

[–]plsgivemepokemon 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This has to be the most bullshit thing I’ve ever seen in my entire life. Every woman I’ve ever encountered has wanted “aggressive sex” and anything else, they were turned off by. Typical retard feminists spewing lies.

[–]DianeticDelight 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It never ends lmao

[–]jamesdanton 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Most of the women I have dated long term like things rougher than I do.

Choking, mostly. Not my thing. Feels weird.

[–]rocksnstyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, every woman I've been with has liked it rough in some way.

[–]gauchat-2693 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Makes sense why majority of rapists comes from single mothers.

[–]bennybeckler 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And yet they want you to be both aggressive and passive at the exact same time makes zero sense

[–]GigaShagger 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, not suprising

[–]AndyBrown65 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminists will hate this...

[–]YUPitsME_RICK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

in all they are more horny and still make us the horny animals

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[–]Raju1461 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

WTF. Why would women find that shit arousing? Even men shouldn't find it arousing.

[+]geetofthereaf -11 points-10 points-9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What is this supposed to mean?

[–]OldEgalitarianMRA 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women have internalized their men's misogyny by enjoying seeing other women treated aggressively including simulated rape.

That or women are about equal to men in terms of the kind of kinky porn they consume.

In my experience women are just as kinky as men.

[–]WoodenPreference260 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I feel a lot better about myself now. I had a gf who always wanted me to choke her and she would get pissed if I didn't choke her until she passed out. It made me really uncomfortable and eventually I just couldn't get hard anymore and she left. Like why the fuck would I want to choke you when we are having sex?? Huge turnoff for me but im sure some people like it.

[–]Vallahaiye 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But men are violent sex animals! /s

[+]bubbybyrd -22 points-21 points-20 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That doesn't mean that they want to be raped, or consent to rape, or feel the need to have violence in their own sex life.

[–]tenchineuro 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

or consent to rape

If they consent it's not rape.

[–]djb1983CanBoy 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Goes without saying.

[+]bubbybyrd -11 points-10 points-9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not when you read the other comments in this thread lol

[–]PPDenthusiast 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The comments in this thread are merely angry because us men were the ones being held responsible for violent po4n when it was women who liked it.

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