Flaking on dates?

wtknight · 2022-03-10T18:15:02+00:00

Removed. No advice posts.

TotalTravesty · 2022-03-10T18:08:41+00:00

If I’m free for lunch on Sunday I do lunch Sunday. If I’m not I see when the next good weeknight is.

MyrganGyrgan · 2022-03-10T18:13:56+00:00

You have to remember the sheer number of romantic options the average woman has these days. Don't take it personally if one of them flakes on or ghosts you, she was probably fielding like 10 different men at once and you came up short.

heyitsjeapeagain · 2022-03-10T18:12:44+00:00

I didn’t get many conversations when I used online dating. The few I did get turned into something similar. I never met any of them. My guess is that it’s either some kind of scam or they might be having fun online at your expense.

shonenhikada · 2022-03-10T18:14:46+00:00

You look desperate and pathetic from your story. Should have shown disinterest and just said
"perfect. let's reschedule" when she mention she had to to work. Leave it in her court and bounce.

KirthWGersen · 2022-03-10T18:18:12+00:00

If it took a couple of days before you switched to WhatsApp, she was low interest and just stringing you along for validation. Do you want a pen pal or someone who exists in the flesh?

I only chat on Tinder when I can meet up within a day or two. And I pitch the idea of meeting for a drink after just a few exchanges. Anyone who doesn't want to is wasting your time and your are better off moving on to the next.

Follow this rule and you can get to meet new people with a minimum of fuss.

Men with options don't waste their time in that way. They waste it in person.

Intrepid_Place5390 · 2022-03-10T18:10:21+00:00

why you chatting so much over days? you connect and setup a face 2 face. If she delays you move on.

she's not that interested, she's got 10 other guys she's talking to at the same time. Move on

I wouldn't take her to lunch either, I'd go for a walk or coffee whatever. Quick,easy escape.

If a girls interested, you will know.

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PirateDocBrown · 2022-03-10T18:16:25+00:00

Some people are just busy. A gal whos ok with a casual lunch on a first date is a good thing. Meet her for lunch, and decide after.

Title	Flaking on dates?
Author	Emortalrat
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	March 10, 2022 6:05 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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