I know a lot of you guys here agree with mark Mansons book models (I’ve searched the sub with his name on search bar ) but irrespective of that, I don’t think anyone can disagree with his theory of attraction which goes one step further than the redpill by advocating how inner work is important rather than just chasing Pussy.

That true attraction and confidence doesn’t come from having a don’t give a fuck attitude when deep down you give too many fucks but are too blind to be aware of your own emotions of actually caring too much.

I don’t mean to demean redpill here since it obviously works but at a cost.

Sex is tied to our psychological needs

{ https://markmanson.net/sex-and-our-psychological-needs }

and the concern I’m addressing here is that doesn’t chasing validation through sex (although unconscious ) can often lead to tying it up with self esteem? ( issue I’m currently dealing with now ).

I know redpill is an amoral sexual strategy and it’s cool and all but would you agree that it doesn’t take into account the formation of healthy relationship (I’m not talking unrealistic fairly tale but something that doesn’t require tools and tricks to stay in one with a (most probably emotionally repressed) "9" or "10" chick.

Now I agree some of you might have dealt with some manipulative women out there (i have too) and isn’t it that we’re not the ones moving on , being better (focusing on ourselves , which redpill often advocates to do but it’s kinda hard when a lot of energy is spent on them girls ) and being with better girls (In terms of their behaviours and values). Now before you say all girls are the same regardless of anything they pretend to be , biologically I would agree yes , but isn’t that similar with guys. We although are biologically similar , aren’t some of us different than others in a ton of aspects.

Because let’s talk about attachment styles

{https://markmanson.net/attachment-styles} trp advocates avoidant style , shouldn’t we be heading for secure type.

Now I agree that pussy is damn good and I’m not gonna give up on trp anytime soon but we just gotta make sure we’re not over investing and becoming more bitter than we need to be ? And the bigger concern, derailing our personal progress in the hunt of good Pussy.

Now trp says to focus on yourself and that’s a great thing and I agree when it’s actually followed in real life , there don’t be any problems. But you gotta agree , when it comes to balance pussy and work , there’s not much to think which one you’ll prioritise over the other (naturally).

But deep down I feel true trp won’t fall victim to the impulses of pussy but rather motivate us to work on ourselves, which is the epitome of all growth , in sexual and otherwise areas of life.