I work a lot and mostly nights. We have a home security system and Ring. So I woukd get notifications anytime the front door, garage or back door opens. But only have a camera in the front door. So people could come and go pretty easy from the other two doors.

Wife stopped having sex Summer 2019 (after we separated Nov 2021 she started love bombing me and frequent / freaky was back on the table).

She was always telling me I'm inappropriate around other women. Accusing me of cheating. And implying that I may have had an affair or would have an affair (ie insulting more morals and character). Said the way I act around women didn't make her feel safe. And that u allowed women to flirt with me (ie didn't stop their behavior, not that I did nothing [I would Grey rock, walk away, insult, etc] but that I didn't stop their behavior, which is her world meant I was encouraging them).

I have no reason to think she ever cheated, or evidence she did anything. But she's a pretty sexual person, two years is a long time. I 100% know she projects her issues on to me in other areas. So was doing some emotional homework about her projections. And when I came to the part above, I stopped and thought, I know she projects and the forum is full of guys that spouse was cheating but accusing them.

So she is crazy and insecure. But just trying to get a consensus vote here lol :) What do you guys think. There's a 20%, 50%, 80% chance she was doing something. Not every one that accuses is cheating. But given how much she projects everything else it's giving me pause 🤔

Thanks in advance