India is screwed up for Married Men
Not sure if this is allowed here but don't know where to vent out the anger .
Indian law is screwed up for married men . We do not have any rights what so ever. Been married for almost 4 months , hands down worst period of my life. Have been abused , taunted and broken down by my wife again and again. I tried to get divorce. It turns out you can't seprate for next 8 months. People telling me I am wrong should give her time to adjust, it just 4 months. Heck if she abuses me and my mother in just 4 months,what more is there to wait. Went to a lawyer. Told me to stay down as no matter what evidence I have, if I file for divorce and in retaliation if she register an FIR against me even if there are false, I am screwed, my career is over. I have never ever abused her , never raised a hand on her, always respected her and after all that mental torture , I don't have any rights and be scared that if she files a FIR , me and my whole family is screwed.
I don't know what to do . I am lost . Lost my faith in family relations. I have lost my faith in India. My dad is in severe depression, he has stopped speaking anything and is a shell of his earlier self.
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