Indian man are waking up.

halffunction · 2022-07-27T14:14:08+00:00

1 lakh = 100,000

ramao__ · 2022-07-27T14:27:43+00:00

"Men don't want their inferior copycat" This take is perfect. Also they can't even be called bread earners since the man's money is the couple's money, but their money is their money.

TheSnesLord · 2022-07-27T14:50:53+00:00

This is considered to be Indian men "waking up"? I'm sure this is common knowledge that most Indian men know about already, but they keep it to themselves to avoid feminist lynch-mobbing.

The time when biased misandrist laws in India are changed is when Indian men have woken up.

johnny_is_home · 2022-07-27T16:45:15+00:00

This is a very good point actually.

Many married women feel that their financial contribution is equal just because they're working a "full-time" job, which can mean as little as 30 hours a week all the way up to 50 or more hours. That is their basis for demanding that their husbands contribute equally to domestic labor.

But the fact is, not only do husbands work more hours than wives, but they work harder jobs, and most importantly they bring in way more money. The 20-30k difference in earnings between married men and married women is literally enough to hire a full-time nanny.

And if you think the "solution" to this is your tradcuck fantasies of a breadwinner husband and a SAHM wife then you're an even bigger sucker, because SAHM barely do anything. Children get free babysitting courtesy of the government from ages 4-17, 7 hours a day, 5 days a week, 9 months a year. Electronic devices and the internet fill in the rest of the time. Household appliances have massively reduced the amount of time required to complete domestic tasks.

Marriage is a bad deal for western men. Don't get married, period.

CJ421 · 2022-07-27T19:08:21+00:00

Most of these guys might get divorced in 30 yrs as India is moving towards being liberal, and then these guys will have to start paying up lifetime alimony.

MiKEY_SANZ · 2022-07-27T15:48:06+00:00

I’ve been wondering why I don’t see more Indian men on this sub

Naru4odo · 2022-07-27T15:28:42+00:00

And there's the fact that these indian women are constantly taking their men to the cleaners by layering false sexual abuse and physical abuse allegations onto their men....

Fearless-File-3625 · 2022-07-27T16:06:06+00:00

If you marry any women (working or not) you are not "waking up". Men have 0 benefit from marriage.

peanutbutterjams · 2022-07-27T18:16:12+00:00

Behind almost every male CEO, there's a woman who doesn't have to work to earn a very luxurious lifestyle.

Anybody have stats on how many households in America have the husband being the primary breadwinner and earning well above the living wage while the wife is not working or working part-time jobs.

It would be handy to have an approximate number of women privileged enough to live in the lap of luxury without ever having to work for it.

Even without that, all woman have An Out. There's always the possibility of marrying up a rich man and never having to work again in their lives.

I remember the day when I realized I had no Out, that I was looking at 45 years of spending the majority of my waking life making money for somebody richer than me.

odysseytree · 2022-07-27T14:06:34+00:00

Men don't want competition in relationship. Career is not a factor that rich men see when looking for a relationship. Money factor is used for men.

beleidigtewurst · 2022-07-27T16:37:03+00:00

Well, I work with a number of Indian colleagues.

And I don't see any difference in effort put forth by either of the genders.

I also doubt there is any major difference in their salaries.

They make about 1k+ USD a month (Tamil Nadu). It is hard for me to imagine large enough number of people who make 10k USD a month in India to marry them.

foreverstudent8 · 2022-07-27T20:25:05+00:00

Based Indian men

Magical-Hummus · 2022-07-28T13:03:00+00:00

That and feminist in India are quick to false accusations. Same country where a 12 year old boy was raped by his 17 year old sister, she got pregnant and they imprisoned HIM.

quantainium_pasta · 2022-07-27T16:53:45+00:00

Okay, so first off, I 100% agree with the logic in the screenshot. If a man is making 50 lakh, and a woman is making only 3 lakh, then it makes absolutely zero sense for the woman to keep working, instead of taking care of the couple's children. Especially if the expenses for childcare are greater than or equal to 3 lakh.

But Men's Rights is, if you take a step back, about equality for all. We are fighting things in the west like non-discrimination in family courts, discrimination in public education and higher education, etc. We want EQUALITY, while also not wanting to exceed that equality, because that would just be unfair.

So looking at this current situation... the biggest unfairness that sticks out to me here is that the screenshot says "most women are earning 3-4 lakh a year", but "expecting men to earn 10-50 lakhs per year". If we are truly looking for equality, we cannot forget that the wage gap may be largely eliminated in western nations, but still largely exists in other places in the world.

Ninja_Arena · 2022-07-27T16:32:02+00:00

I don't see this as a mens rights issue. Yeah it's a cultural issue but not an"right" that's being infringed upon.

Don't make mens rights advocates into homogeneously cultured group that doesn't allow variety of opinion of experience like so many did with feminism.

This isn't a "waking up" situation.

ageggeuejrjdvcb · 2022-07-27T18:46:41+00:00

Glad to read this

The_ZMD · 2022-07-27T19:16:12+00:00

In the same article they state a women with higher wage has better than lower wage women. So if women have a serious well paying career, they are more desirable than less paying part time career.

WiseBoy_Level100 · 2022-07-27T18:40:34+00:00

Based☕

bigez526 · 2022-07-27T21:31:00+00:00

They will require a maid with your money while saving their own money. That becomes the standard of living you will be forced to maintain for them after divorce. Their thoughts on marital income: 'My money is my money. Your money is my money.' Nothing is ever 'ours'. It will always be about her. Alimony is legalized slavery.

rozmarymarlo · 2022-07-28T00:11:05+00:00

Oh absolutely 💯. Almost all of my Indian friends aren't biting. From what I hear - Indian middle and upper middle class is infested with toxic feminism.

Odd-Nebula6024 · 2022-07-28T08:17:41+00:00

Woah! That Indian girl who wrote the comment seems cool. She seems to understand the reality. Indian girls look good, can’t say the same for Indian guys though.

Trick-Champion3634 · 2022-07-28T03:27:03+00:00

That’s good, no need to waste time on Indian woman who won’t treat Indian men with the respect and dignity they deserve. Woman all over are placed on a pedestal. I always get worked up at work with these I compete women who can’t do their job but get a pass and pass there slack on to others.

Fit_Possession7102 · 2025-05-24T20:19:11+00:00

Truth

Free-Indication-8415 · 2022-07-28T03:56:30+00:00

This just sounds like more sexism to me. Expecting someone to stay home because of their gender is no better than expecting someone to make more money because of their gender.

AdAcademic4290 · 2022-07-28T07:21:51+00:00

This is very much an upper middle class issue.

Most men and women in India work their asses off, at work and at home. In nasty, dangerous conditions. Very few can afford all the modern conveniences.

Many still do not have their own toilet.

It's simple. Reduce working hours for all, increase wages, everyone can have more quality ( and housework!) time, not to mention fewer work related accidents due to tiredness etc, and of course, improve working conditions.

ScotchSinclair · 2022-07-28T01:23:49+00:00

This post is stupid. Woman working has nothing to do with mens rights. This sub has really gone to trash. The real story here is unequal pay and job opportunity.

thegreatesthumphrey · 2022-07-27T19:13:06+00:00

Are they actually getting angry or are they just turned off at the fact? Anger is a high intensity emotion used as a description to illicit the same intensity - it gets thrown around a lot - if they are just turned off by the fact, which I assume 90% we're, they can have that opinion and then act accordingly - which under the circumstance means probably not using a dating app and being patient or trying some other action to find their happiness.

Volkodavy · 2022-07-28T04:41:31+00:00

Sounds like praising men who view women as mommy maid they stick their dick into. India very much still holds an old fashioned, sexist mindset where men are forced to do labour and women are forced to be mommymaid. Why are you praising this?

PaidHack · 2022-07-27T17:00:58+00:00

Bro forgot to add more zeros. The common calculation is wifey salary+ hubby’s salary*2.

wulin007WasTaken · 2022-07-27T19:06:08+00:00

Man, this sub is turning into the next r/antiwork, r/fuckcars and r/antinatalism

cherrysoupsux · 2022-07-27T18:25:54+00:00

Are they also woken enough to acknowledge the gender pay gap amd girls struggling to get education there?

ageggeuejrjdvcb · 2022-07-27T18:47:58+00:00

The article is written by a woman I believe And the tone of the article is quite in favour of women which is obvious 🙄

slver6 · 2022-07-27T19:08:34+00:00

Wow is happening everywhere

Athrownawaysoul · 2022-07-28T06:46:35+00:00

Sooo good

LegendOfSoccer · 2022-08-08T18:18:18+00:00

I m Indian . I will only marry an Indian girl because she will be mostly traditional. As for alimony there is no such thing in India. So women will stick around and won’t loot men. Divorce rate is only 1% in India compared to 50% in Europe and US.

Indian man are waking up.

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ASHOK KUMAR, L.D. M.S.

Title	Indian man are waking up.
Author	halffunction
Upvotes	827
Comments	82
Date	July 27, 2022 1:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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