I feel like I have no one to talk to

Sct1787 · 2022-07-16T01:23:28+00:00

Have you considered the use of a therapist? Seems like you may not actually need help per se but rather a specific individual to share your feelings with and almost talk things out aloud with if that makes sense. There are websites like BetterHelp, Cerebral, and many others (able to be found with a quick google search) that are low cost and can provide a person for you to talk to.

I offer this as an option because that way you are getting what you need (unloading/emotional sharing/talking through things) while not laying a “burden”, as you called it, unnecessarily on your husband. In either case, I wish you luck and I hope you find a resolution.

Forsaken_Magician905 · 2022-07-16T05:29:18+00:00

I was in the same boat as you. I still don't have many friends and no close friends, only family I talk to (which limits what you can talk about for me).

I used free texting services a lot when I realllly needed to talk to someone. I don't know where you are located but google local texting services, there's a few I used. Like kids help line or connex in Ontario for example.

There's also OpenPath if you need a less expensive therapist.

neverendingtasklist · 2022-07-16T21:34:31+00:00

All of my friends are elderly women. I cannot find a single women my age who shares my values where I live 😒 I'm sorry you are lonely

sunglasses90 · 2022-07-17T14:02:13+00:00

A lot of larger churches have “small groups” that meet up. Ones specifically for women, or mothers, or singles or whatever category. It’s good to have mentors and friends in your corner

katsumii · 2022-07-16T14:56:48+00:00

Yeah...

I only have my therapist. She helps immensely with practical advice and reframing my perspective on things. It's not at all the same as having a buddy if I just want to chat, though. There's an online Discord group I can PM you, if you want to join that. They have a "venting" channel and an "advice" channel, plus plenty of casual channels. They're very friendly and welcoming — and chatty. But it just ain't the same as in-person.

Have you ever tried the BumbleBFF app?

Or Replika.AI?

Theyogithatcould · 2022-07-19T05:05:27+00:00

Opening up to your husband, the singlemost person who should have your back to love and support you through hard times, calling that "negative, not yourself" is either emotionally unavailable to you after all, or scared by not knowing what he needs to do to comfort you. You need to be clear in what you are asking of him; ie: I need you to just listen, I need a hug, I need your opinion, etc.
Whatever you do, keep confiding in your HUSBAND and be weary of spilling your soul to a stranger (therapists) or taking damaging pharmaceuticals.
He needs to be there for you. What's important is you recognizing that you're not being a burden in this. It's ok to not be ok.

Title	I feel like I have no one to talk to
Author	cohost3
Upvotes	29
Comments	10
Date	July 15, 2022 11:37 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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