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Maybe because many Asian women are still feminine, non-tattooed and don't behave like whores, but "Mah body mah choice!"

kevin32

August 7, 2022
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Title Maybe because many Asian women are still feminine, non-tattooed and don't behave like whores, but "Mah body mah choice!"
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kevin32

Upvotes 213
Comments 67
Date August 7, 2022 12:25 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/wiek64/maybe_because_many_asian_women_are_still_feminine/
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Comments

[–]gentle_lemon 176 points177 points178 points 3 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

Not to mention most American women have awful attitudes and personalities. They don't have hobbies, interests, or talents. They just kinda exist. It's a shame.

[–]DontWorryItsEasy 147 points148 points149 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

"I like travel, food, and clothes"

Bitch, who doesn't? What do you do in your free time? Do you go camping? Cross stitch? Sew? Play soccer? Do you have a project you're working on?

No? What do you do in your free time? Go on Instagram and watch TV, hang out with your friends?

Who the fuck finds this attractive? I'd rather date a 6 who is interesting than an 8 who is a snore fest.

"Feed me tacos and touch my butt" Nope. Pass.

[–]PirateDocBrownJr. Hamster Analyst 68 points69 points70 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's not telling us what she's done. She's telling us her wish list. She want YOU to buy her food clothes and trips.

[–]One-Move 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How interesting I also like to consume substance and oxygen

[–]clinicalresearch843 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think a lot of women get away with it in their early to mid 20s because at that age most guys don’t have the experience to discern between what they want and what they don’t want- they’re just excited to be talking to an attractive woman.

Once you get to your late 20s and early 30s, most guys have learned about what they want and the women that just kind of sit around looking for attention are left behind. This goes both ways for gender I guess.

[–]CovidCommando21 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Actually, I always thought of the number rating system more like how you rank all together. You may be a 6 with only looks but if you have interesting things to say and generally are fun to have in presence you can make it to a 9 easy. Also, there is no true, universal 10s. There are 9s who have that thing (red hair, an amazing rack, similar hobby we can do together) that bumps you that one extra point.

[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Most 6s can be an 8 if they want to spend hundreds a month of at hair salons and high end makeup.

That's really the difference between the an 8 and a 6.

A truly unattractive woman has either stone deformity or overweight.

[–]V_MKilodick Converter 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd rather date

Decades of observation show me that men provide attention by number, but women date men by number. Its like the distinction of which sex gatekeeps sex vs relationships.

[–]PoliticallyHated1 points 3 years ago* [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

The amount of women who I see on dating apps and Reddit who have no personality is astonishing.

Some examples: please don’t just say hi (literally nothing else on their profile), I like tattoos, I like my dog more than you, here for a good time not a long time, being on this apps is terrible, don’t be boring, looking for someone with a good taste in music (never lists anything), I have a dog, I like dogs, dog mom, I love my kid… who is my dog, dogs are so cute, my puppy is my life, I love drinking, wine is awesome, on the weekends I get drunk, let’s get drinks, I love drinking and tattoos, for fun I like to drink, my hobbies are my dog and drinking, looking for someone who can handle my sarcasm, let’s roast each other, I’m sarcastic, I’m an asshole sometimes, (hinge prompt: green flags I look for) red flags, if you don’t like (x girly movie or musician no man likes) it won’t work out, (not kidding, hinge prompt: change my mind about:) Men. So many I’m forgetting.

Not to mention the amount that put pronouns in the bio, have tattoos, only have group photos, are fat, have kids, have pics with their ex, pics of them giving the middle finger, them almost naked. Oh and god forbid you talk to them and they can’t hold a conversation then genuinely get confused when I stop talking to them. If you have a girlfriend or a wife then you are truly blessed. I’m about to just wait a generation to pass because current women are fucked.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The amount of women who I see on dating apps and Reddit who have no personality is astonishing.

While insisting that any men have enough personality to cover for two people. That's what is galling.

If a man has the ability to pull the load of both sides of the relationship, he can get laid without the relationship.

[–]V_MKilodick Converter 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If a man has the ability to pull the load of both sides of the relationship, he can get laid without the relationship.

Possibly the most insightful line I've ever read on this subreddit; I'd like to nominate this for sidebar quotation.

[–]jzdelonaintrospective wahmyns 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not to mention the obvious catfishing via filters and fat concealing selfies (usually with duckface and some insipid baby animal filter)

[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The new trend of high wasted yoga pants to hide their guts as well

[–]Intelligent-Bet-8507 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

American women like toxic traits in men and most men don’t want to act like that to attract women that prefer those traits.

[–]Burninglegion65 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have a friend who’s an unfortunate example of this.

Nice personality but it’s empty. Chooses horrible guys - mind you she really tries to stick with them more than she should… then it reaches a braking point and to be fair she does try to find better men. Unfortunately for her, in a few months they all have ended up horrible so far. I’ll give her that the last two were really unexpected pieces of shit. They seemed decent on the surface but as more information was gathered they became worse.

Unfortunately, that’s it. No hobbies, interests beyond reality tv or talents other than her job. It’s dull beyond dull. No reading of anything interesting or gaming. Those at least have a low barrier to entry. Stepping up to stuff like gardening or playing an instrument oh hell no. So… there’s nothing except horrible tv. I mean, cool YouTube videos would be an improvement at this point!

It’s genuinely sad to me. I get the circumstances too but that doesn’t mean give up…

[–]anonstuff25 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh they have hobbies, interests and talents! It’s just that no man worth a damn would stick by them if they openly admitted their hobbies, interests and talents revolve around manipulating people around them to do their bidding/give them attention.

[–]SunnySideAttitude 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“Just kinda exist” Sad

[–]meissnerhotchkiss 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You touched on something for sure with the “they just kinda exist.” Very good insight 👍🏽

[–]Galindan 146 points147 points148 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

From what I've heard most Asian women are more feminine LOOKING but they are twice as bad as everything this sub complains about

In Japan they demand a very high earning man who works 12 hour days. They also demand constant pampering.

In Korea femenist ideology has infested then like a plague. Plus they also have similar expectations to Japan

Chinese also demand high earners only

All these countries suffer heavily from lack of marriages and babies. And a major reason is the expectations of the women have risen above what the average man is. Just like here.

If your white, blonde haired, blue eyed and very tall(6+) then they will sleep with you. But not marry you or necessarily even stay with you for longer than a night. Just like the women here.

Their cultures are also very xenophobic so good luck with building a life there. My uncle has been married and living there for over a decade and even now he is still treated different

[–]RumRogerz 72 points73 points74 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is so fucking true.

I live in a multicultural city and the only way you can date any Asian woman is if you’re tall, skinny and white af. There literally is no divergence from that, unless they prefer to date their own race. It’s really, really weird to see

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

The days of going to East Asia and finding a beautiful submissive wife are just about over. Most of Asia has been westernized and is heavily into hookup culture, so the dating scene mirrors the American or UK experience.

[–]myphoneat2percent 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Lies, go to Thailand or Philippines.

Source: I’m black , short and have a dad bod and my fiancé is Thai

[–]Suaveful 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

yeah, ghetto asians (southeast) are the ones considered by most to be submissive and obedient.

source: am ghetto asian (filipino)

[–]myphoneat2percent 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Nah chill bro, Thai’s and Fillipinos are some of the most genuinely kind people I’ve ever met ( this is after I ran out of money early from partying too hard). Very humble beginnings, reminded me of my childhood in the 90s.

[–]Suaveful 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

i agree. in fact, i would include: vietnamese, laotian, cambodian, and hmong peoples.

i believe it’s because southeast asia is less westernized. the philippines does have a strong american cultural influence, but is still a very slow, communal and familial lifestyle compared to the independence of the crazy rich asians.

[–]myphoneat2percent 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. It just goes to show that money isn’t necessarily everything. I definitely plan to retire in S.E Asia

[–]incarnate1 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bit late, but as someone who is married to a foreign asian and before dated a handful, I couldn't disagree more.

It is Japan's culture that has a demanding work schedule, not necessarily the women. As for the constant pampering comment, there's a portion of women in every culture like that.

You also might be surprised to know that it's actually the men in SE asian countries that have relatively higher standards if compared to the men here in the West; live in Japan for a year and you'll see the stigma against unmarried and/or fat women over 25.

It's rooted in evolution that women are more hypergamous than men. But on the flip side, if you're a high earner, you get more choices. Just as a woman that's younger and more beautiful has more choices. Really just different sides of the same coin.

[–]NutsLikeMelons 71 points72 points73 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The only thing we need to do collectively is stop engaging individually with women who don’t meet our standards. The problem will fix itself. But it’s going to be a shitty 10-20 years until it does.

[–]ProfitgluttonThot-ese translator 64 points65 points66 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The most vile thing about the feminist movement is that women see exactly what men are actively going for and prefer but instead of trying to be more like that to get the what they say they want, they enact laws or actively campaign against it and try to force us to prefer a more grotesque almost deformed version of the women they present as. It’s just sickening.

[–]aerovirus22 53 points54 points55 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because the things men want take hard work. Being fat and lazy is easier.

[–]WhatMixedFeelings 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bingo. It always boils down to laziness.

[–]Aronacus 64 points65 points66 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The requirements men have had for women haven't really changed in 100 years. Partnership, children, homemaking.

However women's requirements for men have changed exponentially through the decades.

Grandma wanted something far different then modern day Karen.

This is causing a great divide. Such that women are shooting for top 10% will share him.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Shh. If you say things like that then the women would Blame nen for not increasing the requirements or would spout nonsense like women are already perfect to begin with.

[–]Aronacus 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep! Imagine this, in our grandparents and parents day.

Prospective wife was taught how to clean, cook, raise kids.

Men were taught how to maintain the house [plumbing, electrical, contracting] yard work, etc.

[–]Aromatic_Shop9033 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This keeps Marxists having nightmares and cold sweats.

What a terrible vision...thankfully, we are progressing away from such savagery.

/sarc

[–]ArrowGantOne1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

My exwife is Asian. We still communicate every Monday morning to make sure everything is okay in our respective worlds. Asian women make awesome wives / GF's from my experience. Beautiful, good in bed and smart as hell. One word of caution. They have REALLY good lawyers! But things like logic, reason and consequences for actions aren't alien to them.

[–]rickmackdaddy 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

So …. What happened?

[–]ArrowGantOne1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Eh, we should have never gotten married. Long story, but we dated a long time. It got to the point where we got married or split up. We both made the wrong decision and wed. In the end I had some major childhood trauma I finally dealt with. She tried to be as sympathetic as she could for me, but there are some things nobody can help us with. We must do it on our own. So we regretfully parted ways.

[–]kc3079 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Did she still take you for half your shit, or was she reasonable?

[–]chirruphowlinkeeaahh 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm from Asian side of this world and can say clearly that westernization and americanisation has stemmed inside including females who speak of feminist rules but knows nothing about it. Talks about Amber Heard but haven't seen or heard about who she is or what she does. So it's not all females here are good but only handful and handpicked.

[–]PhoenixAZisHot 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You ever seen Ferrari’s parked next to dump trucks? Well this picture has done just that

[–]five_eight 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I got over the yellow fever long ago, and I'm very grateful.

[–]kevin_bean 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Same man. I used to be hard up into Asian Chicks in my 20s. Now in my 30s my wife looks like one of those dyed hair tattooed hippy girls on the bottom right. She's tattooed, tall, hairy, big ass, huge titties along with being my best friend, and we have better sex than I ever had with any Asian girl.

[–]five_eight 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Congrats!

[–]dairyman2049 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm Asian and got over my yellow fever, lmao!

Grew up around them and know enough how they end up after marriage. Haven't dated an Asian in over 10 years and enjoyed other races since.

[–]five_eight 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Congrats! The Asian women I've dated and known scare the hell out of me, in hindsight. The cosmos spared me untold hellish torture. Same as with most of the white and other women I've known. I'm just very, very lucky. But when one is young and looking at new and exotic people one's hormones can really screw with taking care of yourself and your best interests.

[–]OdinStat 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There's some data on racial dating preferences in the US, and its moreso asian women preferring white men than the other way around. White men prefer white women, while asian women would rather date a white guy than an asian dude.

[–]V_MKilodick Converter 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Think of TV shows and who's propagandizing what values...

Left side looks like the cast of The Bachelor or a glamour shot from Female Ninja Warrior (presumably one of the Asian country editions) or a pageant.

Right side looks like the cast of Big Brother or Survivor or one of the commercials shown during breaks of those shows.

Kinda hard to unsee after you see it.

[–]HeliumHater 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is SO TRUE. Also, most Asian women are very loyal and the type of Mom you want raising your kids.

[+]2k18lol -28 points-27 points-26 points 3 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

Why would you want a woman without tattoos? Those are the ones that'll expect you to pay for everything

[–]aerovirus22 52 points53 points54 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Tattoos are hideous, not sure why people cover themselves in them. They look like a fucking doodle bear. And there is no rhyme or reason, just random tats wherever they find an open spot of skin, like a desk in detention.

[–]Sumpm 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's graffiti for your skin. Totally fine for an underpass in the middle of the city, not so great on a beautiful home. I think it's just a way to have someone draw your desired personality on yourself, so you don't have to work on actually developing a real one. I have none, and I think they look trashy.

[–]RumRogerz 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Exactly. Would you put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari?

[–]aerovirus22 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Like a mural painted on a Lamborghini.

[+]2k18lol -9 points-8 points-7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Idk I just feel like the plain Jane look is just remarkably average

[–]aerovirus22 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I understand, a lot of people feel that way, im not knocking you for liking them, I just find them extremely unattractive. It on the same level of unattractive as morbid obesity to me.

[–]jmpiresJr. Hamster Analyst 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

TIL women’s tattoos lower their expectations about men - wouldn’t that be a good reason against self-inflicting them? I am experiencing some difficulty to follow this train of thought.

[+]2k18lol -17 points-16 points-15 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Nope! I just don't believe in gender roles, I believe in two people coming together equally, and women with tattoos are more likely to be open minded and feel the same way,

[–]mmt22 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Wtf is this logic

[–]2k18lol 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

A woman with more traditional values is less likely to have tattoos and piercings, like someone who is extremely Christian, it's not the case everytime obviously

[–]Mister_McDerp 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Tatoos = bad longterm decision making imo

[–]2k18lol 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's an interesting way to look at it🤔

[–]Mister_McDerp 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's pretty common, in this sub, at least.

[–]HephaestusRuin 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And women with tattoos don't expect you to pay for everything? Delusional

[–]Land_of_the_Losers1 points 3 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

The assumption appears to be: "no tats = traditional = expects a man to pay for everything" with the corollary being "tats = non-traditional = pays half for everything."

The faulty assumptions are rather obvious, but let us argue that it is nonetheless correct. The "traditionalist" woman is at least following certain expectations for what the woman is obligated to do in her part of the relationship. With the non-traditionalist woman, such expectations are completely out the window, she has no obligations to you and you must gladly accept that she'll be escapadeing around on Tinder at will. If that's the deal, the traditional woman is offering an OK deal while the non-trad woman is offering a bad deal. Even if she pays for an appetizer once in a while, it's still a bad deal.

[–]2k18lol 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well yeah I mean I definitely made a blanket statement, that's just been my experience though, like my first gf was very traditionally raised as her mom was a Catholic from Nicaragua, and she always had problems like with the way I said things or with me enjoying pop culture stuff, and not "manly" things, whereas my gfs/gf who had found their own path didn't have made up expectations about masculinity

[–]2k18lol 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just keep looking brother you'll find her!

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