I just realized I’m unattractive and honestly?

PsychedelicFooooker · 2022-08-09T23:22:19+00:00

Lmfao if you’re a midget I’m a mega midget at 5’4

capitanMorgan89 · 2022-08-09T22:55:44+00:00

I fu*king love this post. Hooraaah!

skevyo · 2022-08-09T20:13:25+00:00

Sounds like you are “accepting” a bad hand you were dealt when in reality your a man & men can do & be anything. From your description you played the nice guy and got walked all over. Say it ain’t so but it happens to the best of us.

Don’t be mad at the world for not accepting you for your height or looks (which matter a lot less when your a man). People gain respect for you as a man by seeing work ethic and progress in your life. Early mid 20s are the hardest for men because you most likely don’t have the social status or money you’d like to have yet. The beauty of being a man is the more you grow older the more potential partners/friends you attract.

greysterguy · 2022-08-09T23:56:19+00:00

I'm 5'5". Being below average height is a real blow to the ol' confidence, but I've learned to live with it. It also helps that my interest in relationships died as soon as I saw the clusterfucks my friends' relationships became.

odysseytree · 2022-08-09T20:40:04+00:00

Thickness of your wallet and acceleration of your car add to your attractiveness.

Trick-Champion3634 · 2022-08-09T23:36:21+00:00

Same boat as you buddy and yeah, accepting it has improved my life in some aspects. Definitely been easier on my wallet since I’m not really spending money on fashion or looks as much as things I’m genuinely into, so no pressure to feel like I need to be fashionable except for looking sharp at work. Also mentally it’s freeing to know I don’t have to try hard, been a lot more comfortable in my skin these days. Only thing that hasn’t been too great is the lack of friends I have and lost over the years. I never realized how important it is to continuously maintain those relationships. It does tie back in with looks at the end of the day in my view. Overall I’m glad I’m aware of this, also helps me get a better perspective on my relationship expectations.

AchtzehnVonSchwefel · 2022-08-10T03:39:46+00:00

Welcome to the fold, brother. The first step to ascension is the mastering of the art of not giving a fuck.

AchtzehnVonSchwefel · 2022-08-10T07:20:51+00:00

LMAO! The femcels are brigading again because men have achieved the knowledge that a 400 gram piece of meat with a line carved in isn't a man's end goal and no chad 6 feet tall himbo is going to follow them everywhere like a deranged lapdog and pay for their diamond ring out of his 8 figure salary. LOL!

r/MGTOW

Despite they banned the Subreddit because we lived and still do live rent free in their heads.

Valacycloveer1080 · 2022-08-09T23:31:37+00:00

if i speak up im a male karen

exactly my dude, im kinda fat and almost no one takes me seriously and when i have a fight im always the bad guy :(

but stuff like this has nothing to do on men's rights although there would be major intersection in both communities. It belongs on probably grooming advice, m i ugly or incels without hate subs. Male. feminists are dudes with pretty privilege. they don't get to see the real world.

war_m0nger69 · 2022-08-10T03:21:14+00:00

Ok, I'm going to guess you're pretty young. Let me share an older guy's perspective - it all evens out as you get older. Keep working on yourself - stay in the gym, work on your career, pay a stylist to cut your hair, wear well fitting clothes, etc. If you hang in there, as you get older, others in your age group will be on the downswing and you'll just be hitting your prime. None of the stuff that you're self conscious about today will matter in a few years - maybe you think you have a big nose or a weak chin - it won't matter to the 30 somethings you'll be dating. They'll care that you take care of yourself, that you have a stable career and that you treat them well (that's important - learn how to treat women well and you'll go very far indeed).

Just my two cents. I wish someone had said the same thing to me when I was in high school.

walkingaroundme · 2022-08-10T04:50:29+00:00

You need to go to the gym.

velderan · 2022-08-10T03:26:40+00:00

This is the most incel post I’ve seen on this sub in a long time. You mean to say, you lived your life the way you thought others wanted, and you were miserable? And suddenly, you stopped that, and stopped being miserable? Like magic? Crazy…

Now for the real magic trick, people will pick up on you being happier/more confident, and will respond naturally to that from you. You will seem more likable to them because you aren’t miserable anymore, so you will notice people interact with you quite differently.

pumpkinpeopleunite · 2022-08-09T21:24:04+00:00

I’ve accepted I’m not the top 2% of men that all women want. I’m 5’9 (considered a midget to 98% of women)

Sorry but this is utter nonsense. If this were true, you realise that the human race wouldn't have survived. Jfc I mean, in my country 5'10" is the average height for a man, so 5'9" is hardly a midget. In many many countries the average height for men is much lower.

oneofamike · 2022-08-10T00:39:49+00:00

How sad… being 5’9” means you’ll likely live longer than the 6’4” Chad. Since you’ll likely live longer go out and enjoy life. You will get to enjoy it longer than the 6’4” Chad you’re complaining about.

Izalias · 2022-08-09T21:48:27+00:00

Google Tom Torerro, you don't need to be attractive, you just need to practice some day game and ditch the habits that signal to women that you aren't dating material.

toblaro · 2022-08-09T21:50:22+00:00

Accepting that things are neither good or bad… they just are, is pretty liberating! Not being tall or looking like idk Zach Efron or whoever you think is hot is fine, not having a lucrative career is fine, just figure out what you actually like doing (not necessarily what society has conditioned you to think you like doing) and try to do that!

Also I think most people are way more dateable in their 30s, men and women, most of us in our 20s are still recovering from our childhood in some way or another.

acnhplayer333 · 2022-08-09T20:40:10+00:00

if only more men could just admit that theyre ugly

alclarkey · 2022-08-09T23:07:27+00:00

This is exactly why when people ask other people if they are attractive or not, I recommend they tell the unvarnished truth, but without being mean about. Knowing for certain that you're unattractive can be incredibly freeing.

ggleblanc2 · 2022-08-09T23:40:38+00:00

I understand the point you're making. Try to be the best version of yourself that you can, for your own benefit.

However, the better you dress, the better you're treated.

Not trendy. Better.

Kevin Samuels was the elder example, wearing a suit whenever he went out. It's possible to dress nicely wearing just a shirt and slacks.

Theapexfighter · 2022-08-10T00:25:24+00:00

Welcome to the club

Canadian-female · 2022-08-10T03:41:53+00:00

Women don’t consider 5’ 9” to be practically a midget. I mean 98%? No.

C20H25N3O-C21H30O2 · 2022-08-10T05:15:01+00:00

"Fuck it Dude, let's go bowling" - The Big Lebowski

Title	I just realized I’m unattractive and honestly?
Author	TransportationNo1997
Upvotes	107
Comments	60
Date	August 9, 2022 8:06 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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