Hey guys I’m 22 years old I’ve been married since I was 20 to this girl I met in Arizona I’m from Edmonton gone to do business in the states and I meet her there, while working with celebrities etc.

She follows me on Instagram so I message her and we started dating for 6 months, then we got married because she got pregnant.

I’ve been married to her for 2 years now but living with her is so unbearable I literally tried everything. I am mentally drained.

My lawyer is telling me continue to pretend to love her and whenever arguments happen start recording so you have more evidence in court.

But please try to understand that I am 22 in love with this women who is also 22 and we have a beautiful healthy daughter and been married for 2 years. We’ve both been loyal to each other but my lawyer is having me do this stuff to make my case better when we seperate.

She doesn’t know about my plans to seperate, but I know it’s what’s best for me and my kid, I’m still okay with her seeing my kid 50/50

But I have to take the kid away drop her off to my parents then serve her the papers my mind is just going nuts.

How do you pretend to be with your lover , your wife, the person you said your vows to and then quietly try to fuck them over.

It makes me sick, I don’t wanna do this - but I spoke to another divorced dad and he told me “this game is a finesse and one person is the finesser and the other person gets finessed. So it’s better if your the finesser”

I don’t like it I hate it.

I wish me and my wife could live happily with my daughter, but I’ve done everything - I even offered her own therapist and a marriage counsel but she refuses.

I don’t wanna do this to her and I wish I could wake up happy with my wife and kid everyday. I’m doing that now but it hurts knowing once I serve her papers this is done soon.

I would appreciate any advice, any solutions that can help me through this process or help fix my marriage so I don’t have to do this.

I feel like a shit person it’s totally against my principles but my daughter is more important to me than my feelings toward my self.

I’m just mentally fucked up and broken, I wanna be good hurts so bad I can’t.