My sister said staying in my house all day makes me an incel

Tsole96 · 2022-08-21T23:55:48+00:00

I don't think she knows what an incel is lol

Hound_of_Hell · 2022-08-22T02:11:20+00:00

My sister and her BF called me an Incel when I just got home from seeing my GF 😂

Rikkrikkrikk · 2022-08-21T22:24:19+00:00

Maybe she meant "in cell". Show her your house keys and tell her you can go out if you want to.

Foids ☕

maxjets666 · 2022-08-21T22:33:38+00:00

I think she means introvert.

biscuitheque · 2022-08-21T22:30:41+00:00

Your location has nothing to do with your sexual preferences. She's shaming you, insulting you and possibly projecting to make herself feel better. Does she stay indoors a lot? She probably wants you out the house so she can climb aboard her giant horse dildo and squirt all over your windows.

You do what you want. Don't listen to women, look at how they act not what they say.

MaiaTai27 · 2022-08-22T01:54:46+00:00

Ooh, looks like we got a new buzz-word from the interwebs. I don't have to take this toxic femininity from you.

WA0SIR · 2022-08-22T01:17:26+00:00

Your sister in an idiot then, to throw a word like that around so lightly.

2022-08-22T02:13:56+00:00

Wait how old are you, and how old is your sister?

rabel111 · 2022-08-22T00:20:29+00:00

Classic gaslighting. Your sister is being a sexist .....

TempleFugit · 2022-08-21T23:21:30+00:00

You should ask how many vibrators she owns.

Theapexfighter · 2022-08-22T11:58:15+00:00

If she uses the word incel , she is automatically dumb.

Edit: lmao

shit-zen-giggles · 2022-08-22T00:04:18+00:00

your sister is using 'female 101' shaming tactic on you. It's their go to method to make men comply with their desires and attitudes.

Tell/Text her that 'shaming tactics don't work anymore, in fact they achive the opposite of what's intended. I'll exert the same level of care & compassion towards your problems at the next opportunity'

Then call her a slut or a skank the next time she contacts you about something. Don't help her or entertain her in any way. Remind her of this icident and that it was her behaviour that caused this and that if she wants a different outcome, she needs to apologize formally and correct her ways.

Don't let this slide. Hold her accountable.

rainbow_bro_bot · 2022-08-22T10:15:38+00:00

She's been on a feminist forum and learned a new word she doesn't understand the meaning of, so she's eager to force it in conversation to make use of it. How cute.

I have Asperger's and also can't stand certain loud environments either, you're certainly not the only one.

LearnDifferenceBot · 2022-08-22T02:42:53+00:00

Don't sweat it man, my take on this is that your sister has been on twitter to much and doesn't even know what that word means.

Don't let it get to you, just say something equally insulting to her like calling her fat, then sit back and watch the show.

TAPriceCTR · 2022-08-22T03:00:19+00:00

Say "no, not finding success in romance makes me an incel, but thank you so much for your wonderful display of how compassionate women are. It's enough to save me from my inceldom by driving me to MGTOW.

makosh22 · 2022-08-22T08:06:20+00:00

Oh my. So i am incel too even if i am woman and no autist.

For me my place is the best place on Earth. I am feeling fine to stay home here i have a lot of things to do! If i go to other places i feel uneasy, uncomfortable. Si three days is my maximum when i enjoy a trio and after that i want to go home. Even the paradise is nothing to compare with my home.

2022-08-22T12:44:20+00:00

Incel very very briefly meant what whoever came up with it wanted it to mean. Today it's just a catch-all term women, mostly feminists throw around when they want to disparage, shame or even slander men.

Eliot_Sontar · 2022-08-22T13:51:39+00:00

I'm guessing she's a thrice divorced next marriage or divorce coming up femcel

DouglasMilnes · 2022-08-21T23:57:12+00:00

A case of a stupid sister, not a men's rights issue.

SpookieDookie483 · 2022-08-22T05:12:19+00:00

Your sister is an idiot.

denisc9918 · 2022-08-22T05:55:31+00:00

Ahhh, genetics, gotta love'em.

You remind me a bit of Sheldon and his sister.. LOL

blaizken_420 · 2022-08-22T07:06:59+00:00

She's projecting.

khaste · 2022-08-22T08:13:06+00:00

probably just saw the term randomly on the net and now uses it in a negative way.

Most people who use that word dont even know what it means. Sort of shows it when she literally said it out loud

Nonbelieverjenn · 2022-08-22T10:42:10+00:00

Your sister spelled introvert incorrectly.

TheStumblingWolf · 2022-08-22T11:17:38+00:00

Once these buzzwords enter the mainstream vocabulary they loose all meaning.

D0wnVoteMe_PLZ · 2022-08-22T12:10:42+00:00

Introvert = Incel?

BeepBeepYeah7789 · 2022-08-22T12:53:00+00:00

She probably thought that "incel" meant "introvert".

Kinda like how many people think that "amateur" means "novice" or "beginner".

Neurosci84 · 2022-08-22T15:51:40+00:00

Women tend to use very exaggerated and inaccurate language. Don’t let it bother you. I’m the same way. Not a big fan of amusement parks. Love to be at home. Doesn’t make you an incel

Net_Flux3 · 2022-08-22T16:35:02+00:00

I know that you requested us not to insult her but I'm sorry your sister sounds really creepy. What her brother does with his genitals is none of her business and it's baffling that she thinks about your penis and what you do with it. I hope you stay careful and vigilant around her. Hopefully she doesn't have kids either, especially boys.

rick-p · 2022-08-22T18:54:12+00:00

You and I have autism. We see, process and operate in the world differently from NTs. I really hate that “incel” has sort of become an ableist insult to people with disabilities who interpret the world differently.

Separate_Natural_368 · 2022-08-22T04:14:51+00:00

As somebody who started going out more especially by myself, I can see where she’s coming from. You definitely meet more people and girls by literally standing outside for a long period of time. Sister calling you an incel is straight mean though

luckiestbee · 2022-08-22T02:54:58+00:00

rude & incorrect. Sounds introverted to me, and you're not a shut in, you don't even refuse to go outside.

AlarmedRazzmatazz451 · 2022-08-23T13:58:45+00:00

You probably are.

mechajutaro · 2022-08-21T23:01:36+00:00

Sounds like you've got more serious problems than not getting laid. Namely, some sort of social anxiety

pappo4ever · 2022-08-22T03:44:06+00:00

The problem is I'm autistic

Well she's right then. If you can articulate a post like you just did, you are just slightly autistic. No excuse for being tired or agitated.

the-lone-squid · 2022-08-22T00:36:57+00:00

What else are you supposed to do?

Chaelhitshismum · 2022-08-22T05:10:03+00:00

At the most one loses some social ability. But you can cure that by going out with friends.

NersesianFromTheD · 2022-08-22T05:35:14+00:00

Sounds like she has some serious issues

Random-Person934 · 2022-08-22T05:39:44+00:00

I know the term incel has been muddied up and means two things depending on who you talk to but here are the two defenitions.

Either a woman hating piece of trash

Or

A virgin that dosent want to be a virgin

However, recently Incels as a term has been used mainly to call misogynists and other people who have more extreme opinions on women.

If you are not a misogynist or someone who hates women then I don't see how the incel tag would really fit you because in that case you will not be an incel. If your sister is referring to your virginity who is she to tell you what to do? It's your life go about it at your own pace this isn't a dick measuring contest or Minecraft Speedrun. Relationships take time and should never be rushed or thirsted for without the proper knowledge and insight.

As long as you are responsible, have a means of supporting yourself if you can and is not a piece of garbage I'd say you are in the right here.

azaleawhisperer · 2022-08-22T06:05:35+00:00

I am not autistic but I can certainly understand how a six hour adventure would cause stress. You get tired and don't have a sense of control over your life.

I don't like large crowds of people and I don't like people to take my freedom, waste my time, and wear me out.

Your family should have known this would make you uncomfortable. Since they didn't, you have to take charge. Find out how long this is going to take, see of there is an exit for yourself. If none, politely decline, ask them to invite you for a more manageable outing next time.

Don't give up on the human race. We all need other people.

vhisic · 2022-08-22T06:10:03+00:00

i dont think she knows what that word actually means. I guess technically if your not having sex cause of it, but typically not used in that way.

lozinski · 2022-08-22T06:31:38+00:00

Next time leave after 3 hours, or whenever you feel uncomfortable. No point trying to adapt to her, if she is going to insult you anyhow.

AndyBrown65 · 2022-08-22T06:40:01+00:00

What she said shows a lack of compassion and empathy. No doubt she identifies as a feminist as well.

Sadly, women use sex related put downs, and they do that when they see sex as the only power they have over men and sex as the only value they see themselves as having to contribute.

You're an Incel. Translation - My pussy is my only value, so getting it has to be your highest accomplishment because I am the centre of the world, and since you can't get the thing that is only really valuable to me, you don’t have value. "I will insult your sexual ability because the ability to perform sex is the only store of value I understand and/or possess"

random_user_lol0 · 2022-08-22T06:49:40+00:00

I’m tired of everyone being labeled as a “incel” in society.Like how does a person’s looks or personality make someone an incel?

2022-08-22T07:08:30+00:00

Even if that is true why do you care??

silly_birb_Banned · 2022-08-22T07:50:49+00:00

Well travelling around is often a waste because it's just doing a queue after another queue.

Amusement park are the worst since you get 5 min of ride after 1-2 hours of waiting in line.

2022-08-22T07:54:36+00:00

Humiliation for insisting on marriage is an example of violence against mens.

MAGA-Latino · 2022-08-22T09:09:18+00:00

Maybe she's just concerned about you and wants you to get out and enjoy life a little. I also think that not leaving your house will prevent you from having a social life.

oliver19232 · 2022-08-22T10:16:55+00:00

Wouldn't that be called Volcel? (Voluntary Celibate)

Uncle_Touchy1987 · 2022-08-22T10:32:54+00:00

It’s a cheap insult that has lost most meaning.

Cassandra_Moon · 2022-08-22T10:36:04+00:00

This is infuriating, but it's also a sign that the term is losing potency. Once it becomes removed enough from its original meaning, we can appropriate it for ourselves, my incels.

guachumalakegua · 2022-08-22T10:55:38+00:00

Fuck that bitch, don’t allow her in your house anymore, she doesn’t want to be in an “incel house” does she?

Does she have her own home.

WeEatBabies · 2022-08-22T11:06:33+00:00

Do not let other people shame you into doing something you don't want to do!

wiseguy187 · 2022-08-22T11:23:15+00:00

? And are you

CommissarSteel56 · 2022-08-22T11:38:19+00:00

I know this is kind of petty but, if she ever says that to you again correct her. Basically have a small pocket thesaurus/ dictionary on hand or use your phone to show her the definition of introvert.

AldrichIsDaddy · 2022-08-22T11:48:26+00:00

Probably not the only reason she called you an incel

Working-Zucchini1205 · 2022-08-22T12:33:54+00:00

Sleep with your suster to prove u not incel👌

2022-08-22T13:16:09+00:00

Then she said that. You don't have to take it personally

friedmozzarellachix · 2022-08-22T14:51:05+00:00

Have you tried CBD or cannabis etc? A light dose when you start feeling anxious can relax you and usually buys my partner another hour so we can get out within the next 45 minutes if we get stuck.

caolex · 2022-08-22T15:08:12+00:00

Toxic is toxic, regardless of if their family. If she does know what kind of insult that is and intended it that way, she is a bitch.

TekatoZikame2 · 2022-08-22T15:20:16+00:00

That was the time for a little reality check for her to make her look stupid.

A simple rhetorical question like: "Or maybe some people have personality disorders or are autistic and don't perceive the world like you do and don't enjoy the same things? Namecalling like that makes you sound like a bigot".

Your sister sounds like she's brainwashed by extreme left so you gotta beat them at their own game. Using a few words like "bigot", "racist" and "intolerant" against them scares them and puts them in their place. :s

hello38r84e · 2022-08-22T16:20:41+00:00

Yeah lots of people are using incel incorrectly. If you want to have sex or date someone so badly but can't then that is an incel. If you don't give a shit about women or sex then that's the opposite of an incel.

2022-08-22T16:44:49+00:00

Yeah, but if you go on the street then you are a problem...

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2022-08-22T17:23:51+00:00

Is your sister a leftist feminist? Because what she said was very ablist and discriminatory to you. She’s not entitled to your time.

aigars2 · 2022-08-22T22:02:01+00:00

Ah the new buzzword used when you want to be mean or something

Neither_Course1424 · 2022-08-23T18:04:29+00:00

What a bitch smh.

Title	My sister said staying in my house all day makes me an incel
Author	Vallahaiye
Upvotes	451
Comments	203
Date	August 21, 2022 10:13 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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