Anti-mens rights feminists ask why men don’t talk about their feelings, and then downplay mens experiences every single time they do… And then they blame the patriarchy.

ReWildingOfMen · 2022-10-09T11:05:32+00:00

When men opens up, the same feminists be like 1. Women are not therapists for you peoples. 2. That's cause of your masculinity.(and blame on then) 3. Negates their experience. 4. "Women has to fear being kill3d. Thats your problem" goes on trying to prove they are oppressed more!

WingsofSky · 2022-10-09T11:03:17+00:00

Yeah. They want you to open up, so they can kick you. lol

Lorry_Al · 2022-10-09T22:37:49+00:00

Woman: You should talk more

Man: talks more

Woman: I don't like what you're saying...

Man: talks less

Woman: Why aren't you talking to me?

Bascome · 2022-10-09T19:50:24+00:00

"You can't force me to perform emotional labor for you" is the best one I have heard.

ExMuzzy · 2022-10-09T11:27:50+00:00

They tell you to open up, then make it about themselves, how it’s actually worse for women, explain how any discrimination men face is actually misogyny and then tell you that fixing women’s issues will fix men’s.

rabel111 · 2022-10-09T21:43:31+00:00

Feminists are not interested in men's feelings. They have weaponised men's silence as a tool to demean and belittle men and boys, so when men and boys do speak up, they are threatened, and react aggressively.

Feminists are most comfortable femsplaining masculinity to men and boys, as a standard of behaviour towards women, a gynocentric framing of masculinity that is not only devoid of male voices, but relies on the silencing of men and boys.

Alarming-Abrocoma625 · 2022-10-09T16:50:08+00:00

I love the invisible patriarchy.

Apex fallacy is a fucking nightmare for these people.

Sure, the top .000001% of people are men, so that must mean EVERY MAN IS PRIVILEGED!!!

Most of us are fucking poor wage slavers

philhalo66 · 2022-10-09T17:27:30+00:00

abba and preach said it best, the minute a man opens up she responds with "you fucking loser!!"

ReWildingOfMen · 2022-10-09T11:17:31+00:00

Yup. Every single time.

F/ why don't men talk about their feelings?

M/ Im filled with rage and sorrow about my friend who killed himself after false allegations from his wife who was leaving him and denying him access to his kids.

F/ what you're an angry men that hates all women!?!?

I'm sure she left for a good reason, WOMEN DONT ACT LIKE THAT YOU DISGUSTING MAN PIG ONLY MEN DO BAD STUFF MMKAY!?!??!??!??!

M/ okay...

F/ so any OTHER feelings you want to talk about?

M/ I think I need to be somewhere else...

*Now I KNOW not all women are like this, but a LOT are, especially when backed up by a narrative that gives their abusive ways full permission. And my overhwelming experience with women (which I do NOT let define my opinion of women as a whole in any way) is that they have ways used my wounds and pains and sorrows as a literal means of hurting me as deeply as they can.

Thank God for those good ones that have not!*

An example of this, is one lass I was seeing in San Fran for a while.

Funnily enough my therapist who I guess seduced me.

I told her that my mum use to say "you're just like your father" to hurt me.

So this woman who was a trained therapist tried it a few times.... "Wow you're really like your father aren't you" 🙄

Luckily that no longer bothered me at that point. But the fact she tried playing that card!?!??

NSFW Nevermind that I have since remembered that my dad was raping and torturing me throughout my childhood. And I suffered all the worse to protect my mother and brothers from him!?!

What kind of dark and twisted person does this!?!! (Narcisisists, AND women wholly identified with a fundamentally narcisisist ideology)

You're just like your father..... Pffffff

Baboon_Stew · 2022-10-09T15:21:25+00:00

In another subreddit, a vetaran with PTSD posted about his situation where a new gf asked him about his experience in war. He told her honestly and he hasn't heard from her for about 3 days now.

hottake_toothache · 2022-10-09T12:48:33+00:00

They want men to express feeling that they want to hear. Anything they don't want to hear, and those "toxic" men need to shut up.

Training-Rich5057 · 2022-10-09T17:38:18+00:00

These demons are retarded! They know, they just like to live in lies. Pathetic.

Mikeferdy · 2022-10-09T23:39:06+00:00

Talking about your feelings requires you to be vulnerable. To be vulnerable, you need to show your weakness and short comings. Showing your weakness and short comings exposes you to possible manipulation, especially when you don't have an existing support group.

They know this. That's why we share only to those we really trust. Unfortunately, some men don't have people to trust.

BroBroDaDoDo · 2022-10-09T18:59:42+00:00

The "anti men's rights femenists" was redundant. Could've just said "femenists"

2022-10-09T15:03:44+00:00

Logical fallacies hit hard are great at playing on the heart strings of others and are pleasant to bigots. This is why they view MRA subreddits as misogynist cesspools, but that’s more projection on their end anyway.

2022-10-09T18:26:04+00:00

The nail on the goddamn head.

TracyMorganFreeman · 2022-10-09T15:33:54+00:00

Gaslighting and special pleading.

They don't actually care. Feminism has opportunistic and hateful people at the helm.

Qualanqui · 2022-10-09T20:28:00+00:00

It's crazy how orwellian feminism is, I was thinking about it the other day and terms like "toxic masculinity" and "patriarchy" are perfect examples of doublethink, with these terms men can be both not at fault but still at fault at the same time in any given situation.

Like I saw a post the other day where a guy let a lady with a screaming kid in front of him and his wife at the supermarket only for the lady to pull a swifty and call in another kid with a loaded up trolley, so the wife went off berating the guy and calling him a wuss. And even though the guy was (obviously) deeply hurt by his wife's slurs, all through the comments no one supported him using patriarchy as their excuse for why she went off on him and called him a wuss.

So the guy was obviously not at fault yet a good chunk of the commenters were telling him he was at fault because of patriarchy.

aigars2 · 2022-10-09T19:25:19+00:00

Convenient

NightRespawn · 2022-10-09T21:41:07+00:00

Feelings are more expensive than people give credit. I believe in equal rights, so getting met half way in that goal is all that’s required for society. Instead of demonizing each other and pretending the moral high ground doesn’t shift with the times.

Reddit-perma-banNo4 · 2022-10-10T08:22:13+00:00

Modern feminists will blame men for commiting suicide and yet when we try to get help we're mocked, belittled and made to feel small and weak for being fkn human and in the same breath say men are emotionally unavailable and are most definitely incapable of ever being so..

Brandwein · 2022-10-10T11:18:16+00:00

Police know how it works so they shout "open, fire!" everytime they remember their wifes.

delta-whisky · 2022-10-09T21:28:19+00:00

All they do is drink Starbucks, vape, and lie

Maddog_The_Madlad · 2022-10-09T22:37:44+00:00

I still remember how those demonic, hateful morons responded to JP’s tears. I’m wondering if I should just commit suicide at this point. I broke down one time and all my family and friends that were there that had always told me to show emotions were like “Get yourself together! Look at yourself”. It was literally the only goddamned time I ever showed emotions. Glad I opened my eyes to how the feminism movement truly is Jesus Christ.

2022-10-10T14:44:39+00:00

Link? This sounds like nonsense.

YetAnotherCommenter · 2022-10-11T08:46:43+00:00

If they had even the slightest bit of self-awareness they'd realize that they are part of the so-called "patriarchy" - and quite a big part of it, too.

Pecuthegreat · 2022-10-09T18:57:24+00:00

It's not just a men's things tho. Men might do it more on average but everybody from childhood experience should know there's a limit to how open u can be, if you don't want ridicule.

NetNeutralitee · 2022-10-09T11:21:32+00:00

Feminist groups are Very supportive of men being in therapy to discuss their feelings.

There are thousands of feminist articles written about this.

ketsa3 · 2022-10-09T16:41:03+00:00

Feminism is the daily obsession here.

Bye.

ANUS_CONE · 2022-10-10T03:19:39+00:00

Those women are not open to this perspective. You have to ignore them and keep letting society play out. You’re not going to win an argument with them.

Beneficial-Tomato-99 · 2022-10-10T07:32:02+00:00

Any good books on this ideology about oppressive patriarchy? I know some of it is related to derivative CRT stuff, fighting against power differentials. These days, many have become so toxic with identity ideology and the victim marathon.

Tiny-Cup-9122 · 2022-11-01T20:53:32+00:00

Let's face it it they don't know simple vocabulary. Examples : Patriachy, Equality, Neutrality, Toxic Feminism

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