All of you guys who judge women for having casual sex, are you ever trying to get it?

2022-11-21T10:09:38+00:00

Well - not since I met my missus.

Before then I did enough of it to realise that it’s really not my thing.

As a result, I wasn’t big on dating women who I knew had a heap of casual sex - I didn’t wanna be another notch on the bedpost, I wanted a girlfriend.

OrdinaryFarmer · 2022-11-21T09:45:55+00:00

It's not about having casual sex once or twice, it's about having it with 30-50+ men. Did you see the tinder post of the 26 year old girl who had casual sex with 37 men in 188 days? That's who guys are talking about.

Men and women are different. Women can get casual sex nearly as easy as breathing, a man getting it needs to do something right, charm, attractiveness, money, status etc. Women are wired and likely to be hypergamous, she is gonna crave that Chad that didn't commit every waking moment. A guy can fuck a hot pocket after a supermodel and still sleep soundly at night. Being able to get casual sex is a privilege that ALL women have, but very few men have.

tienik_nn · 2022-11-21T09:56:55+00:00

Hmm imo men and women and not same and don't value same things in relationships.

And it's not hypocrisy if you consider men and women aren't same and don't want the same thing from relationship

Due-Lie-8710 · 2022-11-21T10:11:31+00:00

It's not about having casual sex it's about having too many sexyal partners haybeing Said can't really call it unfair or hypocritical some women support sex work but would never date sex workers or consumers of sex work , some women are broke but think they deserve a rich guy, some women are fat but don't date fat guys and on almost anytime they are called our for it people tell them their preference is justified so why is his different,

you can have your standard and not adhere to that standards because its up to people to decide whether they want to date you or not , you as a woman have a right to casual sex but it doesn't mean a guy should date you regardless of his body count because in retrospect you aren't owed a relationship or understanding ,so you can only set your terms not the other person's terms

TheRealGgsjags · 2022-11-21T09:37:04+00:00

A lock that opens with every key is worthless.

A key that opens every lock is priceless.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2022-11-21T09:42:32+00:00

2022-11-21T09:51:09+00:00

Look at my comment history from past 3 days and you'll find my answer to your question.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-11-21T09:55:50+00:00

Have in the past but am not right now.

I don't understand this obsession with men and women having to be identical or else they are hypocrites. There's literal bisexual women who will not date bisexual men. Men and women are not the same.

Men are more than welcome to pursue casual sex and still have a standard that they wont commit to a promiscuous women long-term.

The only thing that matters in the context of dating standards, the single only thing that matters, is whether or not you can attract someone that meets those standards. That's it.

NICHIJOU2411 · 2022-11-21T10:40:51+00:00

Nope. Do you ask this question cause you are in the part of women who have causal sex?

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John_Oakman · 2022-11-21T10:21:49+00:00

Doesn't matter but not in the way you think it is.

If a male is a fuckboi who slut shame then he's a hypocrite. If he's a virgin then he's just bitter and salty. If he's religious then it's religion bad, if he's secular then he's just regular misogynistic.

It could be argued that there's no justification for slut shaming, but then in that case just state it openly in the first place.

2022-11-21T10:43:28+00:00

It is because i choose to not seek casual sex that i put the same standards on my future partner. It’s a value i share and I won’t change it. Similar experience and values is very important to me.

N_Count_Council · 2022-11-21T10:53:50+00:00

Yes, actually I got a lot of it. And I wouldn't date a high n woman because why would I, as a man with options?

Since I have options and that's my dealbreaker, I get what I want. Women pretty much never have it as a dealbreaker and it's not been an issue, so it works out.

Gari_305 · 2022-11-21T10:57:04+00:00

Men and women aren’t built the same when it comes to sex. Also it isn’t hypocrisy for men to go after 304 to have sex then find a good girl for LTR.

During sex most men don’t have to take a woman’s feelings nor mannerisms under consideration thus she can be as wild and obnoxious as possible but as long as he gets his he’s good. However when a man wants a woman for LTR then those mannerisms, personality traits and emotions comes into focus because he has to spend time, attention and energy dealing with a woman in a LTR scenario.

Thus should he choose wrong and goes out with a hoe, he’ll be dealing with a woman in which it will manifest into a “battery effect” type of relationship in which he’ll be drained emotionally, mentally, and some cases financially because he choose a woman who herself isn’t right because the x amount of sex partners she had in the past reflects who she is in the present aka the amount of sex partners a woman has raw dog shows thru in her mannerisms, behavior and persona.

This is why instinctually men avoid hoes for LTR but we love them for sexual encounters.

In short us men like women need to realize that we can’t have our cake and eat it too but pick a lane and stick with it.

Clean_Mastodon5285 · 2022-11-21T10:57:43+00:00

Would you buy a cow for full price with life long interest when other guys got the milk from that cow for free?

Title	All of you guys who judge women for having casual sex, are you ever trying to get it?
Author	AGalWithThoughts
Upvotes	2
Comments	42
Date	November 21, 2022 9:33 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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