How are you all feeling about passport bros

arrouk · 2022-12-09T20:30:08+00:00

It's nothing new, it's just happening in enough numbers now to affect the loud minorities.

If people can find similar values in other cultures, then good luck to them in also finding love.

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-12-09T22:41:49+00:00

If you ever travel you'll appreciate that the female travellers are having a lot of sex.

Go have a look then come back and tell me who should be getting the shaming on this.

Not men.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2022-12-09T20:48:31+00:00

If a guy has the means to move to her country and build a life there, it seems workable. It's too risky to bring her back to your home country. There's the risk she's just looking for a green card, but also too often western feminism rubs off on them and they'll turn on you. Much harder to find a local woman who has resisted it, but if you find one, at least you know she disagrees with it and can resist it.

cistacea · 2022-12-10T05:38:00+00:00

Personally I'm an ex Patriat / immigrant in Central America and I'm always trying to talk my dude friends who are struggling in the United States to moving overseas. I think there are so many people that are unappreciated/lacking perspective in their country of origin and would really benefit to get out there and see what the world has to offer.

Unfortunately though, I think most of the men who are struggling the most in the United States are the exact same men who don't have the resources to make an international move. So that's kind of a difficult situation.

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-12-10T01:12:21+00:00

The thing is if a guy has enough money and professional skills to be able to switch countries and build a new life and find a wife and pay for both of them and build a family... why couldn’t he find a good woman to do that with at home? Maybe, just maybe, because they aren’t there any more. The men doing this have their shit together or they would never be able to start a new life because they wouldn’t get permission to stay in the country they move to. And the women want these guys to stay home and “accept me as I am”.

sudev29 · 2022-12-10T14:20:01+00:00

Don't men and women do this?

Illustrious-Spare-30 · 2022-12-09T19:49:55+00:00

It's a response to the family court systems of western nations to me more than a movement based on western women. The absolutely logical conclusion to the lack of options to build functional lasting families in western countries. The courts destroy you if you divorce, and western women know this. They take advantage and build off of men. The amount of women willing to get pregnant just to get on benefits is an easy example. Not to mention the lack of family building qualities of the women. So looking at it logically, the dangers of building a family in the western matriarchies are real and terrible for men. It's not even worth it to build your life here. It actually makes more sense to just get resources and money here then live the rest of your life in a country that doesn't destroy men in divorce and marriage qualities in the women are encouraged. I mean what is the point of truly being even an average male participant in a country that doesn't allow you to build a family??? It makes it impossible to build a real lasting opportunity at life. Even using the false allegations, constant misandry, and shaming of men is enough to question staying and building your life in the west. Really what is the point of staying??? It's harder to find reasons to stay in the west than leave, especially with the technology and infrastructure gaps that are closing in the east. After having gone through a divorce myself here and having everything taken from me while serving in the military, if it weren't for my kids being in the states I would have happily left years ago. Think about that they use your children as a way to trap you! They can't use the promise of a good life like before. Now the US is finding ways of actively trapping its citizens with debts, child custody/support, and limiting second citizenship. I can't wait to leave.

Over_Ad_7654 · 2022-12-10T05:07:43+00:00

Literally discussed this with my bf a few days ago. He's in the US and I'm from the Philippines. The reason why he mostly prefer Asians over western women is because of our values. Women who complain about passport bros like to pretend that they care about the "poor women" these men pick up as if the only reason they date them is to have a traditional wife to keep as their maid and pick up after them when that is not true at all. To be seen as this weak fragile thing that foreign men easily take advantage of is honestly offensive as if we can't think for ourselves at all. And the fact that they say that it's only the sleezy men who leave the country and pick up wives from somewhere else while simultaneously complaining about it just reeks of femcel energy because they can't handle the thought that men would rather leave the country than choose them.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-12-09T23:31:50+00:00

I think is great should have happened sooner. Men need to wake up.

IceCorrect · 2022-12-09T22:46:21+00:00

Women in west have problem with this only beacuse they dont have options to go for a forgin men in richer country. Women have only problem with this beacuse they can't do it themself, ive seen this already.

Magical-Hummus · 2022-12-10T12:08:31+00:00

What about cool aid?

youarecharminsoft · 2022-12-10T12:46:36+00:00

I dated a women from another country… but she was domesticated and it was a nightmare

Square-Ship-9609 · 2022-12-10T18:41:53+00:00

As long as there's no coercion, nobody should have a problem. A conservative American man dating a conservative Vietnamese woman isn't any different from a career-oriented Vietnamese woman wanting to date a progressive American man.

Both parties are seeking what they believe should make them happy. As long as they treat their partners with respect and love, there isn't anything wrong in it.

heeroena · 2022-12-10T01:52:53+00:00

Don't worry about passport bros you have bigger problems. For starters assuming you are a guy asking other guys how they "feel" about something instead of what they think shows the horrible effects of being raised in a gynocentric social order where you prioritise feelings over logic and reason. Fix that

WeEatBabies · 2022-12-10T15:00:36+00:00

It's just a slang term by western feminists trying to shame you into marrying them, later paying alimony and child support. (Back to the plantation slave!)

And always remember, sex tourism is ok when women do it : https://www.travelcoterie.com/yes-african-sex-tourism-is-a-thing/ It's even made SNL!

The hypocrisy with these feminists is ridiculous!

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2022-12-10T04:03:24+00:00

I have had nothing but bad luck with American women. I mean I've seduced and bed-ed gazillions, that's easy. Relationship? That's where the trouble starts. Women from other countries have a much more traditional acceptance of the natural male female dynamic. My .02

IllustraSeris · 2022-12-10T12:33:53+00:00

I guess Feminist stance on that is : "Eww you just want sex tourism, you pig. Also, its (asian/african/whatever that's not looks like me) sexualisation and fetichization, that's gross. You're manipulating her."

mazeprovider · 2022-12-10T08:06:07+00:00

The west has been consumed with consumer culture for too long they've given up their traditional values for a corporate number. The women no longer care for the unique gifts of mother hood but endure themselves with what they can buy and sell their years to a company and call it freedom. Other parts of the world don't have the luxuries of the west and therfore its temptations to sell off their traditions. For that simple fact, western men who still believe int he family unit have no other choice but the find foreign women. It will only get worse, soon western women will only have revolving relationships as the men who form real lasting families will seek out traditional women. An age of old bitter women is coming.

nineteenletterslong_ · 2022-12-09T21:43:01+00:00

third world women are poorer and easier to bribe into marriage or a relationship. i've yet to see any evidence that the laws in any third world country are better for men and i've seen plenty that shows they're worse.

other than this, men and women are the same everywhere

2022-12-10T09:10:58+00:00

If they’re tired of the western scenery (literally) or it’s for a fun time, I can understand.

If you’re talking about guys trying to wife up a young woman in Thailand or Brazil, I don’t get it.

Maybe places like Japan and South Korea are different, but South American women seem ready to ditch men at the same rate as American/Canadian/European women.

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-12-10T11:24:08+00:00

Well good luck to them, but Eddie Murphy doesn't think something like that would work.

ReflexionSolutions · 2022-12-10T16:37:03+00:00

I think there's nothing wrong about it. The basics of creating a good long term relationship is finding a partner who shares similar views and values. If such a person is one in ten thousand in you home country, but one in a hundred in another country, it makes sense to go where it's going to be easier to find that person.

Dangerous-Owl2369 · 2023-01-22T00:24:29+00:00

I lived in Thailand for 8 years and taught math and English at a University. I then got in a relationship with a study abroad student from the U.S.. We eventually got married and she convinced me to move to her home country in the U.S.
So, I left a great job and life living in Thailand to be in the U.S. with her and once there she cheated on me. So I filed a divorce and she lied to the lawyers about abuse, and ruined me financially. I treated her like an angel and she was the abusive one. The entire experience really traumatized me, and I truly believe there is something wrong with western women now and I won't take the risk.
It's been 3 years I've been stuck in the U.S. trying to build up my finances in this god forsaken country, and I swear I will never get with a western girl for the rest of my life, especially from the U.S. It was the biggest mistake of my life, and I can't wait to start dating again once I move back to Asia. I guess that makes me a passport bro now for the rest of my life.

WumboAcademy · 2023-02-23T19:25:26+00:00

Passport Bros seems like a niceer sounding way of saying "I partake in sex toursim" which do you I guess but do not lie to me. I doubt they are looking for wives.

Title	How are you all feeling about passport bros
Author	ForeignSmell
Upvotes	55
Comments	48
Date	December 9, 2022 7:19 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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