32, 6'2", 280 lbs, 25% bf (navy), BP 305, SQ 355, DL 375 Married 2 kids 7,9

Haven't read any sidebar yet, have read some of Steels posts and posted on here once before.

I'll start off OYS that i have a lot of weight to lose. I've been hitting the gym though and gained a lot of strength in the last year and women notice.

TLDR I'm going to university as well as working full time + a second job. I've made a few women friends at school and my wife is threatened by them. One is a PT and offered a free session with me to improve my squat form because I've been getting back pain (Hip mobility being the culprit). I told my wife and she was mad jelly. Wife wants me to agree to not form friendships with women. I'm not agreeing to that and she's pretty upset about it, picking fights and sabotaging fun times through the holidays. I love her but she's being a pain in the ass. She says if I don't agree to not form friendships with women she wants an open relationship, and I told her I do not agree to that and would rather be divorced than in an open relationship. It's a bit of a red flag for me that she goes there.

Acta non Dicta I guess...