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The Pandemic of Lonely Men Not Women’s Problem

Kagedeah

February 18, 2023
68 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://partnersinfire.com/lifestyle/opinion/the-pandemic-of-lonely-men-not-womens-problem/
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Title The Pandemic of Lonely Men Not Women’s Problem
Author

Kagedeah

Upvotes 68
Comments 19
Date February 18, 2023 9:27 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/115s7u6/the_pandemic_of_lonely_men_not_womens_problem/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/the-pandemic-of-lonely-men-not-womens-problem.1152171
https://theredarchive.com/post/1152171
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Comments

[–]BetterOffCamping 80 points81 points82 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Particularly disingenuous is this little gem:

It’s far harder to leave a terrible relationship when kids are involved, and men know this. They want women to be trapped with them.

The opposite is true. Once a man has a child, he's at her mercy. No matter what the circumstances, she doesn't merely get out scott free, but she gets to live off her ex husband's labor for the next 20 years.

How exactly does that benefit men?

My personal experience in two marriages was that I paid for nearly everything and I had to do half the housework in addition to the traditional "men's work" of repairing everything, all the yard work, shovelling snow, taking out the trash, and supplying no less than one 2 week trip per year.

If these women want me to "do better" than that, they can go take care of themselves. I want nothing to do with them.

[–]Nice-Neighborhood730 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it's important you set boundaries with women. The fact that you say you are doing everything comes across like they are expecting you to do just that. If you feel that it's all you, then put your foot down and say what you are saying to all of us! Once you set your boundaries up. They either accept them or not.

You see, when we allow others to push us around, they will. You see, with men, I was always the people pleaser. Till I got fed up and thought, what do I value the most? To be heard and to be appreciated. My ex-bf didn't listen to the wisdom I provided him about a boarder he took in that rented from him. This guy was irresponsible because he missed his appointment, and my gut said don't rent the room to him. He didn't listen, which showed me my thoughts were not heard, plus this guy disregarded him. He was selling the house, and his renter had to get out. He was a lot of trouble. A headache, and I learned that if he listens to what I have to say and it helps him, then he's validating me.

I had a previous boyfriend who listened to me, and sure enough, good things came his way. It was because he listened, and I think he also needs to learn what boundaries he crossed with me. I won't put up with it anymore. Respect is a two-way street.

I think these women walked all over you from the sounds of it, and you're sick and tired of it. But you have to put your foot down. otherwise, you're going to be miserable if you allow them to take you for granted. We all have to learn not to put up with the things that frustrate us. Don't settle. She must respect you, so think about what you are saying or doing?

My sister had five kids. Her husband wanted her to work. She loved staying at home. It's funny but both our parents worked and my sister's preferred to be stay at home mom's while their husband's worked. I think because they all wanted their kids to turn out better, then we didn't have our mom there. So it's like extremes.

I honestly believe that men and women should discuss beforehand what their expectations are before they get married. I have learned from their messed up situations and I am glad I did!

[–]Ok-Translator2294 49 points50 points51 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But apparently we are at fault if women can't marry because there aren't enough "economically attractive" men

[–]PriestKingofMinos 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They want equal pay but a partner who earns more.

[–]OldEgalitarianMRA 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This is an article about a reddit post on TwoX. What a waste of 4 min of my life.

[–]denisc9918 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for saving my 4 mins... :-)

[–]KazukiYahashi 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for saving my time.

[–]PriestKingofMinos 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I read though the thread and it was even worse than I imagined. I can totally understand women being indifferent to this issue and just not caring, but I really can't understand the ones who express such extreme and open hostility towards it.

[–]External_Start_1815 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All these bs articles by female journalists r basically just "n-no I'm not lonely, YOU are" before they go feed their 10 cats lol

[–]TheNewMasterofTime 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I have been warned off of reading the article.

But as I often point out both men's and women's reported happiness (at least in the U.S. and apparently Westernized nations) is at an all time low.

Its been a rather dramatic drop especially for women from the 1970s and that coincides with feminism achieving pretty much all its policy goals that were meant to create gender outcomes that still have not panned out.

I don't think the drop in happiness is coincidental to that. And I think every lonely man indicates there is also a lonely woman out there...and lonely people are not happy people.

They also say it takes two to tango.

[–]LettuceBeGrateful 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"That issue faced by black people is a black people problem." Sounds bad, right?

The TwoX's with going out of their way to not care about men is repulsive. They don't have to work on fixing the problem, of course, but in that case, just live your life with your own priorities, instead of constantly riling up the largest women's forum on the internet to treat men like second-class citizens.

For the record, if things were swapped and women's loneliness had tripled in the past decade, I'd feel awful for them and want to engage in the topic, because empathy is a basic part of being human.

Also, blaming men again for the pro-life agenda when half it's supporters are women is mind-numbingly stupid. But when your sole priority is drawing battle lines between men and women, stupidity is probably the skill getting the most practice anyway.

[–]Efficient_Creme_3067 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s a lot of words to simply say “It’s not me, it’s you”.

I also find it hilarious when she wrote “women don’t need men, as they can financially support themselves”. The irony of this, is the vast majority of women get this “financial support” through things like government funds and sex work. Both mainly support my men’s money. Lol

[+][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Where did you get the stats that the vast majority of women either get money from government or whore themselves? I can't find anything like that

[–]Asrealasrealcanbe 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

yeah i never expected many women to have empathy for men anyway. most of them are self absorbed narcissist anyway.

[+][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Narcissistic personality disorder affects more males than females, "

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662

[–]skates_sift_heads 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Based on number of diagnoses. NPD has one of the lowest diagnostic percentage. How many narcissists do we all encounter in everyday life, and think about how many are diagnosed. Probably 0.00001% of them. NPD is one of the most therapy-averse conditions, so you won't even see them in a psychiatrist's office, and it's one of the only conditions that can actively hide itself. The real answer is no one knows.

[–]antifeminist3 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminists are still talking about that old data which showed men are having less sex than women. You will notice they conflate sex with a relationship for men. Newer data:

How Many Sexual Partners Did Men and Women Have in 2021

You will see that women are more likely to be sexless over a 1-4 year period and for more than 4 years it is basically equal. So it's not longer a matter for feminists to laugh about.

[–]ImplodedPotatoSalad 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course, its never women's problem. Unless they could benefit and its not happening - then it is their problem XD

[–]Smacktardius 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Couldn't read the whole thing, just another man hating article, blaming men for anything & everything.

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