What is the best way to meet women post-divorced in your 40s?

Alatornio · 2023-02-22T21:21:28+00:00

At your age dating will be easier than you think. You will have your pick.

Just try it.

Were all going to be dead someday. I dont care what anyone says, you can hit on any women you want to. You wont be on your death bed saying oh I wish I never asked that babe out she hurt my feelings..... if she says no guess what she already forgot about it the next day. You might not, but just dont sweat it.

The older guys with nice women are not all rich, some just took the shot.

Except me Im a loser.

playerknowmore · 2023-02-22T23:04:22+00:00

Did you consider yourself a six before you got married? Because you are old enough to be established and should earn enough to provide. These are qualities that up your ranking.

Most men in your age range are in the no-relationship camp. So if you offer a hint of a relationship you can have your pick. The question is how much baggage are you willing to deal with this time around? If you are going to date divorced women I'd avoid those who left. Unless her husband had an affair or was abusive I'd steer clear of women who have proven they can leave.

Complicatedlogic · 2023-02-23T04:01:25+00:00

Start by not rating yourself a 6. You have value beyond whatever you’re looking at unless you’re a shit person, and you don’t sound like a shit person. Just saying, a self confidence goes a long way my brother. Best of luck.

dday_throwaway3 · 2023-02-22T18:44:08+00:00

Start with Troy Francis' YouTube channel. He's divorced and late 40s.

derelictherds · 2023-02-22T20:43:52+00:00

I'm a fairly average looking dude and have dated ~40 women from Tinder, Match, and Zoosk over the past 3 years. I spent about a year of that time in committed relationships(met both of those women on Tinder). There's no secret to it and IMO most PUA/dating coach material is rubbish. Why not give Tinder a go? The free tier service is functional enough and they offer discounts for Gold tier service fairly regularly (Gold gives you unlimited swipes and allows you to see who liked you and to set your location)

Edit: I'm also mid-40s

FunkyTownMascot · 2023-02-22T19:11:13+00:00

What's your financial situation like? You know all women cost money.

Title	What is the best way to meet women post-divorced in your 40s?
Author	rookiepatchaut
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Date	February 22, 2023 6:37 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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