q4a any low libido people here? how is dating for you?

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-09T01:13:19+00:00

Mine is somewhat low. It benefits me because I’m not thirsty and lowering my standards to get a nut.

It’s benefitted me in that all the women I’ve dated and fucked have been attractive, objectively.

I can also go months without dating and sex and not really care.

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-03-08T21:07:38+00:00

Man here and Ime, libido varies depending on circumstances. When it comes to not having much luck with dating, LL isn't a major cause necessarily. Even when you're not actively dating I still think it's wise to present yourself as a potential partner, even if it can feel like you're masquerading. People will assume certain values and treat you differently depending on your SMV and how you go about displaying that, no matter how you feel about your personal libido.

SicParvisMagnaaa · 2023-03-08T21:32:43+00:00

I suffered from LL in the past and it hurt my dating life but mostly in an indirect way. My LL was due to having low testosterone levels (very common reason for LL in men) which basically led to having very little motivation to accomplish anything in my life. All major aspects of my life suffered especially my fitness, career and mental health. I also put myself out there less in environments where I could even meet women, so having less success in dating was a natural consequence of all that.

DangerousAmoeba4236 · 2023-03-08T20:59:17+00:00

LL woman here. I find this debate sub interesting, since it’s also about gender roles, feminists vs. anti-feminists, evopsych, etc. But I don’t date. Don’t really feel the need to.

While I find women more aesthetically pleasing, and I feel more compatible with them emotionally, I don’t really know if I desire them sexually. I’ve never had the opportunity to explore that since women who want to monogamously date other women are so rare. I’ve dated and sexually experimented with men and…I didn’t like it. Can’t ever see myself with a man.

BioNipple · 2023-03-08T22:48:41+00:00

It doesn't exist anymore. Not until I fix my libido that is.

I was once as excited happy as a bunny though.

hhhhhhikkmvjjhj · 2023-03-08T22:52:43+00:00

I started eating some mood stabilizers a year ago, though I get matches and have resources I have absolutely no interest in following through on any of it.

Fusiontron · 2023-03-09T01:18:27+00:00

It is a paradox. For myself, I relate much more to women's experience of being single-it is fine (albeit not ideal/what I envisioned) as long as I am pursuing work and hobbies of value to me and I maintain my social connections. On the other hand, I felt if I had a higher libido then I would actually be much more likely to get into a relationship because I would feel compelled to take more risks in pursuing women?

Substantial_Video560 · 2023-03-09T07:34:36+00:00

As an MGTOW I don't date or do relationships so it's fine. Always had a low libido/testerone which suits me well.

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harmonica2 · 2023-03-09T01:56:50+00:00

What counts as low?

Historical-System972 · 2023-03-09T03:32:31+00:00

So Q4W then.

oooo020201lfl · 2023-03-09T19:08:30+00:00

If you’re a man and you’re low libido you just have low testosterone

Title	q4a any low libido people here? how is dating for you?
Author	eye_fuck
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Comments	19
Date	March 8, 2023 8:27 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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