I just wanted to say I’m quite new to FDS and seeing all of the post help me be strong enough to leave an emotionally draining 3 year situationship. He told me he didn’t want a gf bc of ‘trauma’ and I tried to do everything to make him change his mind. Yes, a pickmesha. After the hurtful words, the disrespect, basically begging him to see him, I had enough. He’s been left on read for 3 days now and no contact has begun.

I know I sound pathetic but reading FDS gave me the strength to stop this nonsense, and walk away. My heart is still feeling a bit confused on if I did the right thing, but my mind is telling me I did. Thank you to all you strong women out there who will never tolerate treatment like this. I hope that I can be like you one day, and learn from this shitty experience.