What if I want to be alone forever ?

Solaresa · 2020-11-06T02:03:12+00:00

FDS is that for me. While it's not exclusively for women who don't want to date at all, it is about women's overall happiness, and for many women here, that means not dating. I've found an acceptance and like-mindedness here that I have never found anywhere else.

chateauduchat · 2020-11-06T02:38:48+00:00

Girl I’m feeling the same type of way. I’m planning my life as though I’m living without a man. Not alone though, I’ll have my best friend next door and we’re going to have dog and cat play dates and boost each other’s careers and go on vacations and make art together and sip lemonade and sweet tea on each other’s porches. 🙌🏻

LadyGrimes · 2020-11-06T00:39:12+00:00

Haven’t you heard? Women can’t be alone. Getting Sex easily=relationship because “muh penis” 😉

sorry I couldn’t be of help I don’t know any subreddits but maybe there is a Facebook group or something?

LadyGrimes · 2020-11-06T00:40:21+00:00

r/wgtow I'm there and also have no interest in dating.

Missybanana · 2020-11-06T05:29:21+00:00

I am seriously contemplating just being alone forever. It honestly doesn't sound that bad. I have a health condition that makes me really sickly if I get stressed out. I think I'm actually better off alone. Men have really cost me a lot of money, effort, stress... Thank the Lord for FDS.

2020-11-06T14:44:51+00:00

I don’t date at all anymore. I quit at the beginning of the year. This has been the best year of my life, and it’s been 2020, so that should say a lot.

I’ve never been happier. Ever. Give it a shot and see if you have the same experience.

Flufferly · 2020-11-06T07:09:27+00:00

If you like FDS, I might try some /r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy/ too. A lot of the same gals, but self-development focused.

MyDarlingGirl · 2020-11-06T03:54:33+00:00

Up there is /r/wgtow. Just know that some of the pre-FDS users can be a bit...unwelcoming, to put it lightly. They're used to it being more of a radfem/separatism subreddit.

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-11-06T15:34:30+00:00

I don't see any point in dating right now. I just broke up with someone and I feel very dissapointed, and I feel like I'm not interested in men at all. I might be depressed as well, but I'd been repressing my feelings for so long that I'm not even sure about that. What helps me is FDS, and focusing on myself, my dreams and my hobbies. I feel almost happy now, and who knows, maybe I'll want to date again, but my priority is definitely healing right now. Yes, FDS is great place for women who don't want to date ever again, because this sub is very supportive. We don't play devil's advocate which is so common and so annoying. We aren't judgemental if someone seeks help. We don't point out various perspectives.

staywiththecrown · 2020-11-07T00:11:43+00:00

Before FDS, the thought of being alone and unmarried terrified me. Now, I'm looking forward to it!!! I'm planning what my home will look like without dirty dishes in the sink and gas lighting lol

daisy_0720 · 2020-11-06T21:00:25+00:00

I've realized I've always been happier in the times I'm single than when I'm in a relationship. I've deleted my apps and have written off dating at least until this pandemic is over. I've not given up on the idea of love. But I'm not wasting my life looking for a man. If there's a HV one out there, he can find me and prove himself. But I'm pouring all my energy into myself.

The peace of mind that comes with being single is truly remarkable. I hate how destabilized I feel in relationships.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-11-06T05:41:35+00:00

I still casually date but it’s all about me 😈. Not ever looking for a serious relationship. I’d get real tired of looking at the same guy after a while

Automatic-Tart-8291 · 2020-11-06T02:05:43+00:00

I'm in the same boat. If a high value unicorn stumbled into my life, I'd be game, but I have zero interest in actively dating ever again. I'd honestly rather invest my emotional energy into family and close female friends. We need a cohort of women like us.

2020-11-06T10:07:19+00:00

Here honey

elizgeorgni · 2020-11-06T12:29:26+00:00

I’m the same! I’m not completely closed to the idea of marriage/relationship, but I will be so content being alone too.

purasangria · 2020-11-08T19:15:06+00:00

I have bouts of dating where I find what I think is a decent man until he gives me a reason on date 2 or 3 to refuse to see him further. Mostly, though, it’s one date and then he reveals something that I find completely incompatible with my desired way of being that I never see him again. Mostly, though, the men are so repulsive that never in a million years would I date them.

I’d rather be single than have an unattractive male messing up my home and my life.

Title	What if I want to be alone forever ?
Author	Icy_Celebrationn
Upvotes	123
Comments	33
Date	November 6, 2020 12:01 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jou8op/what_if_i_want_to_be_alone_forever/
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