“It doesn’t matter if he cheats as long as you know he loves you” - a friend of a friend. Can she be saved?

wayward_woman · 2020-11-05T21:46:08+00:00

If he loved you he wouldn't cheat.

LadyGrimes · 2020-11-05T22:10:30+00:00

If he loved you he wouldn't cheat. Love entails faithfulness and respect. Cheating is self serving and disrespectful on all counts.

cremebruleecakes · 2020-11-05T22:58:02+00:00

Does any woman really believe that? Sounds like a cope

Sage_Planter · 2020-11-05T22:49:49+00:00

Cheating is more than "he had sex with her." Sure, maybe he loves you, but he's also investing time, energy, and money into another woman when he should have been investing that in him/you/family.

whatprettygirlwhere · 2020-11-05T22:13:32+00:00

I think every woman has the potential to wise up, but it's not going to happen until she's ready. All you can do is model having high standards for how you expect to be treated. Maybe in time she'll start to think about what she's really worth.

werker115 · 2020-11-05T22:29:41+00:00

Eh keep her out of your ears and mind lol

chateauduchat · 2020-11-06T02:45:55+00:00

Is there doodoo in her brain? Because she is talking like she has doodoo in her brain. 🧐

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Title	“It doesn’t matter if he cheats as long as you know he loves you” - a friend of a friend. Can she be saved?
Author	blerty567
Upvotes	114
Comments	14
Date	November 5, 2020 4:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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