I worry about my future as a male. It feels like my constitutional rights mean nothing and I have no true legal protection from anything.

Wisemanner · 2020-06-11T12:07:40+00:00

A dystopian novel? It's already been foreseen in The End of Men by Carla Bowman. In my case, I am at that stage in my life where I shall miss most of it, but I really do think that the parents of male children need to wake up to what male politicians are allowing to happen, indeed supporting, presumably in the belief that it will not affect them personally and so don't care. People like Biden, for example, but he is only one of very many.

SvGamerevocator · 2020-06-11T13:10:52+00:00

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AlienID385325 · 2020-06-11T15:36:17+00:00

This is what we’ve been reduced to, men scared to even say or do anything because the system is so against us. It’s sick

CloudAreRed · 2020-06-11T13:41:44+00:00

Before such anti-male laws are framed, men are going to protest. As the society is feminized, men will become more conscious about their rights. Hopefully they will speak up. But suicide rates of men will increase.

As a male, I have survived a suicide attempt. I know many other men who attempted suicide but survived. Why should we work for a society that drives us to suicide? Why should we be punished for something that ancestors of our gender have done?

Now is the time for men to UNITE and fight just like they did in the wars before. But this time the enemy is different : It's all the women in the world.

Sir_Sux_Alot · 2020-06-11T13:35:39+00:00

You will feel like that till about 30. Then all the young women running around all crazy "empowering" themselves realize they are 30 and unmarried with no good job, stuck In a lower economic bracket. This is a gross assumption and not all women follow this pattern but enough of them do to make the point.

Suddenly any guy without a kid and a job is something akin to Zeus. Once they loose their looks it becomes a humbling experience because their free pass gets heavily restricted. Youth belongs to women. Yes you will be a beast of burden your whole life, but the golden years are your oyster.

rabel111 · 2020-06-11T23:34:57+00:00

My grandfather and his brother fought at Gallipoli, were both wounded on the same day. My father fought in WWII in New Guinea. My brother fought in Vietnam. My eldest son spent 4 years in the army.

What do I teach my youngest son? To fight for a country that denies his human rights, treats men like animals, and supports misandry, hate speech and discrimination that targets men? To be the feminist's thug squad?

It's obvious to me that fewer men will stand up to protect a country that shits on them at every opportunity.

2020-06-11T17:33:46+00:00

If we showed to us in 2015 how to world would is today 2020, our past ourselves would be terrified.

Oncefa2 · 2020-06-11T23:06:39+00:00

It's been this way for longer than you realize.

Look up Ernest Belfort Bax. He talks about how laws used to be defined to give men 10 times the punishment that women received.

If men survived back then I think we'll be fine in the future.

MountianMan8282 · 2020-06-11T17:10:22+00:00

It is scary. I’ve somehow become this racist bigot homophobe just for being a white person? I’ve always been a country boy, drove trucks to high school with hay still left in the bed, love America, come from a millitary family. I had many black friends in high school, some of who I am still friends with that are ex millitary now, who accepted me for me and I accepted them and we never thought of race as a deciding factor, we were just all human beings living in the same small town, they would come over and my white family would barbecue dinner and my black buddies would eat and enjoy and watch football with us and it was great....almost NONE of those friends talk to me anymore, only the conservative black friends, the others call me “white privileged” even though we grew up the same, and call my black friends house n*ggers because they’re friends with me and my family, same small town, same high school, same financial structure, all have similar trade jobs now, how is that white privilege? We come from the same? We are literally no different? they have completely cut me out, called me racist, said I am supporting a white supremacist. I’ve lost some of the closest people to me simply because of the color of my skin after this whole blm movement happened.

mhandanna · 2020-06-11T14:14:22+00:00

Look man, lets not turn into feminists. Men are not opressed victims. As a class, men have some problematic laws and areas. Some of them very big as they cover health, education and law. These are a quite specific though, and if you are not affected, then you are not affected. Women still do have a few problematic areas though not as many and there is more support... however, many women do feel like helpess opressed victims, especially privelged ones, so not exatly sure how good anything is for them. Ultiamtely, most feminists are miserable people, their activism is the only thing that gives them some light in their lives and acts as a cover for their own inadequacies

We are not opressed though nor are women or nearly anyone in rich countries.

Men have and always will do amazing things an shape the world around them. Thats why feminism is so scare of mens rights. Also feminism is allowed to exist due to more powerful men who use it. Feminism is a temporary trend that will pass just like hundreds of them have passed before it.

Jaja_Aureolin · 2020-06-11T19:53:52+00:00

The Problem is asking for 'equality' when Men and Women aren't equal . When Men and Women are made 'equal' , the Women will be allowed to tyrannize .

ApprehensiveMail8 · 2020-06-12T05:37:43+00:00

"What happens when all the current 3rd wave feminists become in elected positions of power? Judges? Law Enforcement?"

Don't worry about them, worry for them - 3rd wave feminists become their own worst enemy. Their own biases make them un-electable to positions of power, and they aren't getting any better because from their point of view the problem is everyone else.

Think Hillary Clinton's "basket of deplorables" comment or Elizabeth Warren's "we're not here because of men at all"

These were comments coming from practiced, otherwise polished politicians we're talking about, actively running to be President. They knew the mike was on. They knew it was going to be publicly broadcast.

How is it possible for a highly intelligent person in such a position to say something blatantly and pointlessly antagonistic toward a large group of voters they should be trying to win over?

Simple. As women they've been normalized their entire life to think they do not need to empathize with men.

For women, progress does not mean choosing your battles and learning to be happy when other people get what they want, even if it is at your expense. It means getting what you wanted, in spite of what men think.

Which is fine, but it doesn't help a person learn the most important skill in politics; non-selective\* empathy for others. The ability to see the point of view of the greatest number of other people.

*non-selective except by whether or not someone is actually eligible to vote for you.

LM1120 · 2020-06-11T12:09:56+00:00

No man has ever succeeded at anything with that kinda defeatist attitude. Chin up.

DubsPackage · 2020-06-11T13:02:51+00:00

9 scariest words of the english language : "I'm from the govt, I'm here to help you."

If these people were actually competent, I would be terrified.

I think women in bed with the powers-that-be are in for a nasty surprise.

2020-06-11T12:02:04+00:00

those seem extreme, change takes time. men will go for a revolution but that will be well after we're gone from this earth

Wolf0133 · 2020-06-11T15:57:45+00:00

Worry not. Its easy to be afraid because of how much bad things you hear, but remember that there are almost 8 billion humans, and how many feminazis are there? Maybe a few million.

Obviously right now some lawmakers are making bad decisions but itll get better eventually. I have no doubt in that, lots of people will wake up

alexd1976 · 2020-06-12T01:24:47+00:00

I've tried speaking up about this and gotten so much flak from people I thought were my friends that I wound up deleting my Facebook account.

I was expecting to feel sad about that choice, but instead I feel relieved. I mean, we see stupid shit like "silence is violence" being posted online...

Well guess what, morons (my former friends, I mean), you can't criticize me if you have no way to fucking reach me.

My good friends have my email and my phone number, they can reach out if they want to.

I'm just keeping my head down and only talking to people I am close to. All the SJW idiots and "feminists" of the world can go fuck themselves.

I have my own problems.

That being said, I stand with all my brothers, if only in spirit. But sorry guys, I'm not painting a target on my face anymore, they beat me. I'm out.

When the bad people get their way and society falls apart, I will continue to ignore their pleas for 'help' as my friends and I thrive in the strong community we have built together, raining fiery death down upon our former detractors who now want to be included in our safe bastion of sanity.

2020-06-11T17:27:07+00:00

One way to solve this is simply to never have kids. Corporations need their slaves, governments need their tar pit pawns, societies need their scapegoats, police need their criminals, pollution needs its polluters, and the like. Deny them what they need. I'm doing my part. They've been trying to do that in Japan and are failing, we can do the same here in English speaking countries.

Causal_Calamity · 2020-06-11T16:38:29+00:00

I told my dad about my worries about this, but the man's already 50 years old. He's finished raising me (I'm 23 and a college grad) so now he's basically just waiting to die so he can be with my mom again. When i told him about this, he kinda just shrugged and said whatever happens, happens. I don't blame him. He's done what he had to do.

But I'd rather die than have someone take my rights away. If some crazy shit ever happens like they start forcing men to do shit like being forced to join the military or being sent to re education centers so i can get the "rapist instinct" out of my mind, I'd kill myself. Ain't no way I'm letting anyone, let alone radical feminist women, tell me how to exist.

akihonj · 2020-06-11T15:11:25+00:00

You have a choice, stand up and start to organise and fight for your rights, with clear evidence of where rights have been curtailed, weakened, reduced or removed altogether.

If you do that what are the chances of winning, be realistic here, women vote in greater numbers than men, most men are actually very weak when it comes to women, wives for example, many men won't actually go against anything their wife says because happy wife happy life.

No politician is going to sacrifice their golden goose by saying no to women voters. Any female politician is automatically against anything you ask for, because she damages anything she wants to do so that's not going to work.

Add into that mix, for any action you call for you will get those who are and aren't feminists claiming fragile egos, of course that's just a shaming tactic but for a lot of men, in fact the majority it works.

Or your other options are this, push for greater numbers of women, let them take over, rule the world, Plato taught that all republics must fail, Sono matter who holds the keys eventually the castle will fall, put all women into all positions and when it fails they then have nobody to blame.

The last option is to walk away, don't engage when asked say what's the point, walk away and force women to take the reigns, and wait for it all to fail, when it does then you can negotiate as equals.

user_miki · 2020-06-11T15:43:06+00:00

They will be marginalized only those that read that dystopian novel.The less you "read" the higher your reach.The more "educated" you are the less you know about the world.Not all "educations" are equal.

ThirdCrew · 2020-06-13T08:08:58+00:00

I would like a executive position some day but I feel like it will be really hard as a white male since people want diversity so naturally I'm at a disadvantage.

Mister_Way · 2020-06-11T19:59:57+00:00

I wouldn't worry too much.

At the end of the day, men are a lot stronger, and an extremely unjust matriarchy would easily be physically destroyed by literal manpower in a way that oppressed women simply could never pull off.

Whereas feminists rely on men to give up their own power, men can simply take our power back from them whenever we choose.

If things get bad like you're concerned, men will not take it lying down.

Boeijen666 · 2020-06-11T20:37:17+00:00

I'm often worry about this too.

What I will never understand is how male politicians allow it. They obviously think it'll never happen to them. None of it makes sense and Im totally afraid for my son.

Lion_amongst_gods · 2020-06-11T21:15:28+00:00

It feels like

Well, look at the bright side. Your feelings are completely rational and not paranoid.

CassandraRaine · 2020-06-11T17:24:24+00:00

Just legally change to female on paper, not like it actually means anything.

2020-06-11T19:26:03+00:00

You’ll end up seeing legit incel terrorist attacks

qemist · 2020-06-11T23:23:07+00:00

So always inseminate only X. This gets massively downvoted, but logically if you believe things are worse for boys and getting worser, then you shouldn't be having sons.

toughassmotherfucker · 2020-06-11T16:38:24+00:00

don't be a pussy

Title	I worry about my future as a male. It feels like my constitutional rights mean nothing and I have no true legal protection from anything.
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Date	June 11, 2020 11:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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