Several things bothered me:

  • she was in the room but I wasn’t talking to her, why the fuck did she intervened?

  • I’m pretty sure the girl would have answered if it wasn’t for this bitch.

  • I replied with a joke along the lines of “... and she can tell it to me herself!”, but I actually wanted to tell her to shut the fuck up.

  • in the end, whatever influence I may have had on the girl I was talking to suddenly vanished when the other one intervened (social pressure and stuff), and it pisses me off.

  • extra thing: after she other girl lift, the bitch made a couple of jokes about us not knowing where she went for thr holidays. what the bloody fuck...

I can’t, unfortunately, put distance between me and her, and she also has this tendency to call you butthurt when she acts like a bitch and you cut communication.

I’m pretty sure she saw my question as intruding into the other girl’s business, but still, it’s not her fucking place to intervene... or am I wrong? Let’s say I was meddling into the girl’s business, does it authorize the other one to act like this?

What’s happening here? Why did she do that? And how the fuck can I put her in her place if it happens again?

EDIT: final thoughts, and the true reason this puts me on edge. I’m the kind of guy who meddles into other people’s business if there’s enough trust or I have the upper hand (socially), and I do it just for fun. I don’t take it badly if someone tells me to screw off, but I managed to become pretty much capable of getting what I want from others.

In my story, the girl I was talking to would have told me everything. Was I intruding into her own private life? Probably. Did I have enough SMV to get it from her? Most likely yes.

My rational brain tells me that, if I intrude into other people’s life, then I cannot get mad if someone does the same to me (in this case, the conversation). My rational brain also tells me that the bitch who intervened is trying to put me in my palce, and I fucking hate that.

Please, be honest: do I deserve what I got?