Wife threatening divorce when asked for a paternity test; pos

KarlingsArePeopleToo · 2022-07-06T23:18:14+00:00

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dukesaces · 2022-07-07T00:29:11+00:00

Everyone in the comments defending the wife's actions as though paternity fraud wasn't a thing. If the genders were reversed people would be 100% on board with paternity testing.

Men, don't ask permission from your wives to get a paternity test. All you need is some dna from the child. Some saliva or a single hair should be easy enough to obtain. Do the paternity test in secret and only reveal it if the results show that you are not the father. It isn't sneaky or underhanded to do this. It's pragmatic.

I understand that it can suck to be accused of cheating but Women are willing to divorce their husbands over the most banal shit now. Why the fuck are men still getting married ?

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-07-06T20:46:47+00:00

Better sooner than later, imagine being trapped with a hag that will threaten you to get what she wants at every turn.

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-07-06T21:47:57+00:00

A nice comment i found in the now deleted post:

There are millions of people out there who trusted their partners 100% and got cheated on. You’re asking him to stake his labour, his finances, his time and his love on blind belief in something that only you can be certain of.

Personally (as an adult feminist woman) I consider it to be a simple levelling of the playing field. Why not give him that same absolute certainty that is already and has always been your biological privilege?

sgt_oddball_17 · 2022-07-06T21:04:48+00:00

Sounds like she already Failed one test . . .

ForgotOldAcc-_- · 2022-07-06T23:31:30+00:00

Don't read the comments. It just gets u angry "I don't get the whole all men have a right on a paternity test thing" like WHAT. THE. FUCK?

do one. The stories of someone finding out years later aren't THAT common bur better be safe than sorry.

Also definitely do one before signing any paternity declaration (no idea how it's called)

onlyidiotsgoonreddit · 2022-07-06T23:38:49+00:00

For guys in this situation- you don't have to ask her. You can just mail in two q-tips and $100 and get your answer, and if it's yours, you don't have to say anything. She never even has to know unless she cheated.

KD_Ram · 2022-07-06T22:11:26+00:00

this kind of shit is why I am glad I am sterile. No paternity test, I'm walking.

Plus one would think that any woman would want to prove any neigh sayers wrong? because EVERY woman who did commit paternity fraud has said the exact same thing..."Of course it's yours, why would I ever lie? Don't you trust me?"

2022-07-06T21:12:40+00:00

Nah man. If not having a paternity test is a deal breaker for the husband, then that's his right. If being accused of cheating after a planned pregnancy is a deal breaker for the wife, then that's her right.

Relationships need to be built on trust. If neither party feels like they can trust/ be trusted, then either serious repair work needs to be done or the relationship has come to a natural end.

I can see where the husband is coming from and why he feels that way, but that is a serious accusation that has the possibility to lead to serious consequences. Neither of them is a pos for making their boundaries and expectations clear.

thisismymgtowaccount · 2022-07-07T06:37:48+00:00

A lot of the comments in that thread are bashing r/MensRights for suggesting paternity tests be a standard practice with all newborns. Many of are forgetting, or choosing to ignore, that paternity fraud is an epidemic. Thousands of people have been taking ancestor DNA tests in the last few years and they have been surprised to find out that their biological father is not who they thought. It's gotten to the point that the DNA companies will give you a warning beforehand, basically saying, "Hey, you might find out some painful truths, FYI. Are you sure you wanna know? LOL"

vaaralinen · 2022-07-07T05:47:18+00:00

r/IamATotalPieceOfShit

kit-kat315 · 2022-07-06T21:55:23+00:00

Probably for the best. If spouses don't trust each other the marriage is doomed anyway.

dependency_injector · 2022-07-07T06:43:53+00:00

How to say you cheated your husband without saying you cheated your husband

Top_Election3816 · 2022-07-07T07:27:54+00:00

Its a fake post. Peace of mind paternity tests do not require the mothers consent. Don’t bait yourself this easily.

archit1405 · 2022-07-07T06:26:43+00:00

Correction: bitch

2022-07-07T16:29:04+00:00

Why is it removed?

Trevs2000 · 2022-07-23T12:35:26+00:00

Why is she scared?

Wife threatening divorce when asked for a paternity test; pos

Crosspost "I'm pregnant, and told my husband a paternity test comes with divorce papers?" from /r/relationship_advice:

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Title	Wife threatening divorce when asked for a paternity test; pos
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Date	July 6, 2022 8:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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