Women are the Gatekeepers of Sex, Men are the Gatekeepers of Relationships

gentle_lemon · 2023-05-12T15:35:46+00:00

Given the current state of our gynocentric court system and the inherent liability of just being in a relationship with a woman, I don’t blame any guy for not wanting to be in a relationship.

New_Wrangler3335 · 2023-05-12T16:47:44+00:00

At a certain point dating women felt like taking care of a kid I adopted…. So much need for attention and love. Like a kid.

NationalistGoy · 2023-05-12T16:55:58+00:00

In my personal experience trying to get serious with a woman so quick has always backfired. If anything being busy with your life and not making a woman a priority works better to keep her interested. It sounds awful and counter productive, but that's what I have noticed.

Standard_Hat6784 · 2023-05-12T17:17:29+00:00

As soon as she is your priority, the tingles go away, and you can kiss any good monkey sex bye bye. Never under any circumstances put her above you.

silly_birb_Banned · 2023-05-12T17:34:52+00:00

Women wanted "sexual liberation" but the moment the man is free range fucking it becomes a problem...

How the tables have turned.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-05-12T18:38:40+00:00

Ewww, commitment to a woman over 25 in under 5 weeks? Fellas, you better not be doing this, she's single at 33, there's a reason, and don't commit until you found it out.

If she's a widow, that's a green flag!

Overkillengine · 2023-05-12T22:15:30+00:00

Of course she starts off asking the wrong fucking questions which reveals why she failed.

Her problem was not the timeline. It was how she treated him. She offered way too little and demanded way too much of a man that had options, as proven by her failure to lock him down.

Just another life support system for a vagina that has forgotten she does not have the same negotiating position as a debt free 19 year old virgin with no tattoos, and refuses to realize that older men have had time to become far wiser and far less desperate, and will not accept bad deals as readily as a young buck.

I'd like to point out what this guy did right.

He didn't lose his cool. He didn't try to aggressively argue her bad behavior away like some sort of autist. He didn't chest thump.

He dropped her a few subtle hints (overly overt communication and/or ultimatums are a sign of weakness to a woman), saw that she was too up her own ass to take them, and then ghosted her for better options.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2023-05-13T00:05:54+00:00

(F33)

Don't sweat it, darling. You've got all the time in the world.

You know what you need right now? Hot, drunken sex with total strangers. That'll give you the self-esteem you need to deliver ponderous lectures about commitment and monogamy to all of your future Chads. Remember: Issue your demands from a position of strength! The more sex you have, the more power you gain!

ragnar0kx55 · 2023-05-13T21:21:45+00:00

Women in America are all jacked up. Nothing surprises me! A good buddy of mine got engaged to a military woman. They have known each other a while and have been dating 2 months and lived together now for 1 month. She just got orders that are 2500 miles away from him and her home state is 300 miles from her new duty station. She already has a record of cheating on boyfriends and has dated women. My friend simps hard for her and done put a ring on it. What y’all think is gonna happen? I know! Divorce Grape!

Women have so many options and they exercise those options and by the time they’re ready to settle down they’re all used up, mentally deranged and can’t pairbond! I do not recommend relationship or marriage with women! I seriously don’t know what else to do. It sucks for us that actually want families and children!

jymssg · 2023-05-13T06:47:21+00:00

Lmao the comments in the original post are overwhelming supporting OP. One even said the guy was full of red flags. 😂😂

XanderS311 · 2023-05-13T11:11:11+00:00

The biggest mistake that women in this age group make is that they assume that their priority (commitment, provisioning) should also be a man's priority at precisely the time they need it most. A guy of that age with his life together has plenty of options, so they get a rude awakening.

anotherdumbcaucasian · 2023-05-13T04:23:54+00:00

Lol, she had the exclusivity too. She just ruined it by trying to be a better-than-you game-player. She frames it so she isn't the one that fucked it up of course though.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2023-05-13T16:08:41+00:00

He's great.

Why is he great? Because he never made her a priority. The second he started showing her the attention she wanted it would have been all over.

summerdoll373 · 2023-05-12T22:23:01+00:00

This post doesn’t really fit this sub… but damn can’t imagine being this naive at 33

Title	Women are the Gatekeepers of Sex, Men are the Gatekeepers of Relationships
Author	polishknightusa
Upvotes	196
Comments	44
Date	May 12, 2023 3:18 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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