What are the most commonly misunderstood TRP concepts for beginners (and even intermediate) guys in RP? | Ask TRP

AirForceNerd · 2023-05-30T16:29:29+00:00

I'm new to red pill. I've posted once or twice. Been here long enough to realize how much work I still need to do.

The hardest thing for me to conceptualize is frame. It's one of those things we all operate on, but are rarely made aware of it. I think I have a better understanding of it now, but when it was first introduced to me it just didn't click.

Beyond that, game in general. For me, things like agree & amplify and cocky/ funny are still hard to get the hang of. Shit tests are difficult for me aswell. I know what all of these things are in theory, but in practice it's much harder to say "oh that's a shit test." or "oh he just used agree & amplify"

Just my two cents. These are the concepts I feel like I haven't fully grasped quite yet.

danktype · 2023-05-30T14:44:02+00:00

I think people often misunderstand TRP for self improvement, but it's NOT self improvement - although self improvement falls under its umbrella. The Red Pill is just information or truth - uninterrupted and unmuddeled by any idologies or morality, Truth about action and consequences whether the consequence is positive or negative just objective reality and information sharing :

It can be used by people wanting to know how to attract women and have sex with them.
It can be used by people wanting to improve their body language and social and financial position.
It can be used by people going to gym to get perfect body.
Hell it can be used by people who want to destroy their life and just want to know how to do it - just follow the rules opposite of what trp preaches, you'll get there.
Or as recent post it seems - how to get meth legally from your psychiatrist - red pill for addicts.

However what The Red Pill is not - is false information, information that says you'll get that ONE GIRL that you have been obsessing over by giving her flowers and more time, that you'll get ahead in your job if you just know how to do things without being involved in office politics or that the world is a just place and just things happen to just people , that girls will fall into your lap if you do right thing ( True - right thing=right action, personality, status,etc) that money will come to those who does right thing - things which is good for others but bad for profit etc, etc. THAT IS NOT RED PILL.

iluvsexyfun · 2023-05-31T05:22:57+00:00

The hardest thing for beginners is shutting the fuck up.

30_characters · 2023-05-30T19:37:04+00:00

Cocky funny conversation =/= class clown or dancing monkey, or on the other extreme, being a pointless asshole.

rabbit_hole86 · 2023-05-30T18:30:16+00:00

Game and Frame. But I’m still very new and working through the sidebar. Commenting here in case anyone has advice on how/where to start learning this, both in theory and application.

hardly_incognito · 2023-05-31T01:30:06+00:00

Always text for logistics.

This rule is in place because most guys (especially early on) will blow it by texting dumb uncouthed jokes. Then once they get better with women, argue that you can’t text for anything outside of logistics.

Not opening up emotionally with women.

Men often treat women like their mothers, hence why the above is good early. This isn’t necessarily a TRP rule, but many men will assume they can’t open up at all to women. Once you know what you should and shouldn’t share, being emotional with women is how you truly unlock their beauty.

Calling girls they’re talking to plates.

This one is so ridiculous. If you aren’t regularly fucking her, she’s not your plate. A ONS does not make a girl your plate either.

319Skew · 2023-06-02T12:05:09+00:00

Most newbies don't understand nuance.

Also, they idolize a lot of strangers who they have never met not realizing that there are snake oil salesmen.

matei_o · 2023-05-31T14:08:39+00:00

Thinking it as a set of methods and condensed philosophies for success rather than a nature of intent and being a free thinker (not a cynic tho).

MichaelCeraGoneWild · 2023-05-31T03:56:18+00:00

Frame doesn’t mean you always get your way, rather that you’re willing to walk away.

You don’t need someone else to follow. You are going in a direction and inviting someone to join you or not

Codename-18 · 2023-06-02T19:37:35+00:00

Well Rollo Tomassi said "women are utterly incapable of loving a man IN THE WAY he wishes to be loved". Had he said "men have unrealistic expectations about how women should love them" bonus points if he added "they have the expectation that said love be akin to motherly love" he wouldn't have been misunderstood. Beginner's mistake.

Cautious_Rutabaga328 · 2023-05-30T15:19:23+00:00

Alpha versus Beta...

ElectronicMajorWolf · 2023-05-31T02:36:45+00:00

Simple explanation is that it is a self actualization and from there you see the other side.

Title	What are the most commonly misunderstood TRP concepts for beginners (and even intermediate) guys in RP? \| Ask TRP
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