This is something that always puzzled me and yes not all women do it but as someone from South Africa where this is not normal. Why do they treat the men like this and I often hear things like "X person offers better support or husband isn't good at emotional supporting" .

Then if that is the case why the hell did you marry that man or get pregnant with his child. Because the father will be expected to raise the child as well but gets left out of the most important moment of the childs life.

Can people who experienced this, explain this logic.