How do you stop shit-testing men?

Jenneapolis · 2023-06-21T01:44:27+00:00

I regularly probably daily repeat this quote from Laura Doyle to myself from surrendered single (but you could add girlfriend or wife here instead): “A surrendered single can’t control the outcome of a relationship so she doesn’t try. She hopes for the best, but accepts the uncertainty.”

This is basically it. If you are going to test him to try to get him to fail, eventually he will. Ask yourself why you’re trying to control and what you are hoping to achieve.

blushingoleander · 2023-06-21T13:43:42+00:00

Could you describe an interaction where you are doing this? It might help to see what shit-testing looks like for you.

Sankdamoney · 2023-06-21T19:53:58+00:00

The trick is to shit-test and vet him BEFORE having a physically intimate relationship.

desikittyy · 2023-06-21T19:13:57+00:00

I always sh!t tested my boyfriend… he passed like 95% of the tests. He’s soooo sweet and innocent, he stuck to all his values. 😳🥹

I think after a while you just know he’s the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and can trust.

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bluemorningstars · 2023-06-21T11:01:54+00:00

Could you define that term? I’m just not familiar!

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2023-06-21T20:23:57+00:00

What it's shit testing?

Title	How do you stop shit-testing men?
Author	brushshstrokes
Upvotes	15
Comments	18
Date	June 21, 2023 12:14 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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