I think both genders are so blinded by their own problems that they fail to realise both genders have severe distinct problems. Perfect example is when I used to work with homeless people. Most women will end up in an agreement with whoever the old fella, an exchange of sex for a roof, basically cos its better to be raped just by one person rather than being raped by multiple ones with no gain on the streets. Most men are just forbidden by everyone and no one gives a fuck if they eat or not. If you're a big guy theres literally no mercy, everyone is terrified about you and you ain't even getting a hello. Both are fcked, although in different ways. It's no better, just different ways to be fcked up.