Well, my wife is an excellent person, but she doesn't want to live with me anymore. The feeling is sometimes kind of mutual, but I do want to work out our issues, stay married and eventually live with her again. She is living with her mum, a few blocks away from my house.

The problem is that, for the last 3 months, she is not acting like a sane person. One week she says she wants to stay married and even have children, but when she's in a bad mood she comes up with some stupid argument about some trivial stuff and says thing like "We are not actually married" or "We should get a divorce" or something like that.

Then, a few days pass and she is back to "I want to stay married with you".

I should normally ignore her or give her an ultimatum until she makes up her mind, but I don't have the emotional strength. This has been one of the worst years of my life and I can't play games, but on the other hand, she is playing games with me anyway. Or at least I feel that way.

Do you guys have any advice on how to handle my situation?