How tf are women supposed to date (and enjoy dating) men when we know that men have such disdain and contempt for us? And hide this contempt?

kukkle1111 · 2023-08-04T19:26:50+00:00

We aren’t allowed to have any exes and God forbid if an ex treated us poorly y’all get jealous that he was able to treat us poorly for x amount of time.

Correction: You aren’t allowed to enter into a traditional marriage where the man provides and you stay home and do whatever the fuck it is you do all day if you’ve been with any men previously.

This still works to your benefit because it won’t stop Chad from fucking you. He doesn’t care because he doesn’t want a relationship or marriage, he’s got more pussy to get to after he finishes plugging you.

As far as average guys who want a relationship, who cares about them? They’re too ugly, broke and/or short for you.

ApprehensiveMusic351 · 2023-08-04T20:36:35+00:00

You're mad at guys that you would never want anything to do with anyway. You sound just like a femaledatingstrategy poster. Mad at good looking guys in real life that won't commit or cheated. And then take it out on unattractive guys online.

SubzeroTemps99 · 2023-08-04T21:22:09+00:00

We have disdain and contempt for you because the bodyshaming we receive is tenfold over what females get,

too short? No second date or even first

Too ugly? Same as above (idc that this affects females too, any ugly enough guy as their looksmatch will take a relationship, im not apologetic you cant secure chad)

Small or average penis? Starfish sex, mockery, lies, resentment, cheating, all of the above.

Go buy a cat for company and a giant dildo and just stfu already.

yorgysporgy · 2023-08-04T20:57:25+00:00

How terminally online do you have to be to think allpilldebate is representative of most men?

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2023-08-04T19:22:58+00:00

Who hurt you ?

rolurk · 2023-08-04T20:36:13+00:00

Then don't date men then. No one is forcing you to.

DurtyDanky · 2023-08-04T23:33:53+00:00

Starting to notice a lot of PPD women coming here and asking stupid strawman questions with obvious answers only for them to try and damage control while trying every possible way to make the men who aren't in the top 1% look like angry unreasonable sloth and chunk and the top 1% look like the good men with good personalities women should be chasing after.

ComfortableOk5003 · 2023-08-04T22:24:44+00:00

Men having standards grrrr bad

Men not having same opinions as women and thinking same way means they hate women

I’m gonna take everything over the top and lose the point….

This is literally all I got from this post

ace52387 · 2023-08-05T00:17:44+00:00

Gotta say; this place is really not a representation of normal men.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-08-04T19:32:44+00:00

>a common theme is “no hymen no Diamond!! Even if her n count was 1 with a serious partner who died

I never heard of a man shaming a widow for her husband dying and her not being a virgin for him. Go a link to that for us?

AntiHypergamist · 2023-08-05T08:16:41+00:00

Oh gosh you sure love playing the victims don’t cha

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-08-04T20:57:14+00:00

Tbh, I'm not sure how well anything said in a place like this represents irl

It's far from a majority of men here
Idk how serious to take anything because honestly I don't imagine it's all hatred for women as much as some people have legit frustrations they need to vent and might take it a bit too far but could actually be pretty decent men

DicamVeritatem · 2023-08-04T21:31:56+00:00

You forgot “no cherry no marry”. 😎

Southern_Fall983 · 2023-08-05T00:34:42+00:00

This is so off base it’s stupid

YetAnotherCommenter · 2023-08-05T07:34:52+00:00

How tf am I supposed to date men when I know so many men hate women, look down on us, and are able to hide it?

The men on this subreddit are not a representative sample of the average male person in Western society, so please keep in mind that this sub has a built-in selection bias that limits the conclusions you can rationally draw from it.

How tf am I supposed to date men when I know so many men hate women, look down on us, and are able to hide it?

Gender-flip this and men have the exact same grievance.

And you brag that you hide these feelings, so we can’t even tell who thinks this way and who doesn’t.

Women aren't telepaths. Women are fallible. Women are humans too. And yes, the sex/relationship marketplace has many issues like imperfect/asymmetric information... everyone has to deal with that. Welcome to the human condition.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-08-05T10:17:35+00:00

touch grass

Relative_Editor_2179 · 2023-08-05T14:10:50+00:00

How tf are women supposed to date (and enjoy dating) men when we know that men have such disdain and contempt for us? And hide this contempt?

I would say to use your personality detectors

How tf am I supposed to date men when I know so many men hate women, look down on us, and are able to hide it?

Same as above, use personality detectors

Like I have eyes. I see the stuff y’all write here and it’s awful.

Then close your eyes if you don’t like it

We aren’t allowed to have any exes and God forbid if an ex treated us poorly y’all get jealous that he was able to treat us poorly for x amount of time.

Maybe pick better if you don’t want to be treated poorly. Use your personality detectors

We aren’t allowed to have any dating or sexual experience (a common theme is “no hymen no Diamond!! Even if her n count was 1 with a serious partner who died). Any exes you hold against us.

Well then why why don’t you get married and then have sex?

We aren’t allowed to be older than like 25 or 30 or else you seethe that you are settling with us and constantly go on about how we looked better when we were younger.

Maybe get married before you are old then

If we make money, you still expect us to be homemakers and take care of kids like a SAHM. But if we don’t make money then you insist we offer nothing.

So you don’t want to take care of kids?

Y’all are mean and bitter.

Maybe then post somewhere else?

And you brag that you hide these feelings, so we can’t even tell who thinks this way and who doesn’t.

The tall white guys with square jaws do not feel this way

Eyesofmalice · 2023-08-06T13:16:04+00:00

You speak as though you were dating people like us anyway. You aren’t so really it’s a non issue.

Besides you’re not dating is because of how we look, so what we think or feel is irrelevant since for that you’d first want to know us personally and it’s not going to happen anyway.

Safe-Plane-2400 · 2023-08-05T06:30:27+00:00

I'll tell you why I hate women because I can't speak for other men. I tried to date with mo success and I'm 35, no it wasn't super models most of them I wasn't really attracted to because I felt I would have a better chance with. Boy was I wrong and not only that some of them ghosted me for being a virgin. So because of my experiences I decided to find a virgin women like me which is damn near impossible t find one my age so that leaves me with one choice go younger so now I'm a creep. So what am I to do m if the experienced women my age think something is wrong with me and I won't find an inexperienced women my age? Single mothers do not count because this would be my first relationship and that would be too much and we wouldn't be able to relate. To top it off women don't want inexperienced men in their thirtys can you imagine how that makes me feel. So explain to me why I shouldn't hate women?

Euphoric-Condition-5 · 2023-08-05T07:18:55+00:00

Don't even try. This is basically a blackpill sub, and they don't believe any struggles of women. Some dude here even told me that "nah, you can't be sure that you're hated" when i told him about all bullying, ignoring , insulting that happened to me only in 19 years of mine. You just can't suffer if you're a woman, smh

Dismal-Visit-756 · 2023-08-04T21:25:25+00:00

Then join the radfems or take the whitepill hope in the future will be more virgins and single male and females, dating and relationships stuffs are bs. Edit: Seriously u can easily go in a nightclub and find many hight educated white knight gigachadlites.

Dry-Line-5760 · 2023-08-05T02:05:21+00:00

With the popularity of the manospher and men's criticism of the dating market or the women in it, I also have wondered if women are becoming more skeptical of men or more unwilling to give some a chance. If you tell a woman you use reddit for instance I think alot might expect you at least have had discussion about a pill topic.

And alot of women would not date a guy who scrutinizes women this way

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-08-05T04:07:08+00:00

Nobody cares if you date or not tbh. Besides, why do you assume the men here are in the same dating pool as you? Are you trying to date the men here?

Safinated · 2023-08-05T14:49:43+00:00

We’re not supposed to enjoy it, we’re simply supposed to give men what they want. Because otherwise they will be even more bad and evil

Lovedbythesunandmoon · 2023-08-06T00:28:25+00:00

Not all men are like these autistic blockheads on Reddit.

FortniteAbobus · 2023-08-06T01:35:33+00:00

You shouldn't date. LDAR. Another stupid post from xx-oid.

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-08-06T13:21:54+00:00

Why are you even complaining though?You wouldnt even look at the guys here nor touch them with a 10m pipe if you saw our faces irl

Ok-Bell3376 · 2023-08-14T12:31:36+00:00

Don't date men then. There is apparently much more to life than dating and romance.

How tf are women supposed to date (and enjoy dating) men when we know that men have such disdain and contempt for us? And hide this contempt?

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