Has anybody experienced this? It's awful. I know this will sound like a humble brag but I have had panic attacks and been medicated partially because of this (off of them now I learned to deal with it). When I talk about wall here it's mostly about the behavior that women are anxious to find a provider and settle down closer to their 30's.

So I have a very high value boyfriend who was kind of a late bloomer and I've experienced ALL (3) of his exes come back and try to pry him away from me in one form or another. There is also a bunch of women from his past (high school mostly) who were conventionally attractive but never interested in him try to start things up and looking up my social media profile. By rush I just mean women from his past that he was at some point interested in, had some sort of short high school romance with. One of them even would kind of put me down to him without making it seem like she was talking about me. It's mostly over but it was weird to go through, and weird to be aware of because of social media putting everything out there.

I've dated before when I was younger and never experienced this, it seems like at a certain age the tables do turn and men are pursued the way women are used to being.

Anyways I am just looking for some discussion about how other women deal with this kind of anxiety, etc. Or any shared experiences, feedback, that kind of thing.