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Going Dutch

kroshkamoya · 2023-08-19T11:37:09+00:00

It's my observation that men who go Dutch on first dates aren't men who want to become providers. And are quite feminine or liberal minded....

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August 19, 2023

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Title	Going Dutch
Author	kroshkamoya
Upvotes	1
Comments	29
Date	August 19, 2023 11:37 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/15vdxnd/going_dutch/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/going-dutch.1228987 https://theredarchive.com/post/1228987

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Most young men will have an issue with a woman earning more. The older they get, the less they care. I’m also seeing a rise in men who want a provider woman, like you.

First, what do you want more? You clearly have put much more time, effort and money into your education and career. Have you done the same amount of work to find a man? Probably not. So you see your outcome. You have a great career that is now negatively impacting the other want. So, which do you want more? This is the big question you can’t change your choice in when you are older. If you decide finding a man is now suddenly more important than your career, after your career is already developed and you are single, then you need to change you and stop looking for a man to fit the spot you have saved for a man. The spot you have saved is for a man who pays for meals and fixes my car but doesn’t have an issue with me 2x salary.

Most men want women who have jobs. My openly conservative boo right now says he liked me a bit more because I have my stuff together. Progressive liberal men expect women to pull equal weight. Don’t mistake that with being feminine. That’s progressivism. Many feminine men will still pay for your date. I’m getting the vibe that you aren’t good at vetting men and you just want the princess treatment you think you deserve. But the guys you want have been wrecked in the dating market. You are crying to us with 1/5 the dating challenge they have. They think they deserve a non broke chick who doesn’t need princess treatment, like a lot of broke women want. Your dating chances would be extremely diff if you weren’t a career woman, regardless of your age and looks. Read the book ‘how to get a date worth keeping.’ His dating plan helps women vet better. You even sound condescending as fuck when you say ‘I’ll take a regular guy if he still spends his $40k salary on me 😇

If you make so much money, why aren’t you in therapy? You need to consistently work on mitigating the male energy characteristics and skills you are picking up at work. Your comment sounds very controlling, forceful, aggressive, and forward which are all male vibes. The women just keeps doing her, makes sure the methods are logical, and waits. Feminine energy changes her body for a baby, the baby doesn’t change the body. That’s how women are. We don’t naturally create holes that men fit into. We more naturally fit ourselves around men.

Edit: you are taking the non normal role of high earning woman with power. You need to accept that with this choice you have also chosen the non normal dating life. I think you are in a phase of not accepting your choices. :/

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