"I be feeling guilty for picking the wrong guy to build a family with".

ZZoMBiEXIII · 2023-08-25T13:58:58+00:00

Stop letting strangers go in raw, you lump.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2023-08-25T14:29:07+00:00

If there’s not a ring on your finger, you should assume nothing. Unless the guy is a psychopath, all his characteristics were plain to see. Women will see a guy covered in tattoos, with scars up and down his body and with priors and will claim that “they had no idea he was a bad guy.” I’ve known women who knew that guys were wife beaters (going back to middle school!) whom they still pursued. It’s been studied, when you are good looking, people ascribe positive motives you. This guy (if she’s telling the truth) was always this way, she simply put a positive spin on all he did : he wasn’t flaky then, he was “spontaneous”, he wasn’t temperamental then, he was just “passionate”. Such are the benefits of being attractive. Of course the inverse is true, the chubby IT guy who asks her out isn’t “bold”, he’s “creepy” , his jokes aren’t funny they are “vulgar”, “sexual harassment” or “rape culture”. Don’t let anyone tell you different, boomers and even Gen X types are all of the pre tinder/ pre online dating era, they’ve no clue.

KrazyJazz · 2023-08-25T15:00:57+00:00

"I feel so incredibly guilty I absolutely need to film myself rubbing my belly and post it for validation and clout. Awwwww. Thanks for the support. It's so sweet."

MastermindX · 2023-08-25T15:53:25+00:00

Translation: "I tried to baby trap this guy who was just a fuck-friend and he ran away. Now I'm looking for people to tell me it's not my fault, so I feel good about myself and don't have any reason to try to change what I'm doing or improve myself in any way whatsoever that requires effort."

Stidda · 2023-08-25T14:00:08+00:00

You weren’t invited to the main party, but you can indeed foot the large bill.

SceneAccomplished549 · 2023-08-25T16:45:27+00:00

Dear.... you let a man go raw inside you, I'm assuming you told him it was alright, you never took birth control, morning after pill, put and IUD in, or used any of the 13 different forms of contraceptives that are widely available to women at low or no cost..........

But it's his fault.

Gentlemen, this is another prime, and I mean PRIME example of women failing to take accountability or responsibility.

hibabygirl90 · 2023-08-25T14:16:00+00:00

I am sure he has an actual wife who he goes home to. Little did she know, she was the side chick

Overkillengine · 2023-08-25T17:34:58+00:00

Guarantee he had all sorts of easily visible red flags, she just thought her magical pussy would make him change when none of the prior women in his life and their magical pussies could do it either.

TheyShootBeesAtYou · 2023-08-26T00:49:58+00:00

It's almost like most cultures throughout history regulated sexual behavior for some reason.

Beneficial-Champion2 · 2023-08-25T16:06:19+00:00

Back to the streets for you, harlot.

Cristoff13 · 2023-08-25T16:37:26+00:00

She'd take him back in an instant if he called her up.

KidPowered17 · 2023-08-25T18:42:57+00:00

Not.

My.

Problem.

silly_birb_Banned · 2023-08-25T21:38:12+00:00

As Jordan "Bluepill" Peterson said : "Women are attracted by competence and narcissists are great at faking competence"

That's why the "baby daddy is not in the picture" the moment actual skills and confidence is required. But let's not worry since we will all pay for her mistake through welfare, even if you need to work extra hours just to pay bills !

Land_of_the_Losers · 2023-08-25T21:56:03+00:00

Awww don't feel down, pumpkin. You know what you need?

You need to find a new Chad, lick his asshole and let him beat-off on your face. Meanwhile, there are plenty of grey, lesser worker-bees with wallets out there. You can rely upon those nobodies to entertain you and make ends meet until you capture Chad's heart by letting him repeatedly perform the magic combinations of sex acts on you. Just keep licking and sucking whatever he says! It'll happen one day. You believe in destiny, right?

outhouse_wholesaler · 2023-08-25T21:35:38+00:00

Baby trap gone wrong

Joaquino7997 · 2023-08-25T15:08:49+00:00

You be sounding stoopid too.

Swipe left on this grammatical nightmare!

jasongraham503 · 2023-08-25T16:23:47+00:00

But marriage is a tool of patriarchal oppression….

yaakovgriner123 · 2023-08-26T04:54:58+00:00

I don't feel sorry for these women at all. These are the women who choose the worst men and treat every other dude like they're nothing.

PenelopeShoots · 2023-08-25T14:33:27+00:00

So she's not pro-choice? Or only pro-choice if the baby isn't Chad's? She wants her Chad trophy and to force a permanent connection, otherwise she's abort or go the adoption route.

NotChoCheese92 · 2023-08-25T17:01:01+00:00

When you're around someone long enough you'll see their true colors even in the smallest ways. She chose to ignore those small red flags that gave indications that he was an asshole who was likely to be unreliable as a partner and father, and continued to cling to him and let him knock her up. Now she wants to fish for sympathy after that predictably blew up in her face.

me_grimmlock · 2023-08-25T19:38:43+00:00

Straight dummy hoe

Performer_ · 2023-08-26T05:40:16+00:00

Woman enjoy being jizz dispensers then complain about the consequences named a better duo

chalkywhite231 · 2023-08-25T23:06:46+00:00

this is honestly a story as old as time.

DrDog09 · 2023-08-25T20:13:54+00:00

I wonder why the long text description other than to cover up the prego 'benefits'.

SonNarcisus · 2023-08-26T03:53:21+00:00

It is what it is… Women can’t help but to be attracted to the big strong alpha even if he isn’t shit… lol

Profitglutton · 2023-08-26T06:36:44+00:00

If she feels so guilty she could terminate the pregnancy like they fought so hard to have the right to do. But of course she’d much rather bring chaos into the baby’s life by bringing her into the disorder that is the life of a single mom.

SimilarJournalist603 · 2023-08-25T20:33:59+00:00

disgusting

Trace_Reading · 2023-08-26T14:05:40+00:00

How many times has she been on a talk show waiting for the results of a paternity test?

bedlam2018 · 2023-08-28T15:05:21+00:00

It's quite astonishing just how bad women are at picking mates. When the ball is in their court they self destruct.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2023-08-26T00:21:50+00:00

I feel for you. It can be tough to be categorized this way when you are simply trying to be chill or even when you are off by yourself. Negative attribution is brutal.

Void_____00 · 2023-08-26T11:43:14+00:00

As a short nerdy guy,I shouldn’t even bother with women and just focus on finances shouldn’t I ? It’s night/ day how my tall white and black friends are treated and how the rest of us are treated

Your_Supremacy · 2023-08-26T11:48:17+00:00

"I be" feeling pity for those who say "I be" due to their lack of education.

BigCountryExpat · 2023-08-27T03:14:34+00:00

ANy bets we'll be seeing her down the road looking for a bailout? She's not unattractive, outside of the fact that she let Da'Quwan bathe her Uterus in Baby Batter making a female Crotch Goblin... in fact IF she'd used her brain (I know... females have ZERO ability to reason) She >MIGHT< have been able to parley herself into a better relationshit... however... Now? She's Perma-Spoiled Goods that Ye Olde Ten Foote Pole is in use for... as in "Nope the fuck out" on this one....

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-27T09:17:29+00:00

Shes prolly thinking Time to call that simp I rejected to see if I still have a chance with him now

Chris_Cross501 · 2023-08-27T03:17:40+00:00

She doesn't need to worry. Single mothers are killing it in the dating scene as we speak.

philosophic_insight · 2023-08-27T05:22:11+00:00

The classic his daddy ain't shit, I'm sorry maybe you shouldn't let losers cum in you.

TwizzlersSourz · 2023-08-31T04:48:19+00:00

Failed baby trap.

I_use_both_hands · 2023-09-12T04:09:54+00:00

A lot of this stuff esp on tiktok is just clout chasing though. It's hard to tell who is actually legit and who is just looking for attention. It's like those videos of women who go on insane tirades about men, people find out who they are then inform their husbands who then get pissed off at them. I think this could be fixed if men actually paid attention to how the women their with are clout chasing. Or like those videos of women who brag about being girl bosses on their main tiktok channels, then on their secondary channels complain how life is soo hard being single.

havocLSD · 2023-09-01T13:11:05+00:00

Lol, fuck off and take responsibility for your actions

Dismal_Philosophy983 · 2023-09-13T04:48:06+00:00

She a dumb bitch fr, but I would support a charity until either she can get on her feet, or her kid can be adopted by a family with a braincell. I’d hate for the kid to get ripped to pieces or poisoned in some clinic to pay for her stupidity.

ClaimRegular6576 · 2023-10-26T22:32:09+00:00

I'm sure there's some Simp somewhere that'll come flying in with a cape in his back to save you. Trust me. We have more suckers now than ever in the history of mankind! You'll be fine, luv.

SolidSnake813 · 2023-09-28T15:13:15+00:00

LMFAO

Overall-Lawfulness12 · 2023-10-19T00:28:10+00:00

I don't see myself as a player type of guy I talk to a few girls and it usually lasts, I'm not like my friends who just hit it and quit it. But I've seen how they talk to girls and it's crazy how some women eat it up. 🤣 Like it's probably because I'm a dude and it's kinda obvious to me when another dude is just talking out of his ass to get in bed with a girl, but if you women can't see it y'all are either to naive or you're playing their game that you will lose as soon as you give it up

Comfortable-Car3273 · 2023-10-21T07:49:57+00:00

No one is perfect, it just takes two people who really love each other n to understand each other better than anyone else

classifiedLoner · 2024-01-25T21:16:42+00:00

You get what you fuckin deserve!!😂

MacSquawk · 2023-08-25T15:29:33+00:00

A guys happiness is not a green light to have children. It means he already has what he wants. Changing it all up forces him to change and you may not like the result. But dudes dumb for going in raw on a hot chick who is madly in love, if you are the best she has had, you are going to be the daddy.

1ndridC0ld · 2023-08-26T03:28:13+00:00

Since I don't know either side of the story but I do see one side making tiktok videos about it; I can safely assume who probably imploded the relationship.

Title	"I be feeling guilty for picking the wrong guy to build a family with".
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	351
Comments	115
Date	August 25, 2023 1:49 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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