I swore I'd find the right one and always work on the relationship. Never let it get to a place where divorce is a question. Monday was a good day. I killed it at work and everything. I was excited to share my successes with my wife and hear about her day. She came home and said she needed to talk. She is ending it. 11 years together 6.5 years of marriage. I gave up a promotion at work to move cross country with her for a PhD program and one guy hits on her at her part time gig. A job she doesn't need, because I cover the bills. Now she wants to leave and explore what's out there. I'm on a roller coaster of sadness, rage, depression, anxiety, yet somehow wanting to beg to make this work. What do I do? How do I calm down? How do I tell my family, friends, etc?

Only plus side here is she isn't seemingly going after much in the split just 50% of our first home we bought a year ago. Yeah we bought a home too. I'm so .... I don't even know what to call this. I have no one to talk to please impart your wisdom so I can find my way.