Men are, generally, incapable of actual romantic love (lust ≠ love)

DesolateDanse · 2023-09-25T21:53:51+00:00

Men can love, and they love hard. They sort of keep their loneliness/breakups/etc to themselves but they desire true connection with a woman, not just sex.

That’s why if you say “just see an escort” to incels they’ll get pissed at you. Most of them want a real relationship with a woman.

Hillwalker71 · 2023-09-25T21:13:23+00:00

Hmm, what experiences and/or observations made you arrive at this conclusion?

tengo_harambe · 2023-09-25T21:34:35+00:00

Men are generally straightforward with their motives. Women in general will manipulate and gaslight men in perpetuity for their own benefit.

fakachaka47 · 2023-09-26T01:34:23+00:00

Both men and women are incapable of "true love" because its an undefined concept that doesn't exist. Humans are animals.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-09-25T21:29:40+00:00

It's just the opposite.

Men are the ONLY gender capable of actual romantic love. A man will literally break himself in half to take care of his woman and her kids. A man will ruin his own life, forego countless opportunities for himself, turn himself inside out, and destroy his own physical, mental, and emotional health to make sure his woman has what she needs. A man will also spend his own money to show a girl a good time, for no reason other than she wants him to do that.

It's WOMEN who are generally incapable of actual romantic love. When a woman appears to care for her beta bucks husband (which 95% of husbands are), what's really going on there is her putting on an act to keep him where she needs him to be. She doesn't really care for him. She's manipulating and defrauding him to motivate him to keep breaking himself in half for her.

When a woman weeps or cries because she's afraid her beta bucks man might leave, she's not crying because she will miss the man or actually wants him. She's crying because she needs to turn on the waterworks to manipulate him. And she's crying because she's worried she might actually have to take over doing what Mr. Beta was doing, and have to supply the resources Mr. Beta was generating. She's not scared he'll leave or that she'll lose him. She's scared she won't have food, shelter, clothing, and money.

A woman won't do anything like showing a man a good time. When she does, she always has an ulterior motive. When she has sex with him, she's not so much having sex as she is deploying sex. She uses sex to get men to do what she wants, to secure resources, and otherwise to manipulate men. Women truly "have sex" and enjoy sex with Chad, but that's lust, not love. Women use and deploy sex with beta bucks men and with husbands.

So, no. It's women who cannot love. And because of this, more and more men will simply not have the opportunity to break themselves over rocks and anvils for women.

depressed_apple20 · 2023-09-25T22:12:43+00:00

People (not just men) are incapable of giving romantic love without expecting something in return. For example, women are not going to love you if you're not attractive, strong, have good social skills and have good status, women have to perceive they get something in return.

Dating is a fucking market, and we all are products with a price, and the higher your price, the better your opportunities will be in dating, this isn't just men's fault, it's human nature.

Sorry for being so nihilistic, but it is what it is.

Women aren't going to have a satisfying romantic life if they don't improve themselves (just like men), but at least they are going to have sex, but men aren't even going to get at least that, no, men aren't going to get ANYTHING if they don't improve themselves, they will be virgins against their will. Women are priviledged, they can get sexual abundance without any effort.

Money_Magician9572 · 2023-09-26T00:47:13+00:00

either you are just dumb or you’re trolling

Plaplaplaplaplap · 2023-09-25T21:34:54+00:00

Generally, pinkpillers are just closeted sociopaths

LicoWasHere · 2023-09-25T21:48:11+00:00

I don't think this is true at all I feel very loved by my boyfriend. He's understanding, patient, caring, and overall the sweetest. I'm sure others are capable of it too. But like someone said it is possible they sometimes confuse love with lust.

Hubris1998 · 2023-09-25T22:13:02+00:00

This is so untrue I'm not even willing to discuss it. Who hurt you?

onion_rings_addict · 2023-09-26T02:25:47+00:00

Love songs are written and performen by men and women

even if you personally had bad experiences you can't deny that fact

operation-spot · 2023-09-25T21:22:29+00:00

I think a lot of men confuse lust with love but I don’t think they’re incapable of it.

Comfortable_Bed6889 · 2023-09-26T01:28:59+00:00

You genuinely cant be serious. Men write romances like don quixote and romeo and juliet while women write fucking 50 shades of gray and twilight where theyre basic wh ores being pursued by armies of chads fighting eachother for them

allnamesweretaken5 · 2023-09-25T23:55:05+00:00

I don't doubt this honestly. I don't doubt it about people as a whole.

killjumpsteady · 2023-09-26T03:14:07+00:00

Never knew there was a pinkpill but as a dude i can 100% see why you would say this definitely disagree but i could see why it would appear that way

AssistTemporary8422 · 2023-09-26T03:25:13+00:00

I can tell you from personal experience as a man that isn't true. Believe what you want and womansplain to me how I experience love.

DonttouchmyPlumbus · 2023-09-26T03:30:58+00:00

“I hate to break it to you, but what people call “love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle, rise above. Focus on science.”

fastrogamer14 · 2023-09-26T15:37:47+00:00

Dumb statement. You probably had some bad experiences. Men can be very romantic, you just haven't met the right guys

YearnsToDestroySun · 2023-09-27T05:55:35+00:00

I actually agree with this a little bit. I've never fell in love and nearing 40.

I can't speak for other men, but for me, love (and not sexual infatuation which young men confuse the two) requires a strong logical component. We have to share healthy value systems, she has to be intelligent in a way I can respect (i.e. actually have insightful wisdom she bestows authentically; I can actually be impressed by her wisdom, not just fake it for her ego and thus sex), her opinions aren't stemmed from the social environment and well thought out, physically beautiful and good in bed. Maybe a truly impressive hobby or talent or two.

Such women simply don't exist while ironically almost all women unilaterally proclaim to be just that.

Women, on the other hand, can make such lists of requirements, and then throw it all the way for whoever gives them tingles or sparks or whatever and calls that love as just some "mystical, enigmatic force" that's out of our control and questions it no further the absurdity. Then they argue love is just no more than feelings and emotion - men don't function this way; we're logical, well, at least the intelligent, non-simpy men. Our love has to embrace our male logic, not dismiss it.

Title	Men are, generally, incapable of actual romantic love (lust ≠ love)
Author	chuserie
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Date	September 25, 2023 9:08 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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