How quickly do you sleep with a new partner?

LivelyLychee · 2023-09-30T00:27:16+00:00

We have a guide on how to navigate the first time you choose to sleep with a new partner in our sidebar.

gina_chua · 2023-09-30T10:04:29+00:00

With my fiancee right now, one month into relationship but really everyone is different and there's no hard and fast rule

ModernGrasshopper · 2023-09-30T17:35:28+00:00

When we are in a committed, monogamous relationship.

ivysaurah · 2023-09-30T13:39:58+00:00

It depends on the person and the situation honestly.. I had dated other guys (like a one date and then I wasn’t interested based on their behavior, etc). I had been with two other men age 19 before meeting my now husband. We had talked for a while and our physical attraction was very strong so we went for it very early on. 5 years of marriage and a little baby girl later, I would say it all worked out.

SeminoleDollxx · 2023-09-30T02:42:30+00:00

In this climate....as a successfully married youngish woman...I would suggest waiting until it is an official relationship. Once in a relationship officially STILL make them wait for a month to get to know them more. It's good for the respect and excitement to take it slow.

If you already have a child tho the rules are different.....cuz you didn't make the last guy take it slow before marriage clearly. No offense just saying it's how guys think.

You'll just rack up casual sex if you don't.

super_husky13 · 2023-09-30T21:07:26+00:00

After marriage

Montana_Equine · 2023-10-02T05:56:39+00:00

Wow, now I know where this is coming from. Ladies if you like settling for men lower on the totem pole then follow the sidebar. I can say as the first type of man who knows he's "out of the league" of nearly all women (even though I never met one who is in my league just to avoid absolute statements) I have deferred women to put myself in category 2 or 3. Here's the thing category 2 is category 3 if you play your cards wrong.

Category 4 doesn't mean the man has value or is quality. In all likelihood you'll be disappointed and divorced eventually. You should want category 1 man who you secure as category 3. What you're looking for is a guy who is out of your league but sees something in you, IF you have the confidence to be a ln outstanding woman in full. Or y'all can just keep telling women to stop trying for great mean and settle.

Suitable_Ad5971 · 2023-09-30T08:40:35+00:00

Several months minimum.

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flower_power_g1rl · 2023-10-01T18:04:03+00:00

It's different for everyone, but there is an RPW guide (see Lychee's post). First bf 5 months because I was young and scared. Second bf 2 months in when he first initiated it and I let go of that fear and had fun.

Title	How quickly do you sleep with a new partner?
Author	ComfortableHeron947
Upvotes	16
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Date	September 30, 2023 12:10 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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