How do you know when you’ve hit the wall?

CountTheBees · 2023-07-05T01:44:37+00:00

There's three ways this thread can go.

1) RPW veterans will tell you they're sick of hearing about the wall (check, post linked)

2) people will tell you the wall is not to be feared/not about looks/is less impactful than you think (check)

3) someone will go into excruciating detail possibly with truerateme style analysis about when exactly the wall has hit. I'm a fan of the kinds of people that do this, personally, they're just so honest. Hasn't been posted yet but it might...

So let's take a step back and look at the array of possible responses this post will generate... And consider - what do YOU need to hear, and why? Your post is very low on the details. Are you 23, are you 47? Are you single, are you partnered, are you married? Are you in shape or out of shape? Do you over rely on your looks or have you never had good social skills? There's so many other issues that could be impacting you, all of which more important than just "where is the wall?"

Jenneapolis · 2023-07-05T00:14:15+00:00

Fear of the Wall and Why I’m Sick of Hearing About It

Credit to by u/blushingoleander for linking in a recent previous post.

LateralThinker13 · 2023-07-05T03:34:01+00:00

How do you know when you’ve hit the wall?

When you awaken and realize that others no longer validate your self image as highly as you do.

JulesK00044 · 2023-07-05T06:00:57+00:00

Less male attention. The age they say is wrong though as if you look after yourself no one knows your age. I still get lots of men interested and I'm apparently well over the wall

angelicasinensis · 2023-07-05T03:19:03+00:00

Meh. I think I’ve hit the wall, or starting too- I loved drinking in the sun and have smoked on and off for 20 years- I used to get attention from guys, not so much anymore- But really I don’t care so much, my husband is attracted to me and my body produced 3 beautiful healthy kids. I’m focusing on my education currently and other things in my life :)

So my answer is you’ll probably know.

cohost3 · 2023-07-05T03:50:18+00:00

Happens at different rates depending on genetics and lifestyle. But unless an early death intervenes, everyone hits it.

People will always say something like, “I’ve seen 40 - 50 year old women who are still very attractive!” Sure this can be true, but it will likely not happen to you. They are the exception, not the rule. Reality is people will hit the wall by late 30’s, partly due to age and partly due to lifestyle changes (increasing childcare responsibilities, less free time).

The best you can do to combat this is live a healthy lifestyle and invest in a proper marriage. Feminine energy and caretaking ability is still incredibly valuable, even from someone post wall.

kitterkatty · 2023-07-06T09:13:47+00:00

Idk maybe I’m super clueless but I’ve always gone around in life feeling like I’m on the same level as guys. Just another guy. I grew up around cars and auto shops and mowed lawns and babysat for $. Homeschooled but no guys pursued me as a kid, except for the obligatory creepy old man in his 30s-50s trying to be pervy. Recently I only started getting ignored by male store clerks when I got into shape. It doesn’t make sense. Wheat rated me a 7 so not objectively ugly, I guess. My hubby and two other guys were the only ones who wanted me everyone else treated me like one of the guys lol well except for gross guys in the youth group who were just nasty and did dances to make people uncomfortable on purpose. But that always seemed like intentionally picking on the ugly girl.

Anyway idk when the wall happens lol I don’t even know what it’s like to have pretty privilege, unless that’s just common curtesy that I’ve mistaken it for and people are mean to others rather than nice.

MasterpieceFrosty938 · 2023-07-05T00:46:54+00:00

Hitting the wall is more so due to attitude more than due to physical appearance imo. You become skeptical and genuinely unpleasant and incapable of forming healthy relationships due to having too many bad experiences in the past. You become defensive and will chase away any respectable man as a result

jemelat · 2023-07-05T11:12:25+00:00

Late 30s (possibly even before that if overweight/bad habits/no skin care)
Receives almost no male attention (and constantly thinking that all good men are already taken)
Might still get sex (even from younger men) but none of them commits to you

Of course people will tell you it's not a real thing, but...

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